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Soma99

Soma99

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Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
 
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People can be assholes, babe! It might not have been the best thing for you to have done but at least you're good enough to come clean about it and just be honest.

There's someone out there who is going to love you for you despite any flaws you think you may have. Psoriasis isn't a deal-breaker if someone really cares for you, just like you found with your ex. It's just skin. What matters is on the insides, and I'm really enjoying our chats and getting to know you, despite not really being all that close right now. I'm always available if you need to talk. :heart:
 
You are doing the right thing in telling the truth.
None of us is perfect. We ALL make mistakes.
It's none of my business perhaps, but I would report the blackmailer to the Moderators. Low-life like should be eradicated from our community.
 
Everyone slips up every now and then, coming clear like this shows you mean well... I hope you find someone onhere who likes you for who you are, not for what you look like! keep enjoying Lit!

Love,

-ST
 
If that's the worst thing you've ever done in your life then you're a better person than a lot of us. Stop apologizing, you've said your mea culpas. Move on and continue making the world a better place.
 
You did the right thing owning it. Move on and be happy.

I totally agree with SM7 though btw, report that jerk to the Mod's for trying to blackmail you!

On a separate note: a friend of mine at work developed psoriasis in her mid/late 20's like you. Someone recommended she try a cannabinoid infused skin cream and it totally worked. I don't know if medical marijuana is available in your state but you might look into it, or go visit a state where it is and give it a try.

Good luck! :rose:
 
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Firstly - you really shouldn’t have tried to pass off someone else pic as your own but you know that. It might feel like a victimless crime but it’s a thing that bothers me, because if someone nicked my pics, and frankly I doubt anyone would bother, but if they did... there might be enough about them to mean someone that knows me well could ID me... now I know the person that knows me best doesn’t look at lit but he does look at other porn sites so taking someone else’s pics can expose them to additional risk and really isn’t fair.

Secondly your blackmailers a cunt. Plain and simple - tell him to go fuck himself.

Thirdly - sorry about your skin issues, x
 
Hey there, just sent a wordy pm to ya!!
First off if the person that tried blackmailing you does read this I hope his junk fits and falls off!!! It takes a low life son of a bitch to do something like this to a beautiful lady as yourself!
Second, I’ve chatted with you for awhile now and I know that you are a strong willed woman! DO NOT lower yourself by saying your fun is done here! Be the better person and continue on! Forget the photo! I’ve said in the pm if it’s close to you Kool and so beit! I know you’re a beautiful lady and I don’t need to see a photo of you to know that. Oops almost typed your name out! I just don’t want you to lose out on YOUR fun because someone chose to be a idiotic dick to you! I hope you’ll stay and put this behind you!!
K
 
Soma99 my love, I wouldn't even worry about whether the picture was you or not. You are honest to admit the truth,
but like StrongMaster7 said, such blackmailer's should be eradicated from Literotica for attempting blackmail itself on
another Lit member, and I am sure the forum moderators including Laurel and Manu would do their best to protect you.
You have not broken any rules. So now that you have been bold enough to explain yourself, you should continue to enjoy
Literotica to the full. The blackmailer is not part of our greater community and is just a low-life troll.

:rose:
 
Sorry to hear you have been put in this position by a blackmailer. I am in full agreement with others, if you kept the PM then forward it to Laurel explains your reasons and ask her to remove the moron.

At least now by coming clean, you have kicked him in the nuts and stopped him.
 
Soma99 said:
Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
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That person is a Dbag. Took courage to come clean
 
I would like to say that I am the person who confronted Soma. I felt betrayed as I had asked a few times if that was her. She could have simply said it looked like her. When she finally offered an excuse I was leary and asked for a bit more confirmation. I apologize wholeheartedly for my reaction to feeling misled.

Through the process and after she told me more, I continued to praise her and her work as an author. I truly believe she is an incredible author - if you have not read her work, do yourself a favor and read it. In fact, I believe that she could even write a story of a girl with a skin condition which could be very supportive and helpful.

I publically offer my apology to Soma for any stress or anger that I may have caused her. That was not my intent. Please continue writing your incredible stories. You have a community here that loves you. It was never my intent to hurt anyone and I am incredibly sorry for any misunderstanding.

With that, I am going to leave Lit and wish you well.
 
Soma99 said:
Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
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You made a little mistake. That's all it was. Do not let this ruin your fun on here.
 
Soma99 said:
Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
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Guys in particular can be such jerks. You made a mistake and now you are admitting to it and moving on. That's what you should do. Don't worry about whatever he does, nobody really cares about him.
Hope you get to have that smile back on your pretty face and start having more fun. We are all pulling for you Soma!
 
Thank you all. I will reply to every person who messaged me.

I do want to say, I understand it was shitty to take that picture.

I googled “naked woman A cups” (or something very very close to that) and picked a picture that I thought was pretty close to me on the first page of results. I really do think it was pretty close to atleast the mental image I had of myself. I did not take a picture that had previously been private in some way.

Again, thank you all for your understanding. The next time I fuck up I promise to make it funnier.
 
Soma99 said:
Thank you all. I will reply to every person who messaged me.

I do want to say, I understand it was shitty to take that picture.

I googled “naked woman A cups” (or something very very close to that) and picked a picture that I thought was pretty close to me on the first page of results. I really do think it was pretty close to atleast the mental image I had of myself. I did not take a picture that had previously been private in some way.

Again, thank you all for your understanding. The next time I fuck up I promise to make it funnier.
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You’re ok in my book Hon!!! No worries here!! Just hope you take care of the nimrod so he doesn’t cause you any more grief!!!
 
It's okay

The heck with the person that told you that.
I have imperfections, we all do, but we live with them and can have a fulfilling life in spite of them.
Don't let the jerk who said that get you down.
Have a great day!
 
I afmire the heck out of you for following your convictions and owning up to it. ThAt takes real courage. Believe me, those of us who enjoy you and all that you add to the Lit community don’t hold it against you. Don’t give it a second thought. As for the asshat trying to blackmail you, well, he is just that; an asshat.Karma has a way of evening the score.

What troubles me most is hearing about all of the physical and emotional things that you are dealing with. We all would be equally as devastated and despondent were we going through it. Just remember that nothing lasts forever. No matter how overwhelming things seem, they won’t last forever. It is a season that you can endure. Lean on friends in and out of the Lit community, keep writing, keep posting and keep being you. Even when it hurts. It is what makes you unique, and unique is a very good thing to be. Peace!
 
You are good. Don't worry about it. Keep on doing what you are doing
 
Whynotnow987 said:
I would like to say that I am the person who confronted Soma. I felt betrayed as I had asked a few times if that was her. She could have simply said it looked like her. When she finally offered an excuse I was leary and asked for a bit more confirmation. I apologize wholeheartedly for my reaction to feeling misled.

Through the process and after she told me more, I continued to praise her and her work as an author. I truly believe she is an incredible author - if you have not read her work, do yourself a favor and read it. In fact, I believe that she could even write a story of a girl with a skin condition which could be very supportive and helpful.

I publically offer my apology to Soma for any stress or anger that I may have caused her. That was not my intent. Please continue writing your incredible stories. You have a community here that loves you. It was never my intent to hurt anyone and I am incredibly sorry for any misunderstanding.

With that, I am going to leave Lit and wish you well.
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Just don’t be a dick and try to use blackmail to leverage your power over her. That makes you the asshole in this situation.
 
Whynotnow987 said:
I would like to say that I am the person who confronted Soma. I felt betrayed as I had asked a few times if that was her. She could have simply said it looked like her. When she finally offered an excuse I was leary and asked for a bit more confirmation. I apologize wholeheartedly for my reaction to feeling misled.

Through the process and after she told me more, I continued to praise her and her work as an author. I truly believe she is an incredible author - if you have not read her work, do yourself a favor and read it. In fact, I believe that she could even write a story of a girl with a skin condition which could be very supportive and helpful.

I publically offer my apology to Soma for any stress or anger that I may have caused her. That was not my intent. Please continue writing your incredible stories. You have a community here that loves you. It was never my intent to hurt anyone and I am incredibly sorry for any misunderstanding.

With that, I am going to leave Lit and wish you well.
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I can see your side of it but to try and do what you did to her wasn’t right at all!
As you said there are a lot of people on the forum that love her and when something like this happens they’re gonna stick up for her.. I will say this in light of this it takes a set of cahonas to come on here and admit that you were the one! Just use this as a tool for the future and don’t go after someone the way you did! Ask for a person to explain before you say you’re going to expose it to all on the forum! Should of gave her the benefit of the doubt first!
Ok, my two cents and stepping off my soap box now.....
 
No need for you to apologize. You are as genuine a person as I’ve chatted with in here. Shake it off as a (very) minor mistake and move on. And ignore any ass that tries to give you grief!

Sorry about the break up. His loss, based on what I see.



Soma99 said:
Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
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Soma99 said:
Last week I got back from a trip and posted a picture on my profile page. It was a nude and I passed it off as myself.

I’n the last three years I have developed psoriasis. My skin is red and blotchy and I hate it. I also got the full on arthritis that comes with it and my knuckles have swollen to where I can not wear rings anymore. I do weekly steroid injections which give me some fun side affects. Each night when I go to bed I cover myself in gross creams.

I should not have done that I know, but I have had so much fun here being flirty and feeling sexy again. I swear the pictures was as close as I could find to what I looked like before I started having these symptoms.

My boyfriend just broke up with me, not because of this, and in fact he didn’t mind it at all. I really appreciated that. I know it’s going to be really hard to date when it looks like a have a rash on my elbows, knees, feet and sometimes around my ears.

The person who figured this out says if I don’t send him pictures of what I really look like he will tell people. Now- not nude pictures or anything like that but honestly fuck you if your reading this. Thanks for ruining my fun.

Maybe I will just go back to only writing stories, wthats what I originally really enjoyed.
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On a completely unrelated note - have you looked at cutting out gluten. I only say this because my husband has psoriasis, although not very bad, but he's found that removing gluten from his diet has a huge effect on it. (This means not drinking most beer, which makes him sad. Sad, but less itchy.)
 
You are a lovely lady inside and out and NOBODY (on here nor anywhere) should make you feel otherwise! Bottom-line...you are my friend. Nothing changes that!

I'm sorry that there are ass-hats out there who could be jerks enough to try to blackmail you.
 
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