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Old 09-24-2014, 02:12 PM   #901
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Good news!
I hope so, though it's not a sign of progress that I plan to share with my oncologist when I see him next week for my first post-treatment follow-up. He's going to hear that my feet are still both numb and hurting like hell at the same time.

Besides, there's a notable lack of willing and available asses in my life at the moment so it will have to remain a craving for now.
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Old 09-24-2014, 04:44 PM   #902
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I hope so, though it's not a sign of progress that I plan to share with my oncologist when I see him next week for my first post-treatment follow-up. He's going to hear that my feet are still both numb and hurting like hell at the same time.

Besides, there's a notable lack of willing and available asses in my life at the moment so it will have to remain a craving for now.
Maybe you could point out that the main thing standing in the way of giving a good erotic spanking to a willing ass, is the damn pain & numbness in your feet; could he 'effing fix that please? In the name of science and recovery and all that...
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Maybe you could point out that the main thing standing in the way of giving a good erotic spanking to a willing ass, is the damn pain & numbness in your feet; could he 'effing fix that please? In the name of science and recovery and all that...
He's already done his best by writing a prescription. I've thought of requesting a scrip for medical marijuana, though that's really a solution in search of a problem. I'd invariably gain weight and cause even more trouble for my beleaguered feet. Besides, it will be months more before the local government (sic) gets around to finalizing the rules for medical mary jane.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:04 PM   #904
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Another CAT scan for Mom tomorrow morning. Every six weeks.
Fingers crossed...
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:11 PM   #905
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He's already done his best by writing a prescription. I've thought of requesting a scrip for medical marijuana, though that's really a solution in search of a problem. I'd invariably gain weight and cause even more trouble for my beleaguered feet. Besides, it will be months more before the local government (sic) gets around to finalizing the rules for medical mary jane.
Hmmm...

"I thought about asking for a Rx for medical marijuana, but it'll just give me the munchies... any chance I can get a Rx for a really really kinky escort, that's into OTK spankings? Purely therapeutic, of course. I have a little angst to work out, regarding rear ends."
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:33 PM   #906
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Hey guys. I haven't been on here lately. To tell the truth it has been too hard. Things with sis have been a complete rollercoaster. We have moved into the ups and downs, the anger and fighting stage.

I come here and I lack the energy to put it all down, to speak of every little grievance and pain that I have. It's here bubbling around inside and I just cannot bring myself to share it.

Goddamn, I hate this fuckin' disease.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:51 PM   #907
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Another CAT scan for Mom tomorrow morning. Every six weeks.
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Hey guys. I haven't been on here lately. To tell the truth it has been too hard. Things with sis have been a complete rollercoaster. We have moved into the ups and downs, the anger and fighting stage.

I come here and I lack the energy to put it all down, to speak of every little grievance and pain that I have. It's here bubbling around inside and I just cannot bring myself to share it.

Goddamn, I hate this fuckin' disease.
*quiet warm lingering hug* You are doing enough and you don't have to say anything. I'm sorry it hurts. Please take care of you, too.

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Old 09-25-2014, 03:32 PM   #908
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Old 09-25-2014, 03:51 PM   #909
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Hey guys. I haven't been on here lately. To tell the truth it has been too hard. Things with sis have been a complete rollercoaster. We have moved into the ups and downs, the anger and fighting stage.

I come here and I lack the energy to put it all down, to speak of every little grievance and pain that I have. It's here bubbling around inside and I just cannot bring myself to share it.

Goddamn, I hate this fuckin' disease.
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Old 09-25-2014, 04:46 PM   #910
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Hmmm...

"I thought about asking for a Rx for medical marijuana, but it'll just give me the munchies... any chance I can get a Rx for a really really kinky escort, that's into OTK spankings? Purely therapeutic, of course. I have a little angst to work out, regarding rear ends."
Only you, CM, only you. This is brilliant. And while I doubt I'll ask for it next week, it will definitely be on my mind. mwah!
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Old 09-26-2014, 11:25 PM   #911
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Going to see SW tomorrow. I wanted to take some extra time and decorate his room, so I'm staying the night at a friend's and visiting him both Saturday and Sunday. His old counselor called today out of the blue and asked to meet with both of us. Apparently he went and spoke with SW today. I don't know what was said that is causing him to come in on a Saturday. I'd be anxious but I'm so drained there's no room for any new emotions.
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Soft tissue fibro sarcoma. My second go around. This time around I am not doing radiation. After meeting with radiation oncologist 2 weeks ago and deciding not to go with the therapy I received a registered letter from his office. "You have received a diagnosis of cancer. This letter will serve to notify you that this diagnosis could result in death. Please contact my office if you would like more information."

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Going to see SW tomorrow. I wanted to take some extra time and decorate his room, so I'm staying the night at a friend's and visiting him both Saturday and Sunday. His old counselor called today out of the blue and asked to meet with both of us. Apparently he went and spoke with SW today. I don't know what was said that is causing him to come in on a Saturday. I'd be anxious but I'm so drained there's no room for any new emotions.
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Going to see SW tomorrow. I wanted to take some extra time and decorate his room, so I'm staying the night at a friend's and visiting him both Saturday and Sunday. His old counselor called today out of the blue and asked to meet with both of us. Apparently he went and spoke with SW today. I don't know what was said that is causing him to come in on a Saturday. I'd be anxious but I'm so drained there's no room for any new emotions.
I hope you can both enjoy the extra day despite the meeting.

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Soft tissue fibro sarcoma. My second go around. This time around I am not doing radiation. After meeting with radiation oncologist 2 weeks ago and deciding not to go with the therapy I received a registered letter from his office. "You have received a diagnosis of cancer. This letter will serve to notify you that this diagnosis could result in death. Please contact my office if you would like more information."

Fuck it!
Sorry to hear about the recurrence.

I guess that kind of letter is necessary for legal reasons, but it sure doesn't make for good "bedside manner".

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Thoughts and huge cyber hugs for you all

Fuck you cancer !
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FUCK YOU CANCER!!!
YOU MAY HAVE TAKEN MY PROSTATE, BUT I CAN STILL TOUCH MY SHOULDER WITH MY SEX ORGAN!!! (tongue to shoulder)
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This one is for my good friend who had a double mastectomy earlier today. FUCK YOU cancer!!!
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Another CAT scan for Mom tomorrow morning. Every six weeks.
Fingers crossed...
The waiting is always unpleasant, isn't it? I am rigging my magic 8-ball for you. 🎱

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Hmmm...

"I thought about asking for a Rx for medical marijuana, but it'll just give me the munchies... any chance I can get a Rx for a really really kinky escort, that's into OTK spankings? Purely therapeutic, of course. I have a little angst to work out, regarding rear ends."
Forget Obamacare. CutieCare. It's good for America.

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Hey guys. I haven't been on here lately. To tell the truth it has been too hard. Things with sis have been a complete rollercoaster. We have moved into the ups and downs, the anger and fighting stage.

I come here and I lack the energy to put it all down, to speak of every little grievance and pain that I have. It's here bubbling around inside and I just cannot bring myself to share it.

Goddamn, I hate this fuckin' disease.
Eh. No need to put anything down or spill. Who needs one more chore? Just know that the space is here if you need it, and you have some thought-thinkers.



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Going to see SW tomorrow. I wanted to take some extra time and decorate his room, so I'm staying the night at a friend's and visiting him both Saturday and Sunday. His old counselor called today out of the blue and asked to meet with both of us. Apparently he went and spoke with SW today. I don't know what was said that is causing him to come in on a Saturday. I'd be anxious but I'm so drained there's no room for any new emotions.


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Soft tissue fibro sarcoma. My second go around. This time around I am not doing radiation. After meeting with radiation oncologist 2 weeks ago and deciding not to go with the therapy I received a registered letter from his office. "You have received a diagnosis of cancer. This letter will serve to notify you that this diagnosis could result in death. Please contact my office if you would like more information."

Fuck it!
Jesus.

Beyond the diagnosis and gutwrenching decision, is it really necessary to send that letter worded in that way, in order to avoid potential litigation? Is it necessary? Is there no room for a drop of humanity even in the mechanics of a bureaucratic machine?

Fuck it is right.

Please. Take care, and come back.

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Going to see SW tomorrow. I wanted to take some extra time and decorate his room, so I'm staying the night at a friend's and visiting him both Saturday and Sunday. His old counselor called today out of the blue and asked to meet with both of us. Apparently he went and spoke with SW today. I don't know what was said that is causing him to come in on a Saturday. I'd be anxious but I'm so drained there's no room for any new emotions.
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Old 09-27-2014, 08:16 PM   #918
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Beyond the diagnosis and gutwrenching decision, is it really necessary to send that letter worded in that way, in order to avoid potential litigation? Is it necessary? Is there no room for a drop of humanity even in the mechanics of a bureaucratic machine?
Unfortunately, yeah, physicians who don't document "informed refusal" carefully are at risk of litigation. They may not even have much say in how stuff like this is worded; my first guess would be that the oncologist's malpractice insurer requires them to follow this process, as a condition of their insurance. Something like that would be drafted by a lawyer whose brief is "prevent litigation", which means an extremely blunt letter saying something along the lines of "refusing this treatment may kill you".

It comes down to: being sick in the USA is horrendously expensive, somebody is going to end up paying the bill, and nobody wants it to be them :-/

Some background on this issue here ("informed refusal" section) and case examples here and here.
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Unfortunately, yeah, physicians who don't document "informed refusal" carefully are at risk of litigation. They may not even have much say in how stuff like this is worded; my first guess would be that the oncologist's malpractice insurer requires them to follow this process, as a condition of their insurance. Something like that would be drafted by a lawyer whose brief is "prevent litigation", which means an extremely blunt letter saying something along the lines of "refusing this treatment may kill you".

It comes down to: being sick in the USA is horrendously expensive, somebody is going to end up paying the bill, and nobody wants it to be them :-/

Some background on this issue here ("informed refusal" section) and case examples here and here.
Thank you for the info. Okay, I get that. Lawyers.

I live in a mythical dream world where people are kind. Form letters say things like, "God. Cancer. That sucks so bad. We hate to have to do this at a difficult time, but our carriers at Soulless Insurance require us to make sure you know that this shitty-ass cancer could well kill you if you refuse treatment. Yeah, you know that, but we have to say it. Let us know how we can help."

This is the sort of fantasy world in which I reside, and why I am often disappointed.
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Old 09-27-2014, 10:07 PM   #920
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I can see them! I just can't replicate them! But that's okay!
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Soft tissue fibro sarcoma. My second go around. This time around I am not doing radiation. After meeting with radiation oncologist 2 weeks ago and deciding not to go with the therapy I received a registered letter from his office. "You have received a diagnosis of cancer. This letter will serve to notify you that this diagnosis could result in death. Please contact my office if you would like more information."

Fuck it!
This is really cold.

Any chance that a genetic targeted cancer therapy might have some effectiveness?
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Thankful that Mom's cancer hasn't spread, or grown this time around.


VERY thankful.

yay!


and FUCK YOU CANCER!!
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In loving memory of my brother, my mom and my grandfather...


A big FUCK YOU cancer!!!!
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On behalf of a very dear sweet precious Lit friend...a goddess...daddy's girl...

Fuck you, cancer. I know I'll see the end of you someday, when what you've taken has been returned, and you're never seen or heard from ever again.

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