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Old 08-23-2014, 06:11 PM   #826
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Old 08-24-2014, 03:26 PM   #827
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Old 08-24-2014, 03:36 PM   #828
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Sorry about your Mom, DGE.

Cancer took my father several years back. The sense of helplessness was pretty brutal.
Thanks, E_N.

I'm sorry about your dad.

In one way I feel completely helpless. In another sense, I finally got information from her, even if that information was the last thing I wanted to hear. I also got wise words from a litster about the difference between losing someone suddenly, and losing them with at least enough time to express your love and say goodbye. I'm trying to focus on that, for now.

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I'm so sorry, dear.
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Old 08-24-2014, 03:58 PM   #829
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Putting treatment on hold for a couple weeks.
Taking a much needed sanity break and spending time with family and friends.
Heading to Nova Scotia. Ocean surf and lobster( before my taste buds change)

Powerful healing thoughts to all. And a of course a big

FYC
I have been thinking of you, in Nova Scotia. I hope you will write an angry FYC and slip it into a bottle and toss it into the waves.

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Thank you, everyone, for your love and support for SW and me.

Big hug, a couple of shots and a mighty FYC to you.

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Last night I got a call.

You have taken one amazing lady, my friend.
I hate you from the core of my being.
You gotta know that your small, thoughtful gestures were starburst fruit chews in the gravel for her. I'm sorry, daisy.

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Thoughts, prayers, karma, internet love and hugs go out to those who need them.

In the past, I've been a little cynical about these tenuous, ephemeral acts of internet kindness. My present, however, has opened my heart to as much kindness - wherever it comes from - as I can get.

My husband was diagnosed with ALS or Lou Gehrig's disease last November. We've only been together a little over two years. It took me a lifetime to finally meet him (a kinky hook up site success story!) and now our love story is going to be pretty short.

I didn't know much about Lou Gehrig's disease prior to this other than Lou Gehrig was a baseball player who got this mysterious illness. Now, I see it's devastating effects every day as my guy loses his mobility, his ability to swallow, his speech.

I will say all those cliches about living life to the fullest, live each day like it's your last, yada yada... I was cynical about those too!! And now, I try to dance like no one's watching, turn my frown upside down -- it doesn't matter how tired, how sad, how tough it is - I want to make every day for him, for us, wonderful.

I know this is the cancer thread. But I'm hoping this can be a general fuck you awful, ugly, random illness post.
Absofuckinglutely it can be. FYALS!!

I'm sorry about your husband, but you have a great attitude. ALS is such a fucked up, cruel and dickish disease. I have a friend who's been fighting it for five years and have become more aware of it for that reason. The ice bucket challenge has been a mindblowing godsend for ALS. That kind of cash and publicity is invaluable.

Keep up the fight and stop by the Church of FYC anytime. Our only creed is hatred.



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No more chemo and - alas - no super powers, either. We disconnected the portable IV pump for the last time this morning. Now it's my job to get healthier and stronger the old-fashioned way: diet, exercise, and watching bad movies.
Congratulations, MWY! How are you feeling? I am going to send you a big cake with FYC on it [disclosure: no, I'm not] so you can get started on the diet part.
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Old 08-24-2014, 09:38 PM   #830
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Congratulations, MWY! How are you feeling? I am going to send you a big cake with FYC on it [disclosure: no, I'm not] so you can get started on the diet part.
I"m actually starting to feel fine, thanks. I plan to start some light exercise tomorrow and a part of me wants to look for opportunities to speak to groups about the experience that is cancer treatment and on some ways to minimize the risk of having to do it. But don't tell anyone as it's just the baby of an idea.
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Old 08-26-2014, 07:25 PM   #831
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I"m actually starting to feel fine, thanks. I plan to start some light exercise tomorrow and a part of me wants to look for opportunities to speak to groups about the experience that is cancer treatment and on some ways to minimize the risk of having to do it. But don't tell anyone as it's just the baby of an idea.
Excellent. And talk about turning cancer into cancer-ade! Speaking to groups about your experience sounds like a tool that uses the MWY super powers for good.

Congrats.
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Old 08-29-2014, 07:49 AM   #833
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Can I get an Amen??!


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Old 08-29-2014, 07:54 AM   #834
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I just wanted to update everyone on SW. He was moved Wednesday to the VA hospice center where he most wanted to live. This new place doesn't have internet, so he won't be online for a bit unless he uses his phone. We do have a hot spot that I'll go activate if he wants me to. I'll see him Sunday so I'll visit with him a bit then.

I know he hasn't been able to get on here and post like he used to. I've been wary about posting updates because I want to insulate the people he loves most from what I'm going through. I do log in here on a semi-regular basis, so I would encourage anyone who would like to receive more detailed updates to reach out to me. You are all so important to him, and because of that, to me.

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Old 08-29-2014, 08:33 AM   #835
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I just wanted to update everyone on SW. He was moved Wednesday to the VA hospice center where he most wanted to live. This new place doesn't have internet, so he won't be online for a bit unless he uses his phone. We do have a hot spot that I'll go activate if he wants me to. I'll see him Sunday so I'll visit with him a bit then.

I know he hasn't been able to get on here and post like he used to. I've been wary about posting updates because I want to insulate the people he loves most from what I'm going through. I do log in here on a semi-regular basis, so I would encourage anyone who would like to receive more detailed updates to reach out to me. You are all so important to him, and because of that, to me.

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I don't think anyone minds if you post updates or vent in this thread, if you are comfortable doing so.
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Old 08-29-2014, 08:36 AM   #836
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Absolutely!!!

Not just good vibs, but awesome vibs, compassionate, kind, strong, vibs. And mostly vibs full of love.

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I just wanted to update everyone on SW. He was moved Wednesday to the VA hospice center where he most wanted to live. This new place doesn't have internet, so he won't be online for a bit unless he uses his phone. We do have a hot spot that I'll go activate if he wants me to. I'll see him Sunday so I'll visit with him a bit then.

I know he hasn't been able to get on here and post like he used to. I've been wary about posting updates because I want to insulate the people he loves most from what I'm going through. I do log in here on a semi-regular basis, so I would encourage anyone who would like to receive more detailed updates to reach out to me. You are all so important to him, and because of that, to me.

YK

Post and share what you feel you want to share.

You both are important to us.

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Old 08-29-2014, 09:46 AM   #838
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YK, sending you and SW lots of love.

You both have friends here who want to reach out and help where possible.

Fuck you cancer!!
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Old 08-29-2014, 11:46 AM   #839
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I just wanted to update everyone on SW. He was moved Wednesday to the VA hospice center where he most wanted to live. This new place doesn't have internet, so he won't be online for a bit unless he uses his phone. We do have a hot spot that I'll go activate if he wants me to. I'll see him Sunday so I'll visit with him a bit then.

I know he hasn't been able to get on here and post like he used to. I've been wary about posting updates because I want to insulate the people he loves most from what I'm going through. I do log in here on a semi-regular basis, so I would encourage anyone who would like to receive more detailed updates to reach out to me. You are all so important to him, and because of that, to me.

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Thanks for the update. I've wanted to know how things were going but didn't like to intrude.

Fantastic news that SW got into the hospice center of his choice. Good vibes all day long!
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Old 08-29-2014, 12:46 PM   #840
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YK, please know that whatever you choose to share or not share is totally fine. With regards to what you can share, please know your words are welcomed, supported, appreciated, and completely safe here no matter what they are. You are both nestled in my softest thoughts.

I'm happy to report that the west coast SW and YK antennas are polished up and working at full force.


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I just wanted to update everyone on SW. He was moved Wednesday to the VA hospice center where he most wanted to live. This new place doesn't have internet, so he won't be online for a bit unless he uses his phone. We do have a hot spot that I'll go activate if he wants me to. I'll see him Sunday so I'll visit with him a bit then.

I know he hasn't been able to get on here and post like he used to. I've been wary about posting updates because I want to insulate the people he loves most from what I'm going through. I do log in here on a semi-regular basis, so I would encourage anyone who would like to receive more detailed updates to reach out to me. You are all so important to him, and because of that, to me.

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Hugs and positive thoughts sent to you and SW. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 08-29-2014, 03:15 PM   #842
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@YK, we're going to be ok, but any updates you can manage to post will be met with gratitude and a smile. Please tell our guy that I think of him every day.
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Warm, positive thoughts to Sir W and YK. Sir W, you were one of the original regulars in this forum who made me feel comfortable enough to hang around. Thank you for sharing your wisdom here.
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