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Are you practicing BDSM with a partner you trust?
Yes, my bf but I want more and I don't know how to go further. I crave so much more from him and myself.
While being submissive is nice the main part of the relationship has to be trust, if you trust the dom then it should be up to them to lead you. Allowing yourself to fall 100% does not mean anything, the dom has to lead you to where they want, you do not allow, you only follow.I am new to bdsm and while I enjoy being submissive. I am having a problem with allowing myself to fall 100 percent. Can anyone help me?
While being submissive is nice the main part of the relationship has to be trust, if you trust the dom then it should be up to them to lead you. Allowing yourself to fall 100% does not mean anything, the dom has to lead you to where they want, you do not allow, you only follow.
To gain the proper trust you must communicate with the dom about your expectations of the relationship. To gain the right path of the journey you must go slow and not make rush decisions, for the enjoyment is earned with time.
Yes, my bf but I want more and I don't know how to go further. I crave so much more from him and myself.
Trust is important of course, BUT I have to ask, You are new. is he also new to this? If so, then I would suggest going someplace (NOT A DUNGEON) where there are like minded individuals that can help. Across the US there are munch groups, informal groups that meet to discuss WIITWD. Also there are groups like MAsT (Masters and slaves Together), that meet with the primary focus of establishing and maintaining relationships. There are Leather events across the US, that generally offer "how to classes". Be careful, the "toys" we play with can do serious damage. He might be worried about that and if I were you, I would be really worried about that. And don't worry about the term "Leather Events", many focus seminars on BDSM and are a great SAFE place to meet people. We all started somewhere and have lived to talk about it.I am new to bdsm and while I enjoy being submissive. I am having a problem with allowing myself to fall 100 percent. Can anyone help me?
It's natural to want to explore more all at the same time.Yes, my bf but I want more and I don't know how to go further. I crave so much more from him and myself.
I am new to bdsm and while I enjoy being submissive. I am having a problem with allowing myself to fall 100 percent. Can anyone help me?
SissySalina did good !!!!!
The original post is a month old. I get the feeling (by reading past posts) she shows up whenever those lusty "daddy, i'm a good girl but please please make me do bad girl things" feelings show up. Not that there's anything wrong with that...
It is a common question, so hopefully the replies will help others, too!!
The original post is a month old. I get the feeling (by reading past posts) she shows up whenever those lusty "daddy, i'm a good girl but please please make me do bad girl things" feelings show up. Not that there's anything wrong with that...
It is a common question, so hopefully the replies will help others, too!!
I had seen this when it originally popped up and just assumed it was a dude catfish. Women rarely obsess over virginity like this with the screen name and such.
For those reading: it's not a journey. You aren't on a quest to find a ring. Have a relationship, get to know your partner and do the most "unsexy" thing. That's right, talk to your partner. Most of us didn't get where we are by stumbling blindly into each other's kinks. My husband would have no idea what I am into if I didn't tell him. I wouldn't have a clue if he had any kinks if I didn't ask him. Talk, explore, enjoy your time as people together and don't put so much pressure on being a label.
As for "falling completely," a lot of people suggest needing trust to do so. I agree, but you don't just trust automatically because that's what the relationship calls for. Trust is built. Don't think you have to be all in right away. You can take your time, test the waters and eventually come to the conclusion that someone is trustworthy. Like any other relationship in your life.
I know this is the 297387th the excellent 'talk' advice has been given, but I just realised it's probably why the power/control thing has worked so well for me in relationships that are solely/largely conducted online/over the phone - because I actually have to talk about stuff, because it's the only option. Even if you're just talking a scenario, you both have to vocalise what is/what you want to be going on. This could be the new sex therapy - get people to have phone/cyber sex with each other so they have to talk about their sex!