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Old 11-11-2018, 04:33 PM   #1226
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Man! The things I find when I go digging for stuffies.
Who on earth would want that?
Probably the same person that would dig these...

Ah, well. Whatever your fav stuffie, and whatever your choice in footwear, make it a bright and sparkly day for yourselves, littles.
Puck! You always find such interesting things!!!
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:11 AM   #1227
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Thank you cascadia. I think I need to post here soon, but life just keeps, kicking me.

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My stuffies make great projectiles. >.> plus they are handheld. Sissy is another story. She is perfect cuddle size.
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Old 11-12-2018, 03:56 PM   #1228
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Thank you cascadia. I think I need to post here soon, but life just keeps, kicking me.

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Cheechee and Precious:
My stuffies make great projectiles. >.> plus they are handheld. Sissy is another story. She is perfect cuddle size.
I have a little stuffie that is great for throwing ... but lately I am throwing pillows on the floor and stomping... you know it's necessary when I can't scream! But, the cuddly ones are definitely needed, too.
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Old 11-12-2018, 09:57 PM   #1229
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A Duty of Care

To say that a Daddy has a duty of care to his little is axiomatic - it is literally part and parcel of the role. We are all well-acquainted with the notion that Daddies look after the needs of their little one, up to, and including physical, emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and nutritional. Many Daddies have a harder time coming to terms with their littles taking care of them, although it is an act of devotion and service that cannot be praised enough.

There’s another element that seems to be slightly harder for some Daddies to come to terms with, and that’s the duty of care the Daddy owes to himself. The greater the power exchange within a relationship, the more important it is that the recipient of said power be as strong and reliable as possible. If someone is going to lean on you and depend upon you as a source of strength and security, you have to actually be there. That’s hard to do if you find yourself sick, injured, or dead.

For instance - you owe it to yourself, and to your little, to be as healthy as you can, to exercise and to eat right. Get your flu shot. (my personal soap box this time of year - lol). Also things like taking your safety seriously - wearing your seat belt and not texiting while driving. Daddies need to do everything possible to ensure their safety. In addition, you owe it to your little to avoid placing yourself in any unnecessarily dangerous situations and to be mindful of the things that you commit to. Daddie's belong to littles every bit as much as littles belong to Daddy's. As a Daddy, it is important to consider potential outcomes and to discuss these decisions with your partner/little before agreeing to place yourself into any sort of predicament or making any sort of promises that might put you in harm’s way.

Lastly, it is worth paying attention to your mental health. Perhaps notice your internal dialogue and the way you talk to yourself; the triggers and effects of depression and anxiety. We all need coping strategies in this fast paced and stressful world. Daddies need to ensure they protect themselves and preserve as much energy and sanity as they can for when your little needs you. Do not be afraid to lean on others and to develop your own support system so you can be the best you can be.

Daddies, take care of yourselves the way you’d care for your littles. Be mindful of what you eat, cautious in where you put yourself, and sparing with the commitments you make. Talk to your littles before you agree to anything, and make sure you don’t take any unnecessary risks with your health and safety. As capable and badass as your littles might be, they still depend upon you to be there for them, so make sure that you take the best possible care of yourselves.

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Old 11-13-2018, 01:31 PM   #1230
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I would feel like the world's largest jerk saying anything other than thank you, Cas.
I love you. I may suck sometimes, but I'm trying.
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Old 11-13-2018, 02:24 PM   #1231
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I would feel like the world's largest jerk saying anything other than thank you, Cas.
I love you. I may suck sometimes, but I'm trying.
You are welcome. And you DO NOT suck.
I really do not know what you are thanking me for... but I am glad to be of some small help.
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Old 11-13-2018, 02:52 PM   #1232
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That is a good reminder, cb!

I just want to take it another direction, because of my circumstances.

Sometimes Daddies get sick, and it's not because they aren't taking care of themselves -- it's just the way things go. They can't help it.

They begin to feel that they aren't "the rock" they're supposed to be, and they feel weak because their little is being strong for them at that point.

And all those emotions are okay.
It's okay to need us and let us help.

Loving someone doesn't change just because they aren't well, unless it makes us love you more.

*runs away to cry*
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Old 11-13-2018, 03:09 PM   #1233
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That is a good reminder, cb!

I just want to take it another direction, because of my circumstances.

Sometimes Daddies get sick, and it's not because they aren't taking care of themselves -- it's just the way things go. They can't help it.

They begin to feel that they aren't "the rock" they're supposed to be, and they feel weak because their little is being strong for them at that point.

And all those emotions are okay.
It's okay to need us and let us help.

Loving someone doesn't change just because they aren't well, unless it makes us love you more.

*runs away to cry*
Absolutely.
People DO get sick and have circumstances out of their control. Illness is NOT because YOU did something WRONG. It is sometimes just the way things go. Bodies are frail things (no matter how strong and tough and wonderful and baddass our daddy's are and no matter how amazing and wonderful and sassy and baddass we littles are). We get infected by bacteria and viruses and they knock us for a loop. our bodies wear out from use. We have things in our bodies that go wrong. We suffer from addictions and pain. We get cancer and auto immune illnesses.
We still love each other in spite of and through all of this. And it is important to keep in mind that no matter what is wrong with the person you love - people do not become their illness or their disease. They remain themselves. Remember to love them through whatever they are facing. Just being present is often enough.

Especially long distance we all feel so helpless when the one we love is facing something hard and scary.

(hugs bfg tight) and sends out hugs to anyone and everyone facing this.

I have faced this stuff myself. Being afraid about my own health and the helplessness that MrT felt in the face of that.

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Old 11-13-2018, 03:10 PM   #1234
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Wanders in.

Looks around.

Wanders out.
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Old 11-14-2018, 03:17 AM   #1235
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Just being present is often enough.

Especially long distance we all feel so helpless when the one we love is facing something hard and scary.

*sigh* I just feel like I keep getting it wrong. I'm trying.
See prior to three weeks ago I'd have drug Daddy back in here and sat down on him so he couldnt escape.... and I'd have played with his fingers while everyone talked. ( it's a thing).
Right now though, I know if I try to do that it'll go badly. So... I'll just try and lure him back here with promises of buying him a cool United hat....

And in the meanwhile *hugs bfg* and curls up in my Roses blanket, cause it's cold.
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Old 11-14-2018, 03:43 AM   #1236
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Thanks for the hugs!

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Abs

Especially long distance we all feel so helpless when the one we love is facing something hard and scary.

This is probably the worst feeling, next to the "what if something happens and I never know?"

I'm thankful E's family knows about our friendship and I have been messaging with his daughter.

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*sigh* I just feel like I keep getting it wrong. I'm trying.
See prior to three weeks ago I'd have drug Daddy back in here and sat down on him so he couldnt escape.... and I'd have played with his fingers while everyone talked. ( it's a thing).
Right now though, I know if I try to do that it'll go badly. So... I'll just try and lure him back here with promises of buying him a cool United hat....

And in the meanwhile *hugs bfg* and curls up in my Roses blanket, cause it's cold.
*wraps up in my blanket and plops next to Angie* I feel so Amish!

My desert has been 36° overnight this week...but I'm glad there's no snow!

Try to be patient with your Daddy (I know it's hard). Of course, with the promise of a hat, he might be around sooner than you think!

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Old 11-14-2018, 03:45 PM   #1237
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*sigh* I just feel like I keep getting it wrong. I'm trying.
See prior to three weeks ago I'd have drug Daddy back in here and sat down on him so he couldnt escape.... and I'd have played with his fingers while everyone talked. ( it's a thing).
Right now though, I know if I try to do that it'll go badly. So... I'll just try and lure him back here with promises of buying him a cool United hat....

And in the meanwhile *hugs bfg* and curls up in my Roses blanket, cause it's cold.
The hat would hurt my head right now
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Seems like this fits right here in this thread...
I know there are lots of serious discussions in here but it stumbled across my tumblr and it BEGGED to be put here.

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Old 11-14-2018, 04:40 PM   #1239
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Seems like this fits right here in this thread...
I know there are lots of serious discussions in here but it stumbled across my tumblr and it BEGGED to be put here.


It's perfect!

I've been told that before. It only makes me giggle again.
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Old 11-14-2018, 06:12 PM   #1240
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so, what iz?

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so, what iz?

etc.

Yayyyy! The GA has arrived!

How's you?
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Yayyyy! The GA has arrived!

How's you?
saddened. the rat race is grinding me down.

i need to get back to walking the Earth having adventures and shit.

on the plus side, i have looked after a coupla cool little dawgies in the past coupla months.

how's yerself?
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saddened. the rat race is grinding me down.

i need to get back to walking the Earth having adventures and shit.

on the plus side, i have looked after a coupla cool little dawgies in the past coupla months.

how's yerself?
People have a way of doing that. Doggies are much nicer to hang around. Their needs are so different, and they don't usually talk back.

I'm good, keeping busy but not too bad all in all.
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People have a way of doing that. Doggies are much nicer to hang around. Their needs are so different, and they don't usually talk back.

I'm good, keeping busy but not too bad all in all.
settled in now? it's been a coupla years!

long time since them kamikaze frogs.
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settled in now? it's been a coupla years!

long time since them kamikaze frogs.
Definitely settled in! Lol.

But, I would move if I could talk my parents into it!

Those frogs were priceless, and the band was, too! 😂

You still in the UK?
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Definitely settled in! Lol.

But, I would move if I could talk my parents into it!

Those frogs were priceless, and the band was, too! 😂

You still in the UK?
the band were great, the actual frogs less so.

yep, still in this shithole. give me saigon, any day.

okay, bed time.

have a good one, BFG.
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***all of them***

Nods hard. All. Of. Them.

@ Daddy... ok... settle for a United throw blanket? I'm not buying beer. I'd buy shit anyhow, wouldn't know the difference...
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*settles in with banana nut bread, hot chocolate, and Christopher Robin*
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