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Old 06-04-2014, 05:05 AM   #526
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Oh, interesting!

Do you feel that's accurate? If so, why the gradual change?
I think the accurate part would be I am less interested in sex overall lately due to circumstances. Maybe that is where the vanilla part comes from.

Kudram, I think its the opposite, the less kink I have the less I feel connected with it. I didnt have much luck in finding the right person or maybe I have too high expectations, anyhow I am not lowering my criteria. So I guess its "if I cant have it the way I want I can do without it" thing.
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Old 06-04-2014, 08:21 AM   #527
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Well, I tried it again. seemed a little different and at the same time equally similar.


You Scored as Sadist (same)
  • Sadist................................71% (no difference)
  • Exhibitionist / Voyeur ...........68% (up from 50%)
  • Dominant ...........................64% (up from 46%)
  • Switch ..............................50% (down from 57%)
  • Experimental .......................39% (down from 61%)
  • Vanilla ...............................32% (up from 29%)
  • Submissive .........................14% (down from 29%)
  • Bondage ............................11% (down from 14%)
  • Masochist ............................7% (down from 18%)
  • Degradation .........................(omitted. Was 0%)

Since most tests want SOME answer opposed to NO answer, when in doubt, I put in "neutral."

3. Discussion of interests between my partner and I is important. (Grammar nazi knee jerk! "interests" being plural, means they "are important." ...right?)
10. I would rather always be on top than always be on bottom. (is this asking if I am vanilla or submissive? "rather" implies "a preference" while "always" means "always." Make up your mind what you're asking! - neutral)
11. I am into pornography. (When I was 20? I was an avid enthusiast. Not so much now. Because I'm jaded, I'm vanilla? - neutral )
13. I enjoy serving my partner and have a need to please them. (color me submissive but I like pleasing my partner. - agree)
14. I want to be worshiped. (if this is what it means to be dominant, then pass the vanilla cookies please? I want to be respected, not worshiped. - neutral)
15. Sex is only appropriate when you love someone. (Is this asking if I am old fashioned, vanilla, or an HIV statistic waiting to happen? - agree)
27. My role depends on the dynamic with my partner. (Not sure why but this question gave me problems, maybe because if you removed "on the dynamic," it would make more sense. However, I'm not going to break out the whips and chains if she is vanilla - neutral )
32. I enjoy wearing restrictive clothing. (Okay, so because I like form fitting clothes opposed to baggy clothes, I like bondage? - mostly agree)
36. My partner's satisfaction is more important to me than my own. (Is this checking my maturity level or dominance? - agree)
41. I have fantasies that unsettle me. (is this just asking if I think I am pathological? - disagree)
48. I wish that I could force my partner to do what I wanted. (Because I am a wimp that "wishes" instead of "doing?" - neutral)
54. I would love to film my sexual encounters. (been there, done that, got the t-shirt - neutral)

One of the questions that I couldn't find when looking to copy/paste it, asked something in a very grade school - you're damned if you do/damned if you don't - logical way.
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Old 06-04-2014, 08:32 AM   #528
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3. Discussion of interests between my partner and I is important. (Grammar nazi knee jerk! "interests" being plural, means they "are important." ...right?)
Nope. Singular is correct. Discussion of interests is important. However, it should be "between my partner and me".
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Old 06-04-2014, 08:45 AM   #529
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I dont know LWulf, I would disagree with some of what you said there. But I guess that is pretty subjective.

Take my example. I am a switch, leaning more to dominant side, more so if life gets hard or annoying. I have mild masochistic tendencies and more often sadistic outbursts. I get very stubborn when cornered. My husband is exemplar dominant personality, yes the kind that actually demands worship, can get very mean and brutal if he doesnt get his way, but is completely against any kind of corporal punishment for sexual pleasure. I cant even get a spanking.

The matters of satisfaction, pleasing, love, forcing each other to do what we want, can get really complicated in my relationship.

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Old 06-04-2014, 09:18 AM   #530
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I think all relationships are complicated StrayKat, but I guess that too is subjective.

At one time, a boss of mine was complaining about his sister and brother-in-law and their family. I replied "If it was easy, they wouldn't call it "family."

My brother has stolen from me (I'm not talking 'cookies', I'm talking 'cars') and has done numerous social improprieties, and likely he feels the same towards me.

He is still my brother.
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Old 06-04-2014, 09:26 AM   #531
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I think all relationships are complicated StrayKat, but I guess that too is subjective.

At one time, a boss of mine was complaining about his sister and brother-in-law and their family. I replied "If it was easy, they wouldn't call it "family."

My brother has stolen from me (I'm not talking 'cookies', I'm talking 'cars') and has done numerous social improprieties, and likely he feels the same towards me.

He is still my brother.
True, all relationships are complicated, some a bit more than others tho.
My first husband wasnt so hard to live with. Yes, we split, but it was never this complicated.
My mother is almost at the level of my present husband, but my father and I got along smoothly once I was out of puberty.
My daughters I had some hard time with, mostly because of the divorce and circumstances, but I always had quite an easy going relationship with them, more and more so as they get older.

So while I do admit that every relationship has its ups and downs, not all are so very complicated.

And I think I am earning a hijack queen title once again
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Old 06-04-2014, 09:35 AM   #532
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Nope. Singular is correct. Discussion of interests is important. However, it should be "between my partner and me".
Yeah, okay "discussion" is the object I guess, not "interests," but I would quibble on "my partner and me." Something still doesn't sound right to the statement but I can't put my finger on what.
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Old 06-04-2014, 09:40 AM   #533
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Yeah, okay "discussion" is the object I guess, not "interests," but I would quibble on "my partner and me." Something still doesn't sound right to the statement but I can't put my finger on what.
Does "between me and my partner" sound better? Or would you still prefer "between I and my partner"?
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Old 06-11-2014, 12:13 PM   #534
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82% Experimental

71% Exhibitionist / Voyeur

57% Switch

39% Dominant

36% Submissive

32% Bondage

29% Vanilla

25% Masochist

18% Sadist
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Old 06-11-2014, 01:05 PM   #535
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Old 06-11-2014, 08:36 PM   #536
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100%
Dominant
96%
Experimental
86%
Sadist
75%
Switch
39%
Bondage
29%
Masochist
21%
Submissive
0%
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Old 06-14-2014, 03:17 PM   #537
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Who knew...?



You Scored as Switch

Urban Dictionary: Switch- A person who facilitates between dominant and submissive roles within sexual relations.
  • Switch ---------------------------------- 100%
  • Bondage -------------------------------- 86%
  • Experimental --------------------------- 82%
  • Submissive ----------------------------- 75%
  • Masochist ------------------------------- 61%
  • Dominant ------------------------------- 57%
  • Sadist ----------------------------------- 43%
  • Vanilla ---------------------------------- 29%
  • Exhibitionist / Voyeur ------------------ 11%

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Old 06-22-2014, 06:33 PM   #538
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"Between my partner and me" is correct. I love this discussion, by the way.

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Old 06-23-2014, 03:54 PM   #539
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Old 06-23-2014, 07:29 PM   #540
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Experimental
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Bondage
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Exhibitionist / Voyeur
75%
Masochist
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Switch
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Sadist
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Dominant
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Old 06-25-2014, 12:38 AM   #541
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The sadist and switch scores are higher than I would have expected, but everything else seems pretty well on point.

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Oxford Dictionary: Submissive: ready to conform to the authority or will of others


Submissive
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Experimental
82%
Masochist
68%
Bondage
46%
Sadist
46%
Switch
43%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
32%
Vanilla
25%
Dominant
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