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Would it help if women had sex with men who wear glasses
Does that enhance their intelligence?
Listen Up: The Hymen
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Does that enhance their intelligence?
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Glasses always enhance intelligence. Haven't you see any of those movies (or watched Scooby-Doo for that matter, where the smart boy/girl is always the one with glasses?
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Doncha know by now that we're hopeless? Darwinian forces made us visual creatures.
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Do you think God knew what He was doing when He created woman? Huh? No shit. I really wanna know. Or do you think it was another one of His minor mistakes like tidal waves, earthquakes, FLOODS? You think women are like that? S'matter? You don't think God makes mistakes? Of course He does. We ALL make mistakes. Of course, when WE make mistakes they call it evil. When GOD makes mistakes, they call it... nature. So whaddya think? Women... a mistake... or DID HE DO IT TO US ON PURPOSE?
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well i'd heard about it but never found anything there 'in the way' as I grew up and discovered my body. certainly no bloodstained sheets when i lost my virginity.
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Thanks for educating us.
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First, thanks for the photos.
1 Outer lips (with clitoris under the clitoral hood at the belly end)
2 Inner lips
3 Hymen
All in adjacent sequence
4 G-spot on the front wall, one to two inches in (controversial: apparently never found in dissection, but maybe because it isn't a separate organ, but rather to do with the urethra, or root of the clitoris)
5 Is there anything else erotic (rather than reproductive, like the cervix) we should know about?
All I can contribute in my own right was that in my first sexual exploits exploring a compliant young lady a finger went it without causing her any pain - which probably isn't very useful. (I can testify to the phenomenon of 'Blue Balls' - I badly needed a wank when I got home, to dispel the discomfort!)
Women that didn't bleed at there first coitus... Is this because something had torn your hymen previously (the urban myth of riding horses or cycles; or pushing something big up there) - presumably that would have caused bleeding on that earlier occasion - or are some hymens sufficiently stretchy, or non-existent, so that tearing and bleeding never happen?
If we're going to get this right, we may as well try to get it ALL right...
So just to be sure, the geography is:
1 Outer lips (with clitoris under the clitoral hood at the belly end)
2 Inner lips
3 Hymen
All in adjacent sequence
4 G-spot on the front wall, one to two inches in (controversial: apparently never found in dissection, but maybe because it isn't a separate organ, but rather to do with the urethra, or root of the clitoris)
5 Is there anything else erotic (rather than reproductive, like the cervix) we should know about?
Well, that's one testament.well i'd heard about it but never found anything there 'in the way' as I grew up and discovered my body. certainly no bloodstained sheets when i lost my virginity.
All I can contribute in my own right was that in my first sexual exploits exploring a compliant young lady a finger went it without causing her any pain - which probably isn't very useful. (I can testify to the phenomenon of 'Blue Balls' - I badly needed a wank when I got home, to dispel the discomfort!)
Women that didn't bleed at there first coitus... Is this because something had torn your hymen previously (the urban myth of riding horses or cycles; or pushing something big up there) - presumably that would have caused bleeding on that earlier occasion - or are some hymens sufficiently stretchy, or non-existent, so that tearing and bleeding never happen?
If we're going to get this right, we may as well try to get it ALL right...
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I do think the bike and horseback riding is an old myth to explain why some girls didn't bleed during sex. I did some horseback riding and plenty of bike riding and it never broke my hymen--I know this because I did bleed (we'll get to that). Now tampons might be another thing entirely, but how would you know the blood came from the hymen and not your period?
I've never liked tampons so that may have kept my hymen more in tact. I do not recall bleeding the first time (with a "thin" gent) but there was a little blood with the second (a much thicker gent). Both times were uncomfortable, but not painful. The point is, hymens vary girl to girl. Some have ones that cover all or nearly all, and these might tear and bleed under all kinds of circumstances from tampons to fingers to penises. Other have less of a hymen covering and these might not tear until the woman gives birth, or only bleed on first or second time with nice, robust sex.
It's strange that we accept people has being wonderfully different in shapes and sizes and looks on everything we can see, but expect everyone to be the same in places we can't see (or can't easily see). Like we expect all virgins to have the same sort of hymens.
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Oh ye gods.
How many more variables are there for a chap to understand ?
Women should be supplied with a Haynes Manual !
How many more variables are there for a chap to understand ?
Women should be supplied with a Haynes Manual !
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All you have to do is ask... and listen. and ask for clarification of what you don't understand.
LISTEN. And ASK.
oh, did I mention-- LISTENING? And ASKING?
Of course since men have always known EVERYTHING, it's possible that the woman in question hasn't been told, by the men who know everything, what she needs to know herself.
In which case Google is her goddamn friend. And therefore, yours.
Which admittedly, wasn't true ten years ago...
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What would be the fun in that? Aren't men supposed to be explorers wanting to discover all of it on their own?
And when was the last time you read the manual that came with...anything?
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Stella,
were I as young as I was then, but with the information I now have, I'd still be embarrassed asking questions (My family wasn't into answering 'tricky' questions when I was a kid; the cabbage patch was a good enough answer for too long). And this was in the 1950s
And there's nothing worse than an impatient sigh when asking the questions.
It can ruin an evening.
What would be the fun in that? Aren't men supposed to be explorers wanting to discover all of it on their own?
Oh God, I feel a blurt coming on....
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I thought I broke my girlfriend's hymen when I fingered her the first time; my hand came out covered in blood to the wrist. The next day, the same blood. I started getting suspicious that she was simply "enjoying that time of the month." I (years later) saw an educational video (porn) of a woman getting poked for her first time: The guy fit in there past his head (of the penis; this is not unbirth sex), where he got stuck. He pushed in, and upon withdrawing, he had a very thin few drops of bright red blood on his piece of meat, not at all the thick, dark mass I'd experienced years before.
To my recent knowledge, the hymen is not a wall at all. It is simply membrane that keeps the opening tightly shut, litterally needing to be torn to dialate. It's like the drawstring of your hood in a way. When you break the hymen, you're breaking the drawstring, and the vaginal opening will be able to widen. With the hymen intact, it's still possible to insert objects inside, such as a thin penis (nothing I'd know anything about), a finger, or a tampon.
That's all just the product of my research; feel free to point out my mis-steps.
Now I have a question while we're in female anatomy. While I agree it's annoying to read about a guy's cock halfway up a virgin without breaking the thing open, I believe there's a degree of not-terribly-over-exaggerated. What does bother me is a guy saying he's using his dick to massage her G-spot. Motherfucker, the G-spot is around the corner in the pussy, not straight ahead like the cervix. You need fingers to reach up there, or else a hooked cock you can hang a side of beef from. Amiright?
To my recent knowledge, the hymen is not a wall at all. It is simply membrane that keeps the opening tightly shut, litterally needing to be torn to dialate. It's like the drawstring of your hood in a way. When you break the hymen, you're breaking the drawstring, and the vaginal opening will be able to widen. With the hymen intact, it's still possible to insert objects inside, such as a thin penis (nothing I'd know anything about), a finger, or a tampon.
That's all just the product of my research; feel free to point out my mis-steps.
Now I have a question while we're in female anatomy. While I agree it's annoying to read about a guy's cock halfway up a virgin without breaking the thing open, I believe there's a degree of not-terribly-over-exaggerated. What does bother me is a guy saying he's using his dick to massage her G-spot. Motherfucker, the G-spot is around the corner in the pussy, not straight ahead like the cervix. You need fingers to reach up there, or else a hooked cock you can hang a side of beef from. Amiright?
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I hear you, Handley.
I gotta say though, the impatient sigh-- if it's from me at least-- implies that I am not expecting you to listen to my answer well enough to understand it. I assume you're going to get defensive instead.
Skink, the g-spot is right on the frontal wall, at a depth of just about two knuckles of your index finger. it's analogous to a man's prostate, except we actually use part of the clitoral organ to close and release the urethra-- but what is left still feels reallll good. Some women have more of it than others, it's quite variable. For some women, it can trigger release of fluid from the Bartholin glands-- which would be your testicals-- but again, this is variable.
There is no "around the corner" in a vagina, there is a flexible sheath that can be pushed 'around the corners" that occur within the pelvic anatomy in general.
It's a nasty feedback loop, isn't it?
I gotta say though, the impatient sigh-- if it's from me at least-- implies that I am not expecting you to listen to my answer well enough to understand it. I assume you're going to get defensive instead.
Skink, the g-spot is right on the frontal wall, at a depth of just about two knuckles of your index finger. it's analogous to a man's prostate, except we actually use part of the clitoral organ to close and release the urethra-- but what is left still feels reallll good. Some women have more of it than others, it's quite variable. For some women, it can trigger release of fluid from the Bartholin glands-- which would be your testicals-- but again, this is variable.
There is no "around the corner" in a vagina, there is a flexible sheath that can be pushed 'around the corners" that occur within the pelvic anatomy in general.
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The pages of her body kept turning,
exposing words of herself to me.
With each one I gained a deeper
understanding, an appreciation for her writing,
so unique in formation.
With flourish and flair, I read her, consuming
her.
Touching each letter, each word, enjoying
the private interview I was being given to know her.
The joy to know the story would never end, her
endless words forever enticing me to read her more.
exposing words of herself to me.
With each one I gained a deeper
understanding, an appreciation for her writing,
so unique in formation.
With flourish and flair, I read her, consuming
her.
Touching each letter, each word, enjoying
the private interview I was being given to know her.
The joy to know the story would never end, her
endless words forever enticing me to read her more.
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That sounded really romantic until I thought of all the other books on the bookshelf :
If you can imagine the Reverse Cowgirl position, and she's leaning back, her pelvis is tilted in a way that the head of the penis can massage it when she rocks her hips.
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That makes no sense at all unless your bulbous bitch-banging baby builder bends down.
Do you know the position? Do you understand physical dynamics? Do you know the female anatomy well? Do you get a hard-on?
These questions answered, will help you understand.
That sounded really romantic until I thought of all the other books on the bookshelf :
You can only imagine the number of 'books' in my library I have to draw upon.
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In the reverse-cowgirl, the penis would be bending towards the woman's bottom. The g-spot is located behind the clit, which is on the other side of your body. Your position would have the penis tending away from it.
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Wouldn't this be easier with pictures?
Au contraire, REVERSEis when she's facing away from you and leans back on you. Her hips are positioned so your cock is hitting the anterior wall(front) of her vagina. She does the moving, so she has control of where your cock hits her. This I know from many years of experience and asking women what works best for them.
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