I've never cheated so far, been together for 14 years. Just awakening to realize that I'm in a passionless marriage with no excitement and the wife doesn't want to share her pleasure with me. So I'm actually considering it. If I could find the right woman or couple to take me in, I'd probably do it. But I'm looking for something ongoing and long term, not just a one time thing.
So far, the internet has not been a successful way to meet people for this. I am a busy professional so I don't have a lot of time for socializing and the clubs/bars. I hope to one day experience all the things that I long for while I'm still young and can enjoy it.
You may want to find out if she is cheating on you?
Just some strong advise!