Who likes it forced and why?

Taramafor

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A lot of people like it forced. To have someone else take them knowing that they're wanted.

Confidence factors in of course but there's more to it then that. It could be knowing someone else isn't afraid to put you in line. To be trust that it's not a bad thing to do.

So who here likes it forced and, even if you haven't given it much thought, why do you think that is the case? There's reasons even if we're not aware of them. Beyond "being wired that way". Took me a while to figure it out myself so give it some careful thought and see if anything comes from it. It can get in depth with the emotional side of things and how people get hurt in bad ways in the past which is why I like getting put in line and punished in the present. Ironic that. To have had the bad things happen in that area to only be into them in good ways now.

My answer: Long story short people that care tend to hurt us. Sometimes badly. Normally due to fear genially speaking. Which tends to lead to anger. Which can have negative repercussions. When such fear is absent "going along with the bad of things" can bring people closer. Perhaps even more then before even. It's because I done that genially that I got into it in BDSM terms. Goes pretty well in both areas too. Makes me and others happier and builds up trust.

There's also the whole "I know it's best for me and need another to care enough to be rough with me" thing. A hug isn't what's best for me at times. Definitely not all the time. So it's mainly a trust/support thing.

Ok, now what about you lot?
 
My first sexual experience began as a jerk off session with my best friend, which soon evolved from joint masturbation to mutual masturbation and eventually taking turns giving each other blowjobs. Because it quickly became apparent to us both that I liked sucking his cock more than receiving a blowjob from him, we dispensed with the pretense of mutuality and instead I agreed to exclusively become the designated Cocksucker. Rather than passively laying back and allowing me to blow him, he preferred to assume a dominant role and to aggressively force his cock as far down my throat as possible, and in essence, fucking my throat. My lack of a significant gag reflex facilitated this behavior and I found that I liked the slutty way that allowing him to do this to me made me feel. This activity became a daily routine and has set the pattern for my sexuality to this day.
 
A lot of people like it forced. To have someone else take them knowing that they're wanted.

Confidence factors in of course but there's more to it then that. It could be knowing someone else isn't afraid to put you in line. To be trust that it's not a bad thing to do.

So who here likes it forced and, even if you haven't given it much thought, why do you think that is the case? There's reasons even if we're not aware of them. Beyond "being wired that way". Took me a while to figure it out myself so give it some careful thought and see if anything comes from it. It can get in depth with the emotional side of things and how people get hurt in bad ways in the past which is why I like getting put in line and punished in the present. Ironic that. To have had the bad things happen in that area to only be into them in good ways now.

My answer: Long story short people that care tend to hurt us. Sometimes badly. Normally due to fear genially speaking. Which tends to lead to anger. Which can have negative repercussions. When such fear is absent "going along with the bad of things" can bring people closer. Perhaps even more then before even. It's because I done that genially that I got into it in BDSM terms. Goes pretty well in both areas too. Makes me and others happier and builds up trust.

There's also the whole "I know it's best for me and need another to care enough to be rough with me" thing. A hug isn't what's best for me at times. Definitely not all the time. So it's mainly a trust/support thing.

Ok, now what about you lot?
I posted this in another thread but it also fit into this one I believe.


Well I guess this would be kinda the same deal..... My wife was never raped or taking by force for real that I know of,.. But she did admitted to me years ago about her fantasies about that happening to her.

After she opened up and admitted her fantasy to me we talked about it and thought it would maybe spice up our sex life, at least hers if we were to role play it out, which she kinda agreed to.
I say kinda agreed to because it was never set in stone, But I always knew I would do it someday without telling her to make it more real like.

I won't go into great detail here and now, But long story short I came home a day early from my Trucking trip and didn't tell her.

I waited till that night after she went to sleep and quietly sneaked into our dark bedroom, took all my clothes off and laid a Lifelike rubber dildo I bought on the road on the nightstand.

I put my hand over her mouth and shook her awake.
She started to freak out on me even kinda scaring me a little, I could tell she thought it was the real deal happening to her.

I tried to change my voice as much as I could kinda in a loud whisper telling her to shut up and be quiet and she wouldn't get hurt.

Still not sure if she thought it was real or not she quickly submitted to me as I pulled her panties off.

I grabbed the Dildo and held it against myself like it was my real cock and slapped it against her pussy a few times then up and down her slit till I felt her open up.

It wasn't long before she was arching up and moaning out as I took her kinda hard. I was so surprised that she came from me just fucking her which normally don't without oral sex.

Anyway to shorting this up, I don't know if it was more exciting for me or her...LOL but she still tells me she knew it was me all along, but I have my doubts about that.

Since that first time years ago we have role played it out with various scenarios .

Were older now and has been over a year now since the last time we role played it out,..But I still stoke off about remembering some of the times we did it.
 
This is my favourite fantasy at the moment. I think it’s about desire, someone desiring me so much, and me not being a cock hungry slut for once but not consenting, a man taking what they want, but it just so happens it pleases me.
It’s about being pure, not asking for it but being given it.
 
for me, the being forced aspect is taking away any chance of me hesitating or not knowing what to do next. i have self esteem and self worth issues and as a result i doubt myself all the time. being forced, in a consensual way, takes all of that away and i get far more enjoyment.
 
This can go both ways for me. But I'm also not always this way. I am not one of those people who has to have certain specific things every time I have sex. It has more to do with how I am feeling at the moment.

Sometimes I just want to suck a cock and that generally is going to happen whether he was in the mood for that or not. Heh. That can be one of my favorite ways to get him to stop watching TV or talking on the phone or whatever. Heh.

Then there are other times when he wants me to suck him off and I just want him to hold the back of my head and feed it to me deeply! Now that doesn't always happen but I can dream!

I guess I have been lucky in that most of the time, the person I am with has been of a like mind as I am at the time and things just sort of work out well.
 
I don't have any RL experience with BDSM (wish I did), but in my fantasies it is almost always a forced situation, whether I'm the sub or dom. I think the aspect of being forced just somehow strengthens the whole BDSM theme and makes it all the more erotic, but naturally if it was for real, I'd want it to be a "consensual forced" both ways, if that even makes sense.
 
It depends on the situation. In some cases I like it because it eliminates any fear of rejection. In others, it tempers any guilt or mixed feelings I may have about an interest that is in some way off-limits for me.
 
I posted this in another thread but it also fit into this one I believe.


Well I guess this would be kinda the same deal..... My wife was never raped or taking by force for real that I know of,.. But she did admitted to me years ago about her fantasies about that happening to her.

After she opened up and admitted her fantasy to me we talked about it and thought it would maybe spice up our sex life, at least hers if we were to role play it out, which she kinda agreed to.
I say kinda agreed to because it was never set in stone, But I always knew I would do it someday without telling her to make it more real like.

I won't go into great detail here and now, But long story short I came home a day early from my Trucking trip and didn't tell her.

I waited till that night after she went to sleep and quietly sneaked into our dark bedroom, took all my clothes off and laid a Lifelike rubber dildo I bought on the road on the nightstand.

I put my hand over her mouth and shook her awake.
She started to freak out on me even kinda scaring me a little, I could tell she thought it was the real deal happening to her.

I tried to change my voice as much as I could kinda in a loud whisper telling her to shut up and be quiet and she wouldn't get hurt.

Still not sure if she thought it was real or not she quickly submitted to me as I pulled her panties off.

I grabbed the Dildo and held it against myself like it was my real cock and slapped it against her pussy a few times then up and down her slit till I felt her open up.

It wasn't long before she was arching up and moaning out as I took her kinda hard. I was so surprised that she came from me just fucking her which normally don't without oral sex.

Anyway to shorting this up, I don't know if it was more exciting for me or her...LOL but she still tells me she knew it was me all along, but I have my doubts about that.

Since that first time years ago we have role played it out with various scenarios .

Were older now and has been over a year now since the last time we role played it out,..But I still stoke off about remembering some of the times we did it.

Being older could be a good thing. Your story sounded great and I too suspect she may not have known it was you so I think she "let go" more than she wants to admit. But a more detailed repeat of the events may be a great motivator. Try this. Go out with her, dinner, drinks...lots of drinks. Once she is compliant go home, but have a "stranger" there waiting for you both. You are subdued, tied, hooded/blindfolded and then her. But then you and stranger switch places. Remove her blindfold and she thinks you are the stranger. More cerebral with no reason to suspect its not. Don't speak. Keep her emotions heightened. Strip her, touch her, take her however you like in a way she isn't used to (tounge her ass, vibe her clit clamps on nipples, spanking, learn G-spot stroking to make her squirt) something's not normally done. Then break out the lube and FUCK HER SENSELESS all the while making her think her "husbands" safety depends on HER.

Let us know if you do and how it goes.
 
I fucking LOVE being taken and used HARRD by a female. I am kind of a psychosexual vampire. I absorb my partner's experience and kick it back out. The more excited she is the more I am. I am really into that moment just preorgasm when the veneer of socialization is stripped drom her and there is NO going back. I get to see primal female in action. That's what I get out of it...an awed peek into the animal carrying around the cerebral cortex in a moment when filters don't exist. I'm sure Freud would have lots to say about me lol.
 
I enjoy being used. Knowing men are relieving thier deepest carnal lust using my body is what gives me kick.
 
Long time reader, posting for the first time..Mainly because your narrow opinion "Confidence factors in of course " ticked me off.
I'm going to try my best to keep this as short as possible but I already feel a long essay forming in my head .
I by no means mean to generalize and speak for the whole culture/country but here's my take on it based on personal experience and what I've seen(Note that I'm now a nomad but grew up in India)-
-Religious upbringing: One of the very few acceptable ways to perform unspeakable acts without being married is if its beyond your control.
-Cultural exposure during formative years: Quite a few of my memories of watching sex on TV during the teenage years( this was a time of no internet, no TV in room and parents controlled what we saw) are from various incarnations of a scene where the heroine is tied up along with her boyfriend/dad/family and the villain runs his hands/gun all over her body and appreciates it in an raw animal-like manner; and (sort of) undresses her by dropping her saree/unzipping etc. The consensual sexual element of the story between the hero-heroine was either symbolic( two flowers touching each other, behind trees etc) or the steamy/raunchy soft-porn scenes were accompanied with dancing/loud music and background score but no dialogue. Years later I still find myself getting wet watching these (sometimes) poorly filmed scenes!!

There's some more I can write but this seems a good enough length for now:p. All I really wanted to convey was there can be so many reasons people like what they like, lets not put them all in one category.
 
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