CutieMouse
Meticulously Flighty
- Joined
- Apr 7, 2004
- Posts
- 8,493
It was mentioned in another thread that D/s is time consuming... is it?
I would argue that D/s isn't any more time consuming than breathing. Then again, I don't believe [for myself, personally] that "scenes" or "playing" or dungeons, munches, the scene, etc is necessary for a D/s relationship.
Thoughts?
It is self-evident that people who do not spare the time will never opt for something very time-consuming. As far as I see it, no citation is needed. If someone comes along and purports that he/she WANTS to engage in a time-consuming endeavor and it is just impossible for him/her and that is why he/she does S/M in a professional dungeon every Friday night, then we will all address that person's problem with specific advice, such as "you must sacrifice some activity", "you could always change your job" or "sleep less" (I actually said that last one to a Dom who did not have time for me, but he did not see my side of things so he went along on his way, we are still friends though and he still plays the Friday Master with little girls, lol - extremely good-looking guy).
I would argue that D/s isn't any more time consuming than breathing. Then again, I don't believe [for myself, personally] that "scenes" or "playing" or dungeons, munches, the scene, etc is necessary for a D/s relationship.
Thoughts?