men, do you want to see your wife with another man?

another male

We have other men in our lives. Several time at swingers clubs and one time at a regular bar. She also has started to enjoy other women.Fri we will be buying some sexy liengerie for a party on Sat the 6th. It will an interaciall party with lots of sexy blk couples. Cannot wait!!1

I get off to cuckold porn but never could do it in real life situation.

I'm single, but the idea of being married and having a wife who cuckolded me definitely turns me on.

I can't speak for other men, but for me it's psychological. I'm a classic beta male, and I always have this fear that while women might appreciate enough other things about me that they might actually be in love, I can't really expect them to be all that into me sexually. The idea that the woman I love would turn to some alpha male to satisfy her sexual needs while still wanting to have her other needs met by me is simultaneously depressing yet arousing.

It's a silly hangup, because not every woman prefers alpha males. And I know it's not impossible to think that I could satisfy my partner sexually. The first girl I ever dated was very experienced, but seemed to genuinely think I was the best she'd had. Obviously, I didn't believe her when she said that while we were together, but when things got ugly and she said lots of hurtful things but still seemed to want me sexually as much as she ever had, and still wanted to sleep with me after we broke up, I started to think maybe I really did satisfy her.

But my most recent long term relationship was everything I always fear my relationships will be. I was in the "friend zone" for months before we started dating. While we dated, the sex was terrible. It was so obvious that she wasn't into it, that I started saying that I wasn't in the mood (which didn't exactly help things -- she obviously never considered the idea that it's even biologically possible for a man to say no, and get very upset at me). After I dumped her, she wanted to get back together, and we remain friends. But there was never really anything but an intellectual and emotional bond there. No spark at all, at least on her end. So now my fear that I can get women to want to be with me but not to ever really desire me physically are just as bad as they'd ever been. <sigh>

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Ken65B said:

When we were swinging I saw my wife have sex with others many times. Both male and female and It was a huge turn-on everytime. I loved the feel of her pussy when it was hot, wet, and swollen from use.

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I have to agree with you whole heartedly Ken.
I too have seen my lady with other guys and a few chicks and it is a huge turn on every time. The best part is the sex afterwards while her cunt is swollen, used and leaking.
We have a gang bang club in our city that goes off once a month or so and it is especially for couples to go and the lady be gang banged by 10-20 guys or as many as they like and generally the man watches his lady getting her fill. This would be my ultimate fantasy for me I believe; to see her fucked by as many men as she could take in one evening (condoms of course), then have the pleasure of fucking her last and then driving my tongue into her knowing what she has just done. I wouldn't last long before cumming, that's for sure.
This is one of the hottest topics on Lit!

We have done it a few times, it is quite erotic, enjoyable, and quite a turn-on.

Mercutio_Me said:

I have the daily wish and fantasy to see my wife with another man who has a large cock. I am completely confident in my wife's love for me. Without this confidence, I wouldn't even entertain this fantasy turning into reality. I am away from home Monday through Thursday most weeks, and would enjoy her having a lover over when I'm not home who could maker her cum and give her attention. I'm not into cuckolding, so would need to meet the guy and have him recognize the gift he was being allowed access to, and that he is second male in the relationship.

The problem is that she is not into it and says that the thought of having sex with another man makes her feel uncomfortable. She loves sex and hands rubbing her, so I've suggested having another man over to rub her. I have to imagine that four hands on her to rub her (and use toys), two mouths, and two cocks, would send her to second heaven. It's such a fundamental desire of mine, yet she rejects it so fundamentally that I'm not sure where to go with it. Ladies- I would love to hear from you- what is your recommendation on how to ease her into the idea of having sex with another man, or letting two of us stimulate her at the same time?

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I would have PM my reply but you do not have PM active. Having done this with my wife my feeling you need to understand the difference between fantasy and it actually happening. In a fantasy you have complete control over how the activity plays out but in reality, the control you have is much less, which results in the actual experience being much different than the fantasy. This may mean for you that your wife may keep this as a fantasy, may take a few steps towards it before stopping, or may actually go through with it. Also, there is no there is no proven way to get her do it since this type of activity comes down to a decision about preferences and a decision about how much risk you are willing to undertake. The best thing to do is be supportive, patience, and give her as much time that is needed.

This is a very popular fantasy. What is needed is an agency who can assemble a stable of studs. The agency must continually check the studs, in order to make sure they're disease free. They would also, of course, have to check out the customers to be sure they're STD free. It would be difficult to organise such a thing, but if someone can do it, and build up a reliable reputation, there'll be people queuing round the block for their services (or servicing!)

Davide_UK said:

This is a very popular fantasy. What is needed is an agency who can assemble a stable of studs. The agency must continually check the studs, in order to make sure they're disease free. They would also, of course, have to check out the customers to be sure they're STD free. It would be difficult to organise such a thing, but if someone can do it, and build up a reliable reputation, there'll be people queuing round the block for their services (or servicing!)

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Ha, right. Then they could fuck my wife without a condom. My wife isn't fucked with a condom.

Though, I could probably trust a couple of my friends with this.

Yes have to admit the thought turns me on. Also have to admit it is probably the fastest way to end a marriage.

Hey all, I'm new here...this is actually my first post, but I would LOVE to see my wife with another man. Them fucking on the bed while I'm just stroking my cock watching them. Then when they're cumming, I run over and cream all over my wife's face.

well theres no denying mixed feelings about this whole subject, but not exactly conclusive

seems we have a bit of a split, about 45% want to see it, or are up to try it
55% say no

As I was reading through this thread again a couple comments really resonated with me. I'm not interested in cuckolding or humiliation at all. For me it's all about her pleasure and excitement. I'd love to be able to see her in the throes of absolute pleasure from a little more detatched perspective. It's kind of hard to just take in her beauty and totally appreciate her ecstasy if I'm busy working at it too.

I really want to give her the pleasure of 2 tongues, 4 hands and 2 cocks all attending to her desires. And while she's not that into the idea, she's not telling me to stop bringing it up either. It also occurred to me that there may be some video help for me out there. We like watching porn together if it's not too stupid or poorly made. I think if I could find some with two or three guys totally focusing on the woman's pleasure it could help start a conversation to see how much the fantasy might interest her. Up to this point, all we ever see when 2 guys are doing 1 woman is both of them whaling away at her just trying to get the money shot on her face or tits. Who does that???

Any suggestions where I can look? I asked for help finding a different kind of porn a few months ago and got a ton of great suggestions so I know the folks here know where to look. Thanks in advance.

Yes. I'd like for her to bring a man home, order me to prepare him for her - by sucking and stroking his cock until it was nice and hard - then I would be made to watch as he fucks her hard.

Want to chat about our wives with another man?

CutieTS said:

well theres no denying mixed feelings about this whole subject, but not exactly conclusive

seems we have a bit of a split, about 45% want to see it, or are up to try it
55% say no

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This thread will definately have a bit of a lean one way, there are a few that admit that in real life they couldn't or wouldn't be able to handle it. But there are a lot that say they can, although if the opportunity arose for them there's probably a bunch that would back out then too.

I, for one, would love to be given the opportunity to have that real life decision .

I definitely would love to see my gf with another guy-not sure she would go for it though. The closest she has ever was a quick flash of two of my co-workers while we played beer pong to distract them.

justherhusband said:

As I was reading through this thread again a couple comments really resonated with me. I'm not interested in cuckolding or humiliation at all. For me it's all about her pleasure and excitement. I'd love to be able to see her in the throes of absolute pleasure from a little more detatched perspective. It's kind of hard to just take in her beauty and totally appreciate her ecstasy if I'm busy working at it too.

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Love this theme. And the lover has to be better than the husband in every department, taller more muscular, better endowed, shoots much more jism and most of all, gives her much more intense orgasms

CAUGHT: The husband of this blonde lady from Florida suspected her of cheating. She was seen entering the home of a Nigerian businessman by a private investigator and leaving three hours later. Her husband recovered her panties from the laundry hamper the next morning, and the gusset inspected for sperm, then sent away to a laboratory for analysis. They came back positive. The small holes in the fabric of the gusset are due to the testing technique of the lab

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The husband of this blonde lady from Florida suspected her of cheating. She was seen entering the home of a Nigerian businessman by a private investigator and leaving three hours later. Her husband recovered her panties from the laundry hamper the next morning, and the gusset inspected for sperm, then sent away to a laboratory for analysis. They came back positive. The small holes in the fabric of the gusset are due to the testing technique of the lab

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That's cheating. This is asking men if they would "let" their wives have sex with another man.

I would if he will keep her

Don't like your wife?

CutieTS said:

Don't like your wife?

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hmmmm well the more I thought about it could never happen, she hates sex and will do anything to avoid it or the subject! So I guess that is a yes to the question or is it she don't like me

bronco_2006 said:

hmmmm well the more I thought about it could never happen, she hates sex and will do anything to avoid it or the subject! So I guess that is a yes to the question or is it she don't like me

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Aw! Come here for hugs & kisses honey!

CutieTS said:

Aw! Come here for hugs & kisses honey!

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Hmmmm ok haven't had any of those in a year

bronco_2006 said:

Hmmmm ok haven't had any of those in a year

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A year!? My dear! That will not do!



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