My husband and I aren't huge fans either, but he loves to be told when and how he'll cum. I think it's a nice variation on the theme. The sub is still handing over control, but they get to enjoy all of the bliss of orgasm and the dom/me gets to enjoy watching their sub get something they like.
Orgasm Denial
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My husband and I aren't huge fans either, but he loves to be told when and how he'll cum. I think it's a nice variation on the theme. The sub is still handing over control, but they get to enjoy all of the bliss of orgasm and the dom/me gets to enjoy watching their sub get something they like.
personally, i love it. it's one of my deepest kinks. being used for my partner's pleasure is one of my ultimate turn ons, and the more desperate i get, the more i'm willing to do or offer of myself. i'm less inhibited, more willing to debase myself. i love the feeling of being so utterly and completely focused on my partner.
i've only been able to do it a little bit in the past even though i love it. i try but don't have enough self control to do it on my own. but maybe someday..
i've only been able to do it a little bit in the past even though i love it. i try but don't have enough self control to do it on my own. but maybe someday..
spawnofdavey
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I absolutely love it but have to do it solo as my wife isn't into it at all.
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I agree with this. It is a great variation of Orgasm denial. The key for me is her interest or involvement in orgasm control. If giving her partner or sub an orgasm is a chore or an afterthought, then it does not work. And the orgasm she eventually gives her partner is not a reward, it is something she does for herself, because it turns her on; all of his reactions and inevitable release before her.
As the sub it is not just laying there and getting a great orgasm. An orgasm is the result of her actions sure, but it may come as part of impact play, it may come very quickly, very slowly, and even in unusual or a humiliating situation. The key is the sub does not know what to expect, that is part of the turn on for her and the challenge for the sub or her partner.
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This.
slickdan41
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It can be absolute torture if you have someone that knows where your limits are and insists on pushing them - but the better the payoff too
cyndi_lucy
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No you are not the only one that likes orgasm denial. It is a very popular fetish
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The craziest orgasm denial I endured was when this girl I was seeing brought her girlfriend in. So both of us were kept horny. She would have us fuck one stroke at a time and pull out when one of use got close.
Helll-o!
After a few months of no sex because of a death in the family we finally had some playtime. I made her cum several times and then I got the slowest, softest hand job that drove me crazy. She told me she loves how I admire her and touch her when I am horny. This morning she is still asleep with a smile on her face.
It is going to be a while before I get to cum. I love this!
It is going to be a while before I get to cum. I love this!
personally, i love it. it's one of my deepest kinks. being used for my partner's pleasure is one of my ultimate turn ons, and the more desperate i get, the more i'm willing to do or offer of myself. i'm less inhibited, more willing to debase myself. i love the feeling of being so utterly and completely focused on my partner.
i've only been able to do it a little bit in the past even though i love it. i try but don't have enough self control to do it on my own. but maybe someday..
I feel the same way! I have been trying to create the feeling and deny myself pleasure but it's not the same. I love being controlled and told what to do. It's hard to get that same feeling from myself.
Orgasm denial is the best, my top kink as well.
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The craziest orgasm denial I endured was when this girl I was seeing brought her girlfriend in. So both of us were kept horny. She would have us fuck one stroke at a time and pull out when one of use got close.
That's so hot.
Nearest I've had was a little elfin fwb. She played solo A LOT so took ages to cum.
As such, we'd spend hours mutually pleasing each other.
She'd do things like only touch my cock for the duration of the ads in a film. Then have me please her for the next section of the film.
Or, put sports on TV, and I only got cock attention if a point was scored.
I'd be hard, leaking and on edge for hours.
Just stumbled onto this video of a pretty girl teasing a guy. She seems to understand how to get him very close to cumming.
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5afa2b90c21b2
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5afa2b90c21b2
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edging
More then anything I love for my partner to edge me ......giving me a morning call telling me that i can touch myself but i cannot cum. What makes this best is when you finally do cum the intensity of the orgasm makes it worth the wait.
I also enjoy teasing and edging my partner ..... having him watch me as I undress myself and play with my self until he begs me to touch and play with him. Or even while we are out to dinner letting my hand slowly crawl up his leg teasing and playing with him until he cant take it anymore !
More then anything I love for my partner to edge me ......giving me a morning call telling me that i can touch myself but i cannot cum. What makes this best is when you finally do cum the intensity of the orgasm makes it worth the wait.
I also enjoy teasing and edging my partner ..... having him watch me as I undress myself and play with my self until he begs me to touch and play with him. Or even while we are out to dinner letting my hand slowly crawl up his leg teasing and playing with him until he cant take it anymore !
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Never done this before but I'm curious as you're. Want to do that for a long time, and no you're not alone in this.
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Also this...
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More then anything I love for my partner to edge me ......giving me a morning call telling me that i can touch myself but i cannot cum. What makes this best is when you finally do cum the intensity of the orgasm makes it worth the wait.
I also enjoy teasing and edging my partner ..... having him watch me as I undress myself and play with my self until he begs me to touch and play with him. Or even while we are out to dinner letting my hand slowly crawl up his leg teasing and playing with him until he cant take it anymore !
I miss having a partner who respects me enough to do such things, more than you can imagine
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Just can't get the wife to do this. Loses control.
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Orgasm denial is the best.
Getting all worked up, begging for permission? Yes. Please.
When I'm really deep into sub space, I don't even care If permission is granted. I just want to keep playing.
Getting all worked up, begging for permission? Yes. Please.
When I'm really deep into sub space, I don't even care If permission is granted. I just want to keep playing.
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PrettyLilPussy
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Ok... im asking...
Explain the "ruined orgasm" to me??
Explain the "ruined orgasm" to me??
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As you start to orgasm she stops the stimulation and the orgasm is a dud. You feel some pleasure but not even close to what you would feel if she did not stop. You ejaculate, feel a little bit of pleasure but that is it, no full orgasm.
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