Frustrated1971
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- Sep 6, 2014
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Hi all,
I'm new to all this but hoping you can help! I need some advice on how to get my man to open up sexually. We are both 43 and been together for 6 years. I am or rather would be given the chance quite open sexually. I want to try new things and experiment. My partner is the opposite. I can't even tell you what turns him on as he says he doesn't know. He says he has no fantasies either. Sex is now once a month if I'm lucky. I have told him anything he wants to try I shall do and he says there is nothing. I am extremely frustrated as I need sex quite often and would love to be able to turn him on more. But nothing I try really works. When we do have sex it is the same positions every time. Foreplay doesn't really exist. He is not gay or bi (I have even offered that or for me to perform anal on him). He isn't getting it anywhere else. He just can't seem to express himself or understand his own body. He gets embarrassed when talking about sex.
Please help!!!
Thanks
I'm new to all this but hoping you can help! I need some advice on how to get my man to open up sexually. We are both 43 and been together for 6 years. I am or rather would be given the chance quite open sexually. I want to try new things and experiment. My partner is the opposite. I can't even tell you what turns him on as he says he doesn't know. He says he has no fantasies either. Sex is now once a month if I'm lucky. I have told him anything he wants to try I shall do and he says there is nothing. I am extremely frustrated as I need sex quite often and would love to be able to turn him on more. But nothing I try really works. When we do have sex it is the same positions every time. Foreplay doesn't really exist. He is not gay or bi (I have even offered that or for me to perform anal on him). He isn't getting it anywhere else. He just can't seem to express himself or understand his own body. He gets embarrassed when talking about sex.
Please help!!!
Thanks