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Wild_Honey_66
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Good Mornings and Goodnights are huge for me. Huge. They let me know that I'm cared about, I'm thought of, and that i'm important to someone. They're one of my favorite things.
But only from certain people.
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So is it sort of a let down so to speak, to see a zero next unread?
A simple message can make one smile, a rude one they frown or become angered, a happy one can make them float, so can a lack of one make them sad?
Wild_Honey_66
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Yes. It says to me that I'm not important enough to them.
My favorite thing is to be awakened by the notification bell on my phone telling me that i have a new message.
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It is a wonderful feeling isn't. Such a simple thing that many lack to understand or get. In this world it seems difficult to have a true connection with another person, and I think the fear of that makes people resist or put a wall us so to say.
I hope you are smiling today Honey.
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Yeah, it really depends on who the message is from as to whether I would smile or not. A message from a friend or an ongoing conversation from a fellow Litser will elicit a different response than say some nameless loser looking for help jerking off.
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Interesting set of posts you've got Missus.
Wild_Honey_66
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It is a wonderful feeling isn't. Such a simple thing that many lack to understand or get. In this world it seems difficult to have a true connection with another person, and I think the fear of that makes people resist or put a wall us so to say.
I hope you are smiling today Honey.
Not yet, but thank you.
Ahhh, this made me smile! I think i smell a Brit!
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Yes, I can understand some message from a guy just looking to pop his rocks with your assistance would make you frown. Hopefully you don't get to many like that.
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Not yet, but thank you.
Ahhh, this made me smile! I think i smell a Brit!
I am glad something made a smile crest upon your lips Honey. A gentle word can do wonders can't it?
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Yes, but that's not what he did.
He called me 'Missus,' which tells me that he's very likely a Brit, and he's not posh. If he's got a brain and a sense of humor, we'll probably get along.
Coming full circle, 'lass' is a gentle word, and it's a lovely Brit of my acquaintance who calls his lovers just that. I think it's perfectly charming.
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Not so much anymore. I'll get the occasional dickless wonder, but I assume those are of the exceedingly desperate variety and haven't been laid in years.
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Yes, but that's not what he did.
He called me 'Missus,' which tells me that he's very likely a Brit, and he's not posh. If he's got a brain and a sense of humor, we'll probably get along.
Coming full circle, 'lass' is a gentle word, and it's a lovely Brit of my acquaintance who calls his lovers just that. I think it's perfectly charming.
See, you saw more there than I did. That is awesome
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And I wonder how many people have closed themselves up a bit because of that type of person though. t just makes me wonder. I am glad you don't get many like that.
Respect is a huge thing to me.
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See, you saw more there than I did. That is awesome
I'm a (lazy) Anglophile, and an armchair linguist.
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I'm a (lazy) Anglophile, and an armchair linguist.
And so many people would miss what you saw, I did. I hope you are still smiling. It is a wonderful thing.
Wild_Honey_66
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Do i lose points for not smiling? I can smirk, does that count?
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I often wonder if a request for conversation is often thought to be really a request for "play" as this is a site that explores sex and all that stuff.
So, I guess my thought is, can you expect a conversation on this site that doesn't have that motive behind it?
So, I guess my thought is, can you expect a conversation on this site that doesn't have that motive behind it?
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wonder, have you ever had a conversation where it was dictated what you must say? Like a D/s thing? I don't even know if there is such a thing, but it is an interesting thought, would it then be a conversation between them and themselves lol.
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Random thoughts: Is finding a conversation worth it? You put yourself out there, and manage to find someone to talk to, you click, it's a friendship and you share your thoughts, ideas, fantasies and dreams. You open up and let them in, let them know who you are. You reveal your hopes and dreams. Then, poof, they are gone, and you are left wanting.
Is it worth it? Is it worth the time of putting yourself out there and risk opening up and being dropped? Does the ends justify the means? The "let down" is bound to happen, so, I guess my thought is, is it worth putting yourself out there when you know the risk?
Is it worth it? Is it worth the time of putting yourself out there and risk opening up and being dropped? Does the ends justify the means? The "let down" is bound to happen, so, I guess my thought is, is it worth putting yourself out there when you know the risk?
