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Does twisting her nipples count as romance?
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Does twisting her nipples count as romance?
Does twisting her nipples count as romance?
So for the sake of argument, let's define romantic in this way: Inclined toward or suggestive of the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
Men are typically not "romantic".
Men are more Inclined toward or suggestive of the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with dirty, dirty sex.
So what would you call that?
That's just it. After so many years together are there couples out there that still have a spark and the "hots" for their spouse? Still look at the person and think damn I want him/her. Is it realistic for it not to get stale. Listen if I knew my husband felt excitement and mystery associated with dirty dirty sex that would be fine with me. But I'd also like for him to tell me he loves me once maybe every 5-10 years.
That's just it. After so many years together are there couples out there that still have a spark and the "hots" for their spouse? Still look at the person and think damn I want him/her. Is it realistic for it not to get stale. Listen if I knew my husband felt excitement and mystery associated with dirty dirty sex that would be fine with me. But I'd also like for him to tell me he loves me once maybe every 5-10 years.
Meanwhile, you're here flouncing around...
Stop being a porcupine. Put me on ignore.
Well this is not an exhaustive list but I try to let him do the activities he wants to do with his buddies. Several who are divorced have told him how lucky he is that I don't complain about it. I try to be interested in his "hobbies" and things that he likes to do. I work part time and he works full time so I try to make it that he doesn't have anything he has to do when he gets home so he can spend time with the kids. I'm not the best cook and we probably grab food out more than we should. I'm not the best housekeeper but our house is comfortable. I never say no to sex. I give him massages anytime he asks for them and sometimes even when he doesn't. I try to initiate different things in sex. I've suggested we maybe talk to somebody but he said no. I tell him I need him and want him. Who knows.
If you spent half the time you spend here bitching about your husband actually working on your relationship, you'd probably figure out some of your problems. Or are you one of those women who just needs to go on and on and on about how miserable her life is without doing something about it? Take control of your own life.
There's more than one side to your "discussion"....but if not, take it to The Playground.
The fact is it takes two to tango and you are here every day looking for love and blaming your lonliness on your Husband.
If you spent even 1 of the several hours per day you are spending here on attending to your Husband, you'd be better off.
And everyone who has ever been in a LTR knows that to be true.
So fuck off with the insults, whiner.
There's more than one side to your "discussion"....but if not, take it to The Playground.
The fact is it takes two to tango and you are here every day looking for love and blaming your lonliness on your Husband.
If you spent even 1 of the several hours per day you are spending here on attending to your Husband, you'd be better off.
And everyone who has ever been in a LTR knows that to be true.
So fuck off with the insults, whiner.
You are patting yourself on the back for "letting" him be with friends? That's half your problem there. You are reluctant to recognize that the most successful partners are ones who cultivate friendships and a life away from a marriage. Also, print out what Riles wrote and tape it to your wallet so you can read it every day. You also should turn off your PMs here and don't distract yourself with men who are going to make your gaping void bigger than it already is (read that how you like). If you spent half the time you spend here bitching about your husband actually working on your relationship, you'd probably figure out some of your problems. Or are you one of those women who just needs to go on and on and on about how miserable her life is without doing something about it? Take control of your own life.
Well this is not an exhaustive list but I try to let him do the activities he wants to do with his buddies. Several who are divorced have told him how lucky he is that I don't complain about it. I try to be interested in his "hobbies" and things that he likes to do. I work part time and he works full time so I try to make it that he doesn't have anything he has to do when he gets home so he can spend time with the kids. I'm not the best cook and we probably grab food out more than we should. I'm not the best housekeeper but our house is comfortable. I never say no to sex. I give him massages anytime he asks for them and sometimes even when he doesn't. I try to initiate different things in sex. I've suggested we maybe talk to somebody but he said no. I tell him I need him and want him. Who knows.
Ca-ching.
She probably thinks a blow job is something she "gives" him as a "special treat" if the jewellery cost enough.
You are patting yourself on the back for "letting" him be with friends? That's half your problem there. You are reluctant to recognize that the most successful partners are ones who cultivate friendships and a life away from a marriage. Also, print out what Riles wrote and tape it to your wallet so you can read it every day. You also should turn off your PMs here and don't distract yourself with men who are going to make your gaping void bigger than it already is (read that how you like). If you spent half the time you spend here bitching about your husband actually working on your relationship, you'd probably figure out some of your problems. Or are you one of those women who just needs to go on and on and on about how miserable her life is without doing something about it? Take control of your own life.
This.
The biggest mistake of my marriage was lit.
My self esteem was so low, I just others make me feel better, which did not help nor spice up my marriage.
A divorce and 12 years later, I have learned a thing or two.
Either put on your big girl panties and get off of here and fix your marriage, or drop the charade about loving Jesus and just fucking ask for cyber from a man or two. Stop being pathetically obvious about what you really want but wont admit it. Its not a crime to be wanted, but it is a sin to be wanted like the way you want to be wanted by the men on here.
Sheesh, there are loads of guys here willing do this with you.
I have dumped more women friends than I can count who follow that pathology. I call them the Toxic Brigade. Little girls in the bodies of women, refusing to take responsibility for their own unhappiness. It's always someone else's fault! Why should they have to accept blame for the life they created and accepted? Wah. Wah. Wah. It gets so tiring.
Do I have to point out again that I was trying to get ideas for what I could do to improve things. Duh?
This.
The biggest mistake of my marriage was lit.
My self esteem was so low, I just others make me feel better, which did not help nor spice up my marriage.
A divorce and 12 years later, I have learned a thing or two.
Either put on your big girl panties and get off of here and fix your marriage, or drop the charade about loving Jesus and just fucking ask for cyber from a man or two. Stop being pathetically obvious about what you really want but wont admit it. Its not a crime to be wanted, but it is a sin to be wanted like the way you want to be wanted by the men on here.
Sheesh, there are loads of guys here willing do this with you.
^^ very smart woman. Listen to her, OP.
Of course you won't. But you should.
Well this is not an exhaustive list but I try to let him do the activities he wants to do with his buddies. Several who are divorced have told him how lucky he is that I don't complain about it. I try to be interested in his "hobbies" and things that he likes to do. I work part time and he works full time so I try to make it that he doesn't have anything he has to do when he gets home so he can spend time with the kids. I'm not the best cook and we probably grab food out more than we should. I'm not the best housekeeper but our house is comfortable. I never say no to sex. I give him massages anytime he asks for them and sometimes even when he doesn't. I try to initiate different things in sex. I've suggested we maybe talk to somebody but he said no. I tell him I need him and want him. Who knows.
It's not a crime to be wanted.
Having watched every episode of John Walsh's America's Most Wanted syndicated program for 22 years I can tell you it is a crime.
And the actors in the re-enactments should be Emmy-nominated.