JulieRichUK
Really Really Experienced
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Don't spank her clit.
Rub/massage her vulva, the whole mound between her legs.
Slap the vulva gently with you cupped hand, centering it in your palm.
As she becomes very aroused, her lips will open up exposing her clit hood and inner lips -- her slit.
Keep gently spanking. Move the starting position of your hand up a slight bit. You want to end up with your middle finger falling into her slit as your hand lands against her vulva.
When she fully opens, her clit itself will be exposed. As you remove your hand to ready the next blow, drag your finger up across the clit.
Your goal is the point where, if she were masturbating, she would be furiously rubbing her clit. That's when you can start aiming to land you finger directly against it.
Again, far better to be too gentle than too hard. Patience, and the time will cum when she wants firm contact with her clit.
Then pick up your rhythm and she will cum for you.
That is sterling advice, and by the way you described well practiced.