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Old 07-26-2017, 04:50 AM   #101
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Old 07-26-2017, 05:01 AM   #102
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Depends on your definition of "magic" I suppose. I get it you can connect with someone thru email and chats and what not but not so sure if I can really get lost in someone without meeting them. Something about looking in their eyes that I have to have. I can get close to someone without a physical touch but to me at least, that isn't gonna be magic. Magic in my world is wanting them by my side thru the laughs and the tears. Having someone hold on to me when I want a good moment to be great or to be there to ask me whose ass we need to go kick when I am torn inside out. I don't see that ever happening on a porn site or any online forum for that matter. I hope it does for you but don't hold ya breath.
Being true (to yourself), I admit that the problem you face is much more severe than my problem. I read your other post (on the thread that "adrift" started), also.

You see, I have experienced much of what you bemoan did not happen to you (yet), during my long life. And for me, what I am missing at this stage of my life, can in fact be accomplished by mails. So I believe, at least.

It is different for you, apparently. I wish you good fortunes with a happy ending, on your search for a life that is more fulfilling than what you experience now. Good luck! and keep up an optimistic spirit, if posible.
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Old 07-27-2017, 01:22 AM   #103
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This bit of your post is sort of telling:

"I am afraid that I belong into the category of men, who don't tick in a simple-minded manner. My relative openness and my inquisitive mind cannot be had without some "side effects", so it seems.

So I am afraid I must add a further qualifier to the description of the woman I seek: She must be willing and able to invest the effort that's needed to understand me. Without doubting my sincerity, when I tell her something that may go beyond her immediate cognitive capabilities. Some people are very complex human beings, and sometimes understanding them is not as easy as a famous new politician makes it out to be. ... In return I can offer the woman I seek my commitment to aim for an understanding of her as well, without any judgement, even if she should turn out as complex a human being as I am."

So you're basically saying you're a fair bit smarter than most other people, and that people who aren't as smart as you should just take you at your word. And then you sort of imply that you'd be surprised to find a woman as 'complex' as you apparently are.
This just comes across as condescending ... I'm not simple-minded, and have pretty well-developed cognitive capabilities, but I personally wouldn't put up with this level of arrogance, unless you had some fairly good references to back it up with (like, you actually are Steven Hawking). Obviously this approach works for some women, given that you have apparently had a number of successful exchanges with various woman ... but it pretty much explains why the number is fairly small.
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Old 07-27-2017, 03:09 AM   #104
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To answer this question id say because there are some women you may be compatible with but they are also geographically undesireable. Lit can overcome the geographically undesireable part.
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Old 07-27-2017, 02:16 PM   #105
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Hello "Better Knower" Kim

I had been wondering all this time, Kim, how long it would take, until you appeared on the Scene again. Ready as always to conribute your two cents worth of wisdom. As if anybody had asked you.

It truly never ceases to amaze me, what supposedly "insightful" observations you make on any of my ads. It does not matter, what I write, Kim the better-knower is ready and willing to contribute her "mustard" as we say in German.

I really wonder, what you get out of this?

I don't suppose you ever ask yourself, whether your sharp observations and conclusions might be faulty sometimes, by any chance? After all, you cannot look into my head, and everything you pull out of your bag of supposed "wisdom" is pure conjecture.

Whether that may be your opinion that capitalizing words means shouting, or whether it applies to anything else you wrote, regarding my ads.

Why can you not simply LEAVE ME ALONE, Kim, and complain about your neigbors or the stores in your community or what not else?
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Old 07-27-2017, 03:40 PM   #106
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Old 07-27-2017, 04:21 PM   #107
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I had been wondering all this time, Kim, how long it would take, until you appeared on the Scene again. Ready as always to conribute your two cents worth of wisdom. As if anybody had asked you.

It truly never ceases to amaze me, what supposedly "insightful" observations you make on any of my ads. It does not matter, what I write, Kim the better-knower is ready and willing to contribute her "mustard" as we say in German.

I really wonder, what you get out of this?

I don't suppose you ever ask yourself, whether your sharp observations and conclusions might be faulty sometimes, by any chance? After all, you cannot look into my head, and everything you pull out of your bag of supposed "wisdom" is pure conjecture.

Whether that may be your opinion that capitalizing words means shouting, or whether it applies to anything else you wrote, regarding my ads.

Why can you not simply LEAVE ME ALONE, Kim, and complain about your neigbors or the stores in your community or what not else?
If you don't want people to engage with the 'why do have I have such terrible luck with women on Lit?' question, maybe stop asking it.
No one can look into your head. All they can do is respond to the ways in which you articulate that stuff. I'm suggesting that maybe the way you articulate that stuff is partially the cause of the terrible luck (and really, I'm far from the only woman who's made that suggestion). Did you think that just maybe the women on Lit have some insight into why you're having so many problems with the women on Lit?

I will admit that the protracted (and multi-participant) discussion on your personal ad probably was a bit uncalled for - personals aren't really the place for that sort of thing, and I apologise for contributing to that. But here you're posing a question on a board intended for engagement with the questions people pose.
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Old 07-27-2017, 04:32 PM   #108
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I had been wondering all this time, Kim, how long it would take, until you appeared on the Scene again. Ready as always to conribute your two cents worth of wisdom. As if anybody had asked you.
The title of this thread is a question. If you post a question to a forum, you are asking people to respond. You might take issue with how people are answering, but it seems weird to argue that you didn't ask for responses.

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Whether that may be your opinion that capitalizing words means shouting, or whether it applies to anything else you wrote, regarding my ads.
"capitalised words = shouting" has been Internet convention for at least the last twenty years. That's not a matter of opinion, it's simple fact. If you want to ignore that convention, go right ahead, just don't be surprised when people interpret your posts according to convention.
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Old 07-27-2017, 04:36 PM   #109
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Why would a sensible happily married woman be on Lit?

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Old 07-27-2017, 05:03 PM   #110
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Why would a sensible happily married woman be on Lit?
A sensible, happily married woman.

Is it just me, or does that sound really boring?
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Old 07-27-2017, 05:52 PM   #111
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Why would a sensible happily married woman be on Lit?

I'll bet there are as many answers as members.
I'd answer it in another thread.
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Old 07-28-2017, 10:47 AM   #112
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I wonder whether we can finally end this discussion?

Bramblethorne and Kim, Pls tell me, how I can get the two of you off my back. Don't you have anything better to do than nitpicking on other peoples' ads? As I suggested to Kim already, there must be plenty of other things the two of you could do or complain about.

As a reminder, the post I started this thread with, is more than 3 months old by now!!! A lot of water has flown down, both the Rhine and the Mississippi, and many things have changed since then, so why can't we just leave those ancient words of mine alone? Unless of course the two of you are desperately searching for something to nitpick about, and you have not found any other victim than me.

The other ad that you picked on, Kim, is newer, but I posted that on a "personals" board. I should enjoy some "immunity" from you for that reason, shouldn't I, according to an unwritten code of decency?

Another suggestion I want to make for you, Kim: before you begin constructing an argument that a particular Litster has a bad character, I would recommend that you study the facts much more carefully than you do. I have NOT complained about bad luck in meeting women, for quite a while now. In fact, I am quite satisfied now. And even if I did, it would be none of your business. period.

I have told you numerous times that I can survive quite well without your "better-knower" advice; I could care less what your brain concocts up for me. How long will it take until you FINALLY begin realizing that?
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Old 07-28-2017, 05:21 PM   #113
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Bramblethorne and Kim, Pls tell me, how I can get the two of you off my back.
"off your back"? As far as I can remember, my comment above was the first time I'd ever interacted with you.

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Don't you have anything better to do than nitpicking on other peoples' ads?
...I don't think I've ever commented on your ads, have I? I'm not sure I've even read them.

Have you perhaps confused me with somebody else?

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As a reminder, the post I started this thread with, is more than 3 months old by now!!! A lot of water has flown down, both the Rhine and the Mississippi, and many things have changed since then, so why can't we just leave those ancient words of mine alone?
"ancient words"? You posted on this thread "]yesterday and I responded to that post two hours and sixteen minutes later.

If you genuinely want this thread to die, stop posting to it, and people will lose interest. But if you keep responding to people, don't complain when they also respond to you.

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I have told you numerous times that I can survive quite well without your "better-knower" advice; I could care less what your brain concocts up for me. How long will it take until you FINALLY begin realizing that?
For somebody who doesn't care what Kim has to say, you sure do seem to feel the need to keep replying to it.

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