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Do guys really enjoy being the alpha bull in a cuckold relationship?

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JoaoGon

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I have a question. There is a lot of cuckold porn and lots of stories on the internet about cuckolding. However, I wonder if being an alpha male/bull is really that fun in real life. I mean, it's sex, but isn't it a turn off to see a pathetic guy sitting next to you when you are having fun?

I myself am a beta but I never tried cuckolding in real life.
 
From memory, you've answered this yourself. I wouldn't expect the cuckold to be sitting there pathetically. I expect him to be active.

Whether he's getting his wife or girlfriend ready for me, or sucking my cock to get it ready for her, licking my shaft or her clit as we're fucking, or sucking us both clean at the end, I expect him to be doing something. I like it better if he's enjoying it, but its not essential.
 
This is a fallacy that men with a cuck fetish are somehow wimpish or psychologically in need of humiliation. I have had this fetish my entire married life, and practiced for a long time. At no time was there ever a need or desire to be dominated, humiliated or shoved out of the way. In all cases it has been a multi-layered sensory experience where all parties have been active and involved. I am what one would call the stereotypical alpa male type, but in the bedroom the very sex I have ever had has often involved a MFM configuration in which both men focus on the woman kinda synchronise themselves to her needs but in unison. Fantastic.
 
TerryJames69 said:
This is a fallacy that men with a cuck fetish are somehow wimpish or psychologically in need of humiliation. I have had this fetish my entire married life, and practiced for a long time. At no time was there ever a need or desire to be dominated, humiliated or shoved out of the way. In all cases it has been a multi-layered sensory experience where all parties have been active and involved. I am what one would call the stereotypical alpa male type, but in the bedroom the very sex I have ever had has often involved a MFM configuration in which both men focus on the woman kinda synchronise themselves to her needs but in unison. Fantastic.
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I'd have to describe my experiences with my husband as similar. I think it's more about how he thinks I'm hot and wants others to appreciate that as well. I have no desire to humiliate him, and I would immediately cease activities with a partner who tried to do so.

I've always found the obsession with alpha vs. beta to be totally beta behavior.
 
I really depends on the guy being the cuckold, and the man being the dom bull. Some husbands or BF have strong fantasies about being submissive . BUT how far will he want to go in a real life cuckolding, same for the bull. I know some bulls love being very dominant, their cocky loud and love humiliating some guy who's submissive . Some cuckolds like ME, really get off being submissive to that strong cocky bull, I fantasize about doing what ever he wants in the bedroom. I would think that all involved would talk and know what each likes.

Then you have the cuckold who's wife just cheats , he may know and just she is humiliating her cuck. Like bringing home her cheating cum filled pussy for him. Those bulls I'm guessing LOVE IT , knowing their fucking another guys woman and he's at home waiting and pulling on his dick.
 
I had experience being a bull

I loved it and it brought me great satisfaction

I did not humiliate the sub man though
 
LitMILF said:
I'd have to describe my experiences with my husband as similar. I think it's more about how he thinks I'm hot and wants others to appreciate that as well. I have no desire to humiliate him, and I would immediately cease activities with a partner who tried to do so.

I've always found the obsession with alpha vs. beta to be totally beta behavior.
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Attagirl. Spot on.
 
ScottMtl said:
I had experience being a bull

I loved it and it brought me great satisfaction

I did not humiliate the sub man though
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Thus exactly

Males have an ego. Being told by a woman that your cock is the biggest she's had, seeing her eyes get wide, hearing her gasp when you enter her. Huge turn on

Don't care to shame the husband.
 
crashD said:
Thus exactly

Males have an ego. Being told by a woman that your cock is the biggest she's had, seeing her eyes get wide, hearing her gasp when you enter her. Huge turn on

Don't care to shame the husband.
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I agree with this.

Soon I'm going to be an official cuckold of a hotwife. I'm fully anticipating that moment when my wife's bull is fucking her and I hear the cries of passion out if her. I'm sure some will be about the skill of his lovemaking being better than mine, his cock being bigger, etc. I'm sure he's going to relish hearing that from her.

Apart from that I'm really not going to dig any other kind of humiliation from him. I actually have some interests/hobbies that would put me in an alpha male role. I just have a beta male kink, I guess you'd call it. If I'm going to hand my wife and bed over to another man then he'd better damn well "respect me in the morning".
 
JoaoGon said:
I have a question. There is a lot of cuckold porn and lots of stories on the internet about cuckolding. However, I wonder if being an alpha male/bull is really that fun in real life. I mean, it's sex, but isn't it a turn off to see a pathetic guy sitting next to you when you are having fun?

I myself am a beta but I never tried cuckolding in real life.
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Short answer: YES
 
"Alpha" and "Bull" don't really belong together in my view, especially in the scenario the OP suggested.

If there's an Alpha Male in any situation of sexual play, everyone else's experience - the women and the men - is gonna be enhanced. He sets away another level of arousal for the others, merely by his presence. The gals will tingle, the guys will get horn. He, the Alpha, will never humiliate.
 
i have been brought in as the other guys 4 times in the past
by couples who want me to fuck the gf/wife as the guy watches

because i have a big cock, personally i try to ignore his being there as much as possible, usually the guy just sits there and watches and sometimes talks tohis wife i know i m the guest and i act accordingly
 
screwher said:
I agree with this.

Soon I'm going to be an official cuckold of a hotwife. I'm fully anticipating that moment when my wife's bull is fucking her and I hear the cries of passion out if her. I'm sure some will be about the skill of his lovemaking being better than mine, his cock being bigger, etc. I'm sure he's going to relish hearing that from her.

Apart from that I'm really not going to dig any other kind of humiliation from him. I actually have some interests/hobbies that would put me in an alpha male role. I just have a beta male kink, I guess you'd call it. If I'm going to hand my wife and bed over to another man then he'd better damn well "respect me in the morning".
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Spot on brother. If there are no rules then this can have a bad outcome. This is why I do not agree that a cuckhold fetish has to be associated in any way with humiliation.
 
suckonsimon said:
"Alpha" and "Bull" don't really belong together in my view, especially in the scenario the OP suggested.

If there's an Alpha Male in any situation of sexual play, everyone else's experience - the women and the men - is gonna be enhanced. He sets away another level of arousal for the others, merely by his presence. The gals will tingle, the guys will get horn. He, the Alpha, will never humiliate.
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Can you become our alpha? Are you taking applications from couples? 😉😃
 
suckonsimon said:
"Alpha" and "Bull" don't really belong together in my view, especially in the scenario the OP suggested.

If there's an Alpha Male in any situation of sexual play, everyone else's experience - the women and the men - is gonna be enhanced. He sets away another level of arousal for the others, merely by his presence. The gals will tingle, the guys will get horn. He, the Alpha, will never humiliate.
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I agree. In general I associate bull with physical characteristics. And I associate alpha with leadership and dominance characteristics.

Where the two converge can be a unique and special experience unlike a stupid beast charging at every hole he sees.
 
Is incredibly hot when I guy wants to share his wife with you. For me it's up to them the role they want me to play - in my experience some just want another to appreciate how sexy their shy wife is, others love to be dominated totally. Either way we have a lot of fun together!
 
One aspect of swinging we have been involved in is couples where the male really enjoys watching his wife get fucked by the other couple. On a number of occasions my husband has been a bull for other couples while I joined in with him, taking care of the wife or watching along with the husband. One couple as an example, we have provided service for over a period of time, the wife and my husband usually go at it while her husband and I watch. ( I am very voyeuristic so this is a turn on to me as well). At no point though do we degrade or put down the husband. That aspect is not a turn on to us. My husband also enjoys being the cuck from time to time watching me get fucked as well. Nothing degrading. Just good hot sex
 
bibethhotwet said:
One aspect of swinging we have been involved in is couples where the male really enjoys watching his wife get fucked by the other couple. On a number of occasions my husband has been a bull for other couples while I joined in with him, taking care of the wife or watching along with the husband. One couple as an example, we have provided service for over a period of time, the wife and my husband usually go at it while her husband and I watch. ( I am very voyeuristic so this is a turn on to me as well). At no point though do we degrade or put down the husband. That aspect is not a turn on to us. My husband also enjoys being the cuck from time to time watching me get fucked as well. Nothing degrading. Just good hot sex
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This. I wish you were closer to us
 
bibethhotwet said:
One aspect of swinging we have been involved in is couples where the male really enjoys watching his wife get fucked by the other couple. On a number of occasions my husband has been a bull for other couples while I joined in with him, taking care of the wife or watching along with the husband. One couple as an example, we have provided service for over a period of time, the wife and my husband usually go at it while her husband and I watch. ( I am very voyeuristic so this is a turn on to me as well). At no point though do we degrade or put down the husband. That aspect is not a turn on to us. My husband also enjoys being the cuck from time to time watching me get fucked as well. Nothing degrading. Just good hot sex
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Spot on. Works for us as well.
 
There is some level of humiliation in being a cuckold simply by virtue of the fact that your wife seeks satisfaction with another man. I guess it depends on how strictly you interpret the rules of a traditional monogamous relationship. The bull's mere presence is humiliating enough.
 
But if the husband has played a major part in cultivating his woman's willingness to get fucked by other men he'll feel like the empowerer won't he?
 
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