Anomaly1964
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I have never thought of this before...
Maybe the conservative, mother of my kids is too embarrassed to tell me she wants a toy...that she imagines other men/women...?
I have been talking to someone about my wife, and no, I don't talk trash about her, I do love her...
That said, this person said that if they were to seduce my wife that she would be more likely to do things with them that she will not do with me because of what she feels my expectations of her are vs. someone new, that she would not want to say NO to some of the things she says NO to me about because she would be trying to please or impress them, that they could train her to be and do more with them than me because it would be a fresh start...
They feel they could train my very conservative wife to be a woman that craves and wants sex all the time because that would make the new person happy and because the expectations were set up and she was trained that way...
So ladies, do you feel this to be true? Could someone new turn you into a TOTALLY different woman than you are at home?
My first wife and I were in a full swapping relationship with her female best friend and friend's husband. (This was back in the very early 1980's.) My wife and I would have sex together and it was fairly conservative. However, when we got together with the other couple and swapped partners, she was a different lover in many ways. There were times I would watch her with the other guy and her movements, mannerisms and the way she talked were very different than when she was having sex with me.
We talked about it from time to time and when I first brought up the subject, she seemed surprised at first. She thought she was fucking him the same way she fucked me. I guess she got so lost in the moment she just didn't realize what was going on. Her best friend even told her, "When you are fucking MY man, you just sound different than when you are fucking your hubby." And, her best friend's hubby said the exact same thing about his wife and how she sounded much different when she was fucking me versus when she fucked him. It made for some spirited conversations now and then! My wife seemed to be more open to what the other man wanted to do, sexually, even when we were all in the same room together. Maybe it is the old saying, "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence", but who knows for sure? Sometimes, just doing something different brings out the differences in the way people act.
Yes in many cases this would be true. My own example. I have many submissive fantasies about being taken/used etc. But could never see my husband in a dominant role to do this kind of thing. I fear that if he tried such a thing, I'd laugh at him, cause that's just not who he is.
but I would gladly submit to someone who I believe to be truly dominant already.
After thinking about your statement for a bit, I think you nailed it. Another man, not necessarily a Dom, but a dominant personality. Someone who would guide you to new experiences more naturally?
It must be someone you feel comfortable with, taking the lead?Yes. If he was this way to begin with, I might believe him in that role. But that is just an example. It could be anything. Any type of personality. If it's just not who he is, I can't believe it, or feel it.
I have been talking to someone about my wife, and no, I don't talk trash about her, I do love her...
That said, this person said that if they were to seduce my wife that she would be more likely to do things with them that she will not do with me because of what she feels my expectations of her are vs. someone new, that she would not want to say NO to some of the things she says NO to me about because she would be trying to please or impress them, that they could train her to be and do more with them than me because it would be a fresh start...
They feel they could train my very conservative wife to be a woman that craves and wants sex all the time because that would make the new person happy and because the expectations were set up and she was trained that way...
So ladies, do you feel this to be true? Could someone new turn you into a TOTALLY different woman than you are at home?
I think it's true. I find myself doing things on here that I would never dream of doing with my husband because like someone said above, it's just not who he is