knot_sweet
mmmm rope...
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Please, argue with me! How else will we learn anything?
I don't perceive myself as independently as you, perhaps.
Strength and power are related to each other quite closely in my view, as in the relative strength or weakness of a given force indicates the nature of its "power."
I think of the kind of internal strength that you are referring to as "will," but it could also be a strength of "habit" as well.
Why is it that you feel you do not have power to control or effect change externally?
Maybe you aren't recognizing the power that you actually have, because you're seeking to change things that are - in fact - beyond your individual control.
I have strength to stand when others will fall, I can help others stand, but I have not the power to make them want to. I have the strength to do what is right rather than what is accepted. I can be the rock in the current but cannot change it. I can change things in my life and about myself for better or worse.
Other people seem to have the ability to create ripples in the pond of life. They can influence or manipulate the opinions, circumstances and ideas of others in even small ways. That to me is power. That is what I do not have.
I also have absolutely no willpower. Don't put a piece of chocolate or a pair of shoes in front of me because I won't be able to say no.
eta - A classic example of this: There will be a problem at work. I will offer a solution. I will be unheard or brushed off. Someone else will make the same suggestion a few minutes later and it will be applauded. This happens to me all the time. I have not the power to make myself heard.
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