My Gf the pimp

She is uncertain, to say the least, about her motivations.
And it feels hot, flattering, weird, it feels like there's a catch somewhere I don't know

Not everybody wants or needs monogamy from their partner. Some don't mind if their partner has other lovers, some actively enjoy it. Not necessarily a trap.

But, some people also get off on fantasising about stuff they wouldn't actually do. Do you have a clear idea of how much is fantasy vs. stuff she wants to do for real? And is she talking about renting you out to friends, random strangers, or who?
 
She is uncertain, to say the least, about her motivations.
And it feels hot, flattering, weird, it feels like there's a catch somewhere I don't know
She is uncertain about her motivations?
Does she think there's something inherently wrong with liking this idea?
 
Not everybody wants or needs monogamy from their partner. Some don't mind if their partner has other lovers, some actively enjoy it. Not necessarily a trap.

But, some people also get off on fantasising about stuff they wouldn't actually do. Do you have a clear idea of how much is fantasy vs. stuff she wants to do for real? And is she talking about renting you out to friends, random strangers, or who?

I ment unclear, I'm uncertain.
She says random strangers, but why? I don't know.
How much is fantasy and how much real? For a while she looked for potential clients and was very enthusiastic about it so, it felt pretty real
 
'Pimp my Ride"

Hi all and welcome to Lit Skinner R.
I have been in a similar situation to the one you find yourself in and for us everything worked out well. I totally agree with the advice to prepare for the emotions this will bring but if your relationship is strong enough you should get through fine and enjoy the whole experience. If you have doubts about the motive then that's what I would address first as it's always best to be completely honest and open and only fair that you are comfortable with everything before going ahead with things.
If you want to pm me at all I'd be happy to chat some more, otherwise good luck and have fun- Jay
 
She is uncertain, to say the least, about her motivations.
And it feels hot, flattering, weird, it feels like there's a catch somewhere I don't know

You need to have a long talk with her repeatedly with her at various times. You need to dig deeper and see what is the reason why she wants to see you with other women/people etc?

When you two are out make her point out to you what she has in mind for you as far as type of woman etc and have her tell you what she wants and expects you to do. You need to be very open and honest back with your feelings and emotions. Tell her exactly what you see yourself doing/behaving. Ask her how that makes her feel? Just because it excites her now doesn't mean it will excite her when you actually take the plunge.

When you are being intimate with her bring up the said girl again and see how she reacts and roleplay it. That will tell you a lot. Again be open and honest about your feelings.Just because little head says yes go with your gut instinct.

If and when you make it to the final step of fulfilling her request. Make it a joint decision. More towards someone she is not threatened by or jealous of.

Woman are all good till they feel threatened or jealous. They may not tell you,but they have that look that you know or tone,that can kill your erection and make your gut say something isn't right! Go with it. I don't care if your balls deep,get out. It does happen. There feelings change about a girl when you finally become intimate. She doesn't like the chemistry. You need to respect her decision and excuse yourself and go home and talk it out quietly non confrontational.

It can be fun! She has to be secure in herself to know that you are committed to her in all aspects. If your not this is a dangerous road to enter down.

Good Luck. Communication is the key. If you need to talk. Ill be available PM Me.
 
Hi all and welcome to Lit Skinner R.
I have been in a similar situation to the one you find yourself in and for us everything worked out well. I totally agree with the advice to prepare for the emotions this will bring but if your relationship is strong enough you should get through fine and enjoy the whole experience. If you have doubts about the motive then that's what I would address first as it's always best to be completely honest and open and only fair that you are comfortable with everything before going ahead with things.
If you want to pm me at all I'd be happy to chat some more, otherwise good luck and have fun- Jay

Hahaha! I would have to nail a PlayStation to my forhead
 
Do we know for sure what gender the OP is?
The term "pimp out" is this meant as to perform an act of prostitution or to make the op serve sexual favors to others?
It is my belief that it is highly unusual for women to pay for the sexual services of a gigolo in the usual sense. A gigolo is usually in real life is a guy presumed younger that mootches off of a better off woman and lives with her providing companionship and false attentiveness , basically using her. This is many times not exactly a prearranged understood relation but rather it works its way into such, either consensual and knowing or unwittingly and most times with a certain amount of self denial on the part of the benefactor. Of course there are many different shades of arrangements and relationships inbetween but the notion of men working on call as an escort or service provider to women is for the most part a fallacy. Most all men working as escorts or providers are servicing other men.
So I would think that I would have to get better clarification of exactly the scenario here.
Also often times when a woman pimps her girlfriend the catch is she is introducing the other into human trafficking.
If my thoughts are wrong or opinionated or just plain not understanding please forgive me.
 
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