Anal Stimulation!

I've only been anally penetrated by one person in my life. it has been by my boyfriend. For some reason, men seem to really want to stick it up a gal's backdoor. Dont ask me why. None of my girlfriends ever requested it from me. Yet my man did. Had to admit I was nervous. I recall how it was.
He was in his dorm room, after a particularly tough day in which our school's baseball team, of which he is a member, lost to our arch-rivals.
He proved inconsolable. Went into the shower. I followed. He wouldn't let me come in. I banged on the door. He grabbed me and pulled me inside.
There he was, the switch-hitter who stole my heart. The boy I loved. Two years my junior, yet still the love of my life. I wanted to kiss him. He wouldn't let me. He just bend me over and took me. I was shocked, at first, but I didn't resist. He took me in the shower, with soap and water and his 'oil' as lubrication. Even weeks afterwards, I was still shocked. Not because he aggressively took me (he's a shy, non-aggressive type of guy most of the time) but because I simply rolled with it. I used to swear that if a man ever tried to take me like that, or even asked for it, I'd claw his face. And yet, when it happened, I willingly gave myself. I simply let him take me. Out of love, I think. I wasn't curious about anal sex.
I wasn't into it. Yet I did it for him. No words. No questions asked. Love makes you do crazy things.

Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but unless you two had a previous agreement of "spontaneity", I still think he should have asked. You were okay with it, which is good for his sake but still....it just dont seem right to me, grab someone who loves you and take them without asking.

PredatorSmile said:

I've only been anally penetrated by one person in my life. it has been by my boyfriend. For some reason, men seem to really want to stick it up a gal's backdoor. Dont ask me why. None of my girlfriends ever requested it from me. Yet my man did. Had to admit I was nervous. I recall how it was.
He was in his dorm room, after a particularly tough day in which our school's baseball team, of which he is a member, lost to our arch-rivals.
He proved inconsolable. Went into the shower. I followed. He wouldn't let me come in. I banged on the door. He grabbed me and pulled me inside.
There he was, the switch-hitter who stole my heart. The boy I loved. Two years my junior, yet still the love of my life. I wanted to kiss him. He wouldn't let me. He just bend me over and took me. I was shocked, at first, but I didn't resist. He took me in the shower, with soap and water and his 'oil' as lubrication. Even weeks afterwards, I was still shocked. Not because he aggressively took me (he's a shy, non-aggressive type of guy most of the time) but because I simply rolled with it. I used to swear that if a man ever tried to take me like that, or even asked for it, I'd claw his face. And yet, when it happened, I willingly gave myself. I simply let him take me. Out of love, I think. I wasn't curious about anal sex.
I wasn't into it. Yet I did it for him. No words. No questions asked. Love makes you do crazy things.

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Hmmmmm.....I think you may be a bit submissive and may not want to admit it. I must say, that is a pretty hot story. To me, I love to take a guy anally because it feels very exciting to me. I like the feeling of being dominated and pleased all at the same time. I feel pretty much the same if it is a woman doing my rear. I really like it. But I love the fact that you love your man enough to allow him to take you in every way. It is really very trusting on your part. Sounds like a really lovely relationship.

So nice to hear you boys talking about anal.

I'm a woman and have been into anal since I was an adolescent. I enjoyed playing with myself there and then found that my college boyfriend liked it too. Another boyfriend after him had done some reading and suggested I slip some beads up his butt and pull them out when he was cumming. I was delighted.

Been playing with butt ever since. I agree that loving anal doesn't make you gay at all ... if that was the case, women who loved anal would be gay, right? I liked that guy's test that if you wanted to spend your life with someone of the same sex you are probably gay. As far as I'm concerned, if you like having sex with both sexes, you are bi - whether kissing is involved or not. And I don't know how to break this to ya, fella, but a bunch of straight guys who like sticking their cocks up each other's butts ... is bi. It just is. Pure logic. Bi means you like having sex with either sex and sticking your cock into someone's butt is ... sex.

But if you like having sex with only women and also enjoy having your anus stimulated ... you are just a straight guy who likes having his anus stumulated.

I think all this curiosity among straight men to have a real cock up their butts has to do with your extreme adoration of your own cock. It seems to me ... guys are just madly in love their cocks. They think their cock is the coolest toy ever made. They love everything about their cock. They want to see their cock do a variety of cool things ... , they want to see the skin slide back and forth, they want to make it squirt far in the air and they want to stick it in as many soft, warm, tight, wet places as they can. They like to watch it go in and out of things (so do I, yum!) and so ... once they discover that they have a new erogenous zone - their ass - they sort of want BOTH erogenous zones to meet. If a guy could stick his own cock up his own ass ... I believe he would. Am I right?

But since only a few guys in India can probably do that, the next best thing is imagining what it would be like to have another guy stick his cock up your ass for you. But the thing is, unless you are going to be absolutely scrupulous with safe sex, that's a pretty big risk to take for an idle sexual curiosity. Also, some of you may have regrets afterwards that you can't shake.

If you really are not interested in the guy thing but are just curious about the sensation, I think it's better to buy yourself or your girlfriend one of those totally real looking dildos made out of that material that feels like real skin ... and slip that puppy in instead. They are unbelieveable and come in a variety of sizes. And feel so totally real it's bizarre.

I have one that is so big, none of my boyfriends have been brave enough to try it out - even though a few have had cocks that big themselves. What wusses!

I think a rule of thumb for guys should be that you must take in a cock as big as your own if you have been slipping yours into your girlfriend's ass. What's good for the goose!

Comments!

Love ya, guys.

Francypants

PS. Check out my stories in Anal ... I think you'll like them.

francypants said:

I'm a woman and have been into anal since I was an adolescent. I enjoyed playing with myself there and then found that my college boyfriend liked it too. Another boyfriend after him had done some reading and suggested I slip some beads up his butt and pull them out when he was cumming. I was delighted.

Been playing with butt ever since. I agree that loving anal doesn't make you gay at all ... if that was the case, women who loved anal would be gay, right? I liked that guy's test that if you wanted to spend your life with someone of the same sex you are probably gay. As far as I'm concerned, if you like having sex with both sexes, you are bi - whether kissing is involved or not. And I don't know how to break this to ya, fella, but a bunch of straight guys who like sticking their cocks up each other's butts ... is bi. It just is. Pure logic. Bi means you like having sex with either sex and sticking your cock into someone's butt is ... sex.

But if you like having sex with only women and also enjoy having your anus stimulated ... you are just a straight guy who likes having his anus stumulated.

I think all this curiosity among straight men to have a real cock up their butts has to do with your extreme adoration of your own cock. It seems to me ... guys are just madly in love their cocks. They think their cock is the coolest toy ever made. They love everything about their cock. They want to see their cock do a variety of cool things ... , they want to see the skin slide back and forth, they want to make it squirt far in the air and they want to stick it in as many soft, warm, tight, wet places as they can. They like to watch it go in and out of things (so do I, yum!) and so ... once they discover that they have a new erogenous zone - their ass - they sort of want BOTH erogenous zones to meet. If a guy could stick his own cock up his own ass ... I believe he would. Am I right?

But since only a few guys in India can probably do that, the next best thing is imagining what it would be like to have another guy stick his cock up your ass for you. But the thing is, unless you are going to be absolutely scrupulous with safe sex, that's a pretty big risk to take for an idle sexual curiosity. Also, some of you may have regrets afterwards that you can't shake.

If you really are not interested in the guy thing but are just curious about the sensation, I think it's better to buy yourself or your girlfriend one of those totally real looking dildos made out of that material that feels like real skin ... and slip that puppy in instead. They are unbelieveable and come in a variety of sizes. And feel so totally real it's bizarre.

I have one that is so big, none of my boyfriends have been brave enough to try it out - even though a few have had cocks that big themselves. What wusses!

I think a rule of thumb for guys should be that you must take in a cock as big as your own if you have been slipping yours into your girlfriend's ass. What's good for the goose!

Comments!

Love ya, guys.

Francypants

PS. Check out my stories in Anal ... I think you'll like them.

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God how I so love you! I have taken a few by the way bigger than mine. Through my data collection I can say that as in anything dealing with sex, it is the skill of the operator that counts.

sugarplumfairy_ said:

I'm a girl and I'm kind of interested in taking it up me bum just because everyone else is so fond of it. Um..is it really as pleasurable as people say?

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I suggest that if u really want it up the ass, right on in starting with fingers first, but for your first time be on your back with your guy holding your legs up so that your ass is in line and angle with his cock. That way it wont hurt as bad. Be warned tho- IT WILL HURT! But it does go away. After the first couple times you will be begging for it. LOL

I must, respectfully disagree, Shay.

Jesus Christ, don't scare the woman. The anus has more pleasure nerve endings than any other erogenous zone ... not only is it possible to NOT hurt at all the first time ... but I also think that for women, doggy-style may be the more preferable position.

The trick is to tease her ass so slowly that she begins to beg for it. Lightly touch her hole then flit away. Massage her cheeks and open and close them - just slightyly revealing her hole. Use your imagination. Make her wonder if you will ever touch it again. Make her WANT you to touch it again. And once you do start to enter her with your finger first, do it so slooooowly she can't even feel it moving. You want her never to have to defend herself against the penetration.

Once you graduate to your cock, do it the same way ... really lubed and so slowly you can't even tell it's moving. This way her sphincter won't spasm and tighten - which is what hurts. Keep purring to her to to relax and tell her you will not move it any faster than she says. Promise her that.

Doggy-style works much better for most women because the she can move and arch her pelvis to accomodate the best angle for her much better than on her back and also, her G-spot gets stimulated easier from that position.

Good luck!

(PS. All this works exactly the same way for you guys taking it in - just substitute your Prostate for the G-spot.)

francypants said:

Jesus Christ, don't scare the woman. The anus has more pleasure nerve endings than any other erogenous zone ... not only is it possible to NOT hurt at all the first time ... but I also think that for women, doggy-style may be the more preferable position.

The trick is to tease her ass so slowly that she begins to beg for it. Lightly touch her hole then flit away. Massage her cheeks and open and close them - just slightyly revealing her hole. Use your imagination. Make her wonder if you will ever touch it again. Make her WANT you to touch it again. And once you do start to enter her with your finger first, do it so slooooowly she can't even feel it moving. You want her never to have to defend herself against the penetration.

Once you graduate to your cock, do it the same way ... really lubed and so slowly you can't even tell it's moving. This way her sphincter won't spasm and tighten - which is what hurts. Keep purring to her to to relax and tell her you will not move it any faster than she says. Promise her that.

Doggy-style works much better for most women because the she can move and arch her pelvis to accomodate the best angle for her much better than on her back and also, her G-spot gets stimulated easier from that position.

Good luck!

(PS. All this works exactly the same way for you guys taking it in - just substitute your Prostate for the G-spot.)

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You are exactlly right my dear. This can be the numero uno intense erotic zone and can open up a world of unknown pleasures.....if done right. Slow and steady with lots of lube and fore play always wins the race. Do it like the guys in the porn movies, and you will harm your partner and fail your mission.

francypants said:

I'm a woman and have been into anal since I was an adolescent. I enjoyed playing with myself there and then found that my college boyfriend liked it too. Another boyfriend after him had done some reading and suggested I slip some beads up his butt and pull them out when he was cumming. I was delighted.

Been playing with butt ever since. I agree that loving anal doesn't make you gay at all ... if that was the case, women who loved anal would be gay, right? I liked that guy's test that if you wanted to spend your life with someone of the same sex you are probably gay. As far as I'm concerned, if you like having sex with both sexes, you are bi - whether kissing is involved or not. And I don't know how to break this to ya, fella, but a bunch of straight guys who like sticking their cocks up each other's butts ... is bi. It just is. Pure logic. Bi means you like having sex with either sex and sticking your cock into someone's butt is ... sex.

But if you like having sex with only women and also enjoy having your anus stimulated ... you are just a straight guy who likes having his anus stumulated.

I think all this curiosity among straight men to have a real cock up their butts has to do with your extreme adoration of your own cock. It seems to me ... guys are just madly in love their cocks. They think their cock is the coolest toy ever made. They love everything about their cock. They want to see their cock do a variety of cool things ... , they want to see the skin slide back and forth, they want to make it squirt far in the air and they want to stick it in as many soft, warm, tight, wet places as they can. They like to watch it go in and out of things (so do I, yum!) and so ... once they discover that they have a new erogenous zone - their ass - they sort of want BOTH erogenous zones to meet. If a guy could stick his own cock up his own ass ... I believe he would. Am I right?

But since only a few guys in India can probably do that, the next best thing is imagining what it would be like to have another guy stick his cock up your ass for you. But the thing is, unless you are going to be absolutely scrupulous with safe sex, that's a pretty big risk to take for an idle sexual curiosity. Also, some of you may have regrets afterwards that you can't shake.

If you really are not interested in the guy thing but are just curious about the sensation, I think it's better to buy yourself or your girlfriend one of those totally real looking dildos made out of that material that feels like real skin ... and slip that puppy in instead. They are unbelieveable and come in a variety of sizes. And feel so totally real it's bizarre.

I have one that is so big, none of my boyfriends have been brave enough to try it out - even though a few have had cocks that big themselves. What wusses!

I think a rule of thumb for guys should be that you must take in a cock as big as your own if you have been slipping yours into your girlfriend's ass. What's good for the goose!

Comments!

Love ya, guys.

Francypants

PS. Check out my stories in Anal ... I think you'll like them.

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I actually took your advice and got this one. OMG it feels SO real. I spent a day or two sucking it before taking it in. They are amazing!

Yup, that's the one!

Isn't it amazing? It looks so real and even the skin feels real and moves a bit on the shaft, just like a real one. And it has some weight, some heft to it. They come in a few different sizes, too. (Jeez, I should work for the company - I'd make a mint!)

Let us know how it feels!

Francy

francypants said:

Isn't it amazing? It looks so real and even the skin feels real and moves a bit on the shaft, just like a real one. And it has some weight, some heft to it. They come in a few different sizes, too. (Jeez, I should work for the company - I'd make a mint!)

Let us know how it feels!

Francy

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It feels.....filling! This was the biggest thing I'd ever put in there, took a few minutes to relax and get it in but oh my was it worth it. I still can't believe I took it all.
And you're right about the feel, it has weight to it, it sways like a real hard on too! It's as much fun to suck as it is to insert.

Anal is fun for all!

Here's an idea to consider...

I've posted this general concept elsewhere on the board before, but I've continued to give it consideration. I also have read a lot of the other posts from the men here who wonder about their hetero-ness, or their bi-ness (or perhaps their gayness). I too have wondered at length about these things, and have come to the conclusion that the desire to live the rest of ones lives with a ______ (fill in the blank) is the test for me as far as the gay question is concerned.

I love the look and the feel and the scent and the idea and the taste of a woman. Always have and I suspect I always will. I've had a couple of girlfriends- way back some years- who weren't afraid of things anal. One back when I was in my early twenties just loved to sit astride me and poke her finger up my ass to see the reaction. I was, sadly, too young to grasp the potential of this behavior and capitalize on it, partly because I was so intent on plowing her furrow with my tool and probably partly out of some embarassment. After all, I was the man, right? Wasn't it me who should be doing the probing of the orifices? Man, I remember the nasty look on her face. Alas, lost opportunities.

Another female friend a few years later just loved receiving a good rear-most reaming, and of course I was only too happy to oblige. This was unfortunately an illicit relationship, and I never was able to dedicate the time to exploring all the sensations we could share, and then I had to move for my job. This particular woman could have been a long term partner, but things were not to be. She was one of those rare gems who had exactly the right attitude about sex, as far as I was concerned. Do it, do all of it, don't do anything that caused a lot of pain, but everything else was completely on the table. She loved a big vibrating dildo in the front and a throbbing cock in the back. Got me to thinking....

So I started playing with my asshole. Finger first, then a little deeper, then the significant others vibrator (when she wasn't around of course), etc, etc. Suffice to say, I've explored the pleasures of stimulating my own ass to the best of my imagination and ability. I've got a custom made vibrating butt plug that I love to insert and then go to the store, run errands, etc. I love walking through the supermarket in the middle of the day, sizing up the soccer moms with a very pleasant smile on my face, hearing and feeling the buzzing in my ass. As I write this, I have three jumbo size ben-wa ball style pleasure beads in me, and I can get the little vibration by just rocking back and forth a bit. I love it.

But I digress......

My theory is this, and I base it largely on an intense, long term examination of my own situation and relationships. I'm interested in finding out if there are other men out there for whom this resonates, or if I'm the lone pervert, trying to comfort myself with the thought that I'm really not that different from everyone else, even if I am.

My theory is that lots of men find themselves in a situation where they wish to explore their sexuality in more depth at a time when their female mates begin to sort of "throttle back" in their sexuality. This explains much of the much-lamented male tendency to cheat on their spouses, when in fact they are just not ready to hang up the gloves yet. I've found myself in the position of wanting to stretch the sexual boundaries, and my partner - who I love dearly and deeply - is not on the same wavelength. To her, the sexual norm at this point in our lives has already been laid out. She's comfortable with it, wants to preserve it, is deathly afraid that I might find someone I like better. I have no desire for a different life-mate or even any other significant relationships, for that matter. I just love sex of all types, and I haven't tried all of the types that I might like yet.

I'd love nothing in the world more than to be able to share my anal fascination with her. I'd love to have her strap one on and do me every which way with it. I'd love to convince her to try it herself - something she won't entertain the thought of. I think it would be a blast to invite others into our bed together, men and women. She's made it clear that she'd freak at the idea of either of those encounters. I just want to play, preferably with her, certainly not without her. She just seems to want to retire.

So, what's a guy to do? I find myself more and more thinking that if fucking another woman is cheating, what wouldn't be cheating? Fucking another guy? The possibility wouldn't have even occurred to me when I was 20 or 30 ( too much of a threat to my hetero-ness ) but it's an idea I'd certainly entertain now. I (also like many others here) couldn't conceive of the idea of cuddling and kissing another man. Cuddling and kissing is for sharing with the woman, but fucking and sucking, well that might fly. And if it's another man I'm fucking and sucking, well, that's not really cheating, is it? I mean, that's not something that I'm taking away from my life partner, is it? The only thing that gives me pause is it is still keeping a different part of my life away from my life partner, and I really have a problem with that.

So really, what's a guy to do? I really enjoy the anal. I probably would share some of this with another woman if push came to shove, but I'd still really feel bad about that. Any thoughts anybody? Love to hear from the ladies, too, if they're inclined to opine. Love to find some other guys in the area to get together with and discuss this whole dilemma.

Well, I guess you know my take on this ...

It IS cheating, whether it's with a man or a woman. I know you feel that it would be less cheating with a man since you wouldn't have the emotional involvement, but you are trading that for a very real health risk. This means that if you DO have sex with another man who is into casual, emotionless sex you had BETTER NOT engage in any condomless sex AT ALL. That means no sucking cock, no rimming and no penetration without a condom on it - on either guy. No fluid exchange whatsoever. Or you are not only risking your own life, but your wife's. And wouldn't that be a kick? Giving your wife HIV or AIDS.

And I'm sure, if she found out you were fucking another guy or guys, she would not be grateful that you were staying with your own sex to spare her feelings.

Now that I have put a damper on your idea, I want you to know that I do understand your predicament. I think sex is a fabulous part of life and that the older we get, the more kink has a place in our sexuality as it adds newness and adventure. But I think, before you consider betraying your wife's trust with either gender, you have to be more courageous in letting her know just how important this kind of play is to you. I mean, you are about to break your vows and put both your lives at risk for it so don't you think it's important enough to make clear to her how much you need this in your life? If she loves you and you really open yourself up to her, chances are she will try to help you out here. And may get turned on in the process.

I will tell you a little story - entirely true. I met a guy here on Literotica, he had read my stories and emailed me. He was a neophyte anal kinkster ... and was looking for some guidance. We clicked and I gave him some pointers on IM ... we had some fun. He lived across the country and was married - there were no designs on a "relationship" but we had a chemistry and a little harmless on-line fun. I felt bad for him cause not only was his wife totally vanilla - she hardly wanted sex at all. And he was a hot guy.

So we would email back and forth ... sexy stuff. One day I sent him an email fantasy in which I played with him, spanked him a little and probed him. I didn't hear back for awhile - then I got an email from him saying that he was going to have to lie low - his wife had found and read my email. YIKES!!!

I felt awful for him ... and thought about him from time to time - wondering what ever became of him. Six months later he emails me and gives me an update. Turns out that finding that email was the best thing that ever happened to his marriage. His wife freaked and they went to counselling. The therapist said to her, "Ma'am, you are gonna lose this man if you don't wake up. He has needs and you have to wise up to that." And smart woman, she did. He says their sex life has picked up immeasurably and she has begun to play with him anally and be more adventurous.

So here's my point - Yes. You got a raw deal if you married a sexually adventurous woman who has started back-pedaling her libido and kink level once in the marriage. If she was vanilla when you married her - well, that was your choice. In defense of women, our society's persistant madonna/whore mentality can take all the oomph out of a woman who suddenly finds herself a mom going to PTA meetings and doesn't know how to reconcile that with fucking you up the ass. Some women may need help reclaiming their sexuality after being neutered by motherhood. They need to be told how beautiful you find them and how sexy they still are to you.

That said, I am SHOCKED at how many healthy women stop having sex with their husbands and still expect that man to be faithful. It's really very cavalier of them to think that a red-blooded man is just going to shut down his sexuality because she has decided to shut hers down. I, quite frankly, think she deserves to be cheated on or divorced if she doesn't "wise up."

But if your loving wife is happily having sex with you but just isn't as kinky as you would have hoped - I think it's up to you to seduce her into it. Work at it. Confess your needs to her. Show her articles about how healthy prostate massage is for you!

But please, don't cheat on her. It is devastating for a person to be betrayed like that. Have fun on-line and with yourself and consider yourself lucky to have found someone who loves you as much as she does.

Francy

sugarplumfairy_ said:

I'm a girl and I'm kind of interested in taking it up me bum just because everyone else is so fond of it. Um..is it really as pleasurable as people say?

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Cum on over and I will show you! I will start off real slow and work you up to it. It will take some time and I will make sure it is a pleasureable experience for you. Then you can do me with a strap on. This is unless you wish to do me 1st.

I just had to post here on this subject... I have to say I Love, Love, Love Anal.... I used to be soo turned off sexually by the thought of it.. Hubby finally sweet talked me into trying it.. I have to be truthful tooo. It hurt like HELL the first time, but only for about 3 to 4 minutes and then it was pure heaven. So ladies or Gents Try it you might just love it like I do. Now I only want to try the double penetration. I will sometime tooo. I know it will be lovely also...

*****

I like backdoor play. It's fun. To answer answer FingerMagic , I dont think of myself as a sub at all. I'm usually quite aggressive. I can play football and rugby and hold my own with my male friends. No, they dont hold back when playing against me. I dont whine over bruises either.
My brothers never held back when playing with me so it toughened me up.
I am very outspoken in my life. Everyone on campus knows I'm bi and the vice president of our GLBT Alliance. Some lesbians dont like to see a bisexual person in charge but I dont take bull from them. The only thing out of synch with the rest of my existence is that when I am in bed with my guy, I usually want to let go and enjoy the ride. I'd love to turn the tables on him and maybe get to play with his butt once before I die. Why ? i dont know. It's a fetish of mine, plus I love strap-on videos. We're both bi, so what's the big deal, right ? Whenever he's doing me, he tends to look all proud and stuff. Like, one time, I was lying on my back, legs up, with his "tool" up my yin-yang. He was smiling like he'd just won a prize or something. I got the idea of turning the tables on him one of these days. Have him lie on his back, legs up, and I'd use a strap-on and drive it up his butt. Unfortunately, I think he's scared of being penetrated. He confessed to me that even though he had a boyfriend before we met, his ass was still
virgin. Now, I look at his butt every night and feel REALLY tempted to....
you know. But I can't. Or can I ?

Can you?

PredatorSmile said:

Now, I look at his butt every night and feel REALLY tempted to.... you know. But I can't. Or can I ?

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You absolutely CAN. In fact, I'll bet money he's hoping you will. You must read my story Love Letter ... it's very hot and addresses the reluctant man and may give you some good ideas as to how to initiate anal play with your guy.

I have found that find that MOST men will melt when you play with their ass just right ... even the most macho and vanilla. I've been playing with boy butt since my college boyfriend asked me to stick those beads up his ass back in the 70's. Especially if he touches mine - I figure his butt is fair game.

Try using the technique I do in the story ... just don't whip out a strap-on and tell him to "bend over, bitch" when he's unsure - you'll scare the hell out of him and he'll close up. (That's for later, once you gotten him hooked! LOL.) But if you sneak it up on him and gently stimulate him there he'll begin to respond and then you can slowly make him admit that he's liking it ... that's the key to the reluctant guy. You have to get him to admit that he likes it ... only then will he be able to fully relax. If he's in denial, he won't surrender fully and that's no fun for either of you.

Some guys like for you to talk down to them while you do it but I'm, actually, not into the "humiliation" thing at all -- I like to sweet talk my man into it, tell him how sexy he is and how hot it makes me when I see him like that. There's always time later on to embarrass the HELL out of him if you find out that turns HIM on!

Another thing to try ... I actually have become quite the spanker and have found that some men get super-turned on by being laid across my lap and getting a bare-bottom spanking first. It stimulates the anus indirectly and also gets him in a submissive state - real quick. It can be a soft spanking or a really strong one but most men I have spanked were hard as rocks and dripping over my lap.

Read the story then go for it, gal. And let us know what happens!

Francy

Loved your story ... verrry hot.

bi_asian_guy said:

Francy that was a beautiful posting. Like the guy you replied to, I am married to someone who just isn't into sex much and I'm torn about my needs to play anally (giving and receiving). I just don't want to cheat on her, and I worry that my needs are just going to get worse the longer they are unfulfilled. I'm contemplating forwarding your posting on to her to nudge her nicely (and I guess to reveal to her the extent of my needs)... Hmmm...!

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I love the idea of watching two really masculine bi-guys fuck each other. Would love to join in!

I think you should definitely send your wife my message or send her the link to Love Letter to a Sleeping Man It's a very vanilla approach to anal sex. She may warm up to it. And I think you shoud always try your wife before imagining looking elsewhere. I hate to say this, but it's my experience that the older men get, the more they love anal. The massage there is just such a great feeling ... and even when the cock is less reliable, the ass is still willing.

Good luck!

Francy

PS. By the way, double penetration is always a guaranteed orgasm with me for those gals who are wondering what it's like.

I Want To See @ Bi Guys Fuck Each Other!!!!

Baskin Robbins said:

I Want To See @ Bi Guys Fuck Each Other!!!!

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Me too. It's one of my top three sexual fantasies. To be with two guys at the same time. Two hot, sexy bi-studs. My bf isn't into it...yet. Oh, and I want one of them in my front door and one in my back door. Then, I want to see them do each other while I watch. Finally, I want to go down on them both.

PredatorSmile said:

I like backdoor play. It's fun. To answer answer FingerMagic , I dont think of myself as a sub at all. I'm usually quite aggressive. I can play football and rugby and hold my own with my male friends. No, they dont hold back when playing against me. I dont whine over bruises either.
My brothers never held back when playing with me so it toughened me up.
I am very outspoken in my life. Everyone on campus knows I'm bi and the vice president of our GLBT Alliance. Some lesbians dont like to see a bisexual person in charge but I dont take bull from them. The only thing out of synch with the rest of my existence is that when I am in bed with my guy, I usually want to let go and enjoy the ride. I'd love to turn the tables on him and maybe get to play with his butt once before I die. Why ? i dont know. It's a fetish of mine, plus I love strap-on videos. We're both bi, so what's the big deal, right ? Whenever he's doing me, he tends to look all proud and stuff. Like, one time, I was lying on my back, legs up, with his "tool" up my yin-yang. He was smiling like he'd just won a prize or something. I got the idea of turning the tables on him one of these days. Have him lie on his back, legs up, and I'd use a strap-on and drive it up his butt. Unfortunately, I think he's scared of being penetrated. He confessed to me that even though he had a boyfriend before we met, his ass was still
virgin. Now, I look at his butt every night and feel REALLY tempted to....
you know. But I can't. Or can I ?

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You can and I bet he would enjoy it (I know I would!!) Just be gentle at first.

PredatorSmile said:

Me too. It's one of my top three sexual fantasies. To be with two guys at the same time. Two hot, sexy bi-studs. My bf isn't into it...yet. Oh, and I want one of them in my front door and one in my back door. Then, I want to see them do each other while I watch. Finally, I want to go down on them both.

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Man, I love your fantasies. I bet when he is ready, he will too. Ya'll sound like you got a great relationship. Good times to come.

tonycurinmass said:

I actually took your advice and got this one. OMG it feels SO real. I spent a day or two sucking it before taking it in. They are amazing!

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Where can I buy one like that without having to order it. I have been to a few sex shops in my area and I can't find one like that. What is the average cost?
Thanks