CuteBrat
Literotica Slut
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- Nov 16, 2002
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Thank you for keeping me out of verbal trouble.
I understand what you're saying. I would venture to say that, love or not, one should be careful with one's partner. Broken toys aren't nearly as much fun. Love definitely tends to soften the edges of sensibility even further.
I often rely on my One to keep my desires in line with reality and safety, even when I may have lost sense of both. For example, I have fantasies of being whipped until I'm bleeding, which sounds hot but just isn't particularly wise. He loves me, and I'm sure would like to fulfill that fantasy on one level, but overrules some of my crazier moments to keep me safe. A play casual play partner might not be as cautious or concerned.
Being whipped until you bleed actually isn't very dangerous. Its important that whoever is doing the whipping is skilled and experienced, and that he cleans his toys between partners. But I've been whipped until I bleed way more than once, and there have been no problems.
Sorry to briefly hijack...just wanted to correct a misperception.