sweet_tease
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Got to say it is so refreshing to see so many women into bi guy wish i could find one of them so many women when i tell them i am bi break things off, thses are the same women that talk about being ooenminded and bi themself, well bi army guy here would love to make friends with some of you ladies that like bi guys email me at yahoo armyguy32nd or im and guys dont be afraind to im me to
I don't see where anyone said that the women don't have the right to do anything they want. What I do see is a man commented on how sad it is that he hasn't met a woman that is into dating bi men. And then I see you, with your unsolicited, Queen Witch attitude trying to "educate" or dictate how others must be because you say it must be. Get a grip and learn to read or maybe comprehend. No one is insulting women, trying to force women to do anything, or deny them any right to do anything they want and they certainly weren't trying to do it with you.Well just because one is open minded does not mean they have to be obligated to certain things. It was those women preference to not date bisexual men. They have the right to do so.
I don't see where anyone said that the women don't have the right to do anything they want. What I do see is a man commented on how sad it is that he hasn't met a woman that is into dating bi men. And then I see you, with your unsolicited, Queen Witch attitude trying to "educate" or dictate how others must be because you say it must be. Get a grip and learn to read or maybe comprehend. No one is insulting women, trying to force women to do anything, or deny them any right to do anything they want and they certainly weren't trying to do it with you.
Well just because one is open minded does not mean they have to be obligated to certain things. It was those women preference to not date bisexual men. They have the right to do so.
Well just because one is open minded does not mean they have to be obligated to certain things. It was those women preference to not date bisexual men. They have the right to do so.
This is a thread about women who *like* bi-sexual men and their right to do so. I for one am one the *likes*
sweet tease damn right feel free to to contact this bi anytime and BiUnlce as long you are top contact me to
I don't see where anyone said that the women don't have the right to do anything they want. What I do see is a man commented on how sad it is that he hasn't met a woman that is into dating bi men. And then I see you, with your unsolicited, Queen Witch attitude trying to "educate" or dictate how others must be because you say it must be. Get a grip and learn to read or maybe comprehend. No one is insulting women, trying to force women to do anything, or deny them any right to do anything they want and they certainly weren't trying to do it with you.
Open-minded people are not *obligated* to do certain things. However, you're simplifying something that is a bit more complicated. Because open-mindedness requires that you not *judge* based on sexuality, which is what you seem to be doing here. Allow me to explain.
To me there are two separate dating criteria at play. The first being the perceivable. A lot of people out there use perceivable criteria for choosing a partner. Looks, fashion style, how they talk/present themselves, what type of person they come across as being (whether or not they're misrepresenting themselves is a different matter), whether they have piercings/tattoos, etc. etc. Now everyone probably has one or two perceivable criteria they judge on. But if you judge on *too many* criteria, or on certain *key* criteria (such as looks) you earn the label of "shallow". If you have very little criteria of which the only crucial one is personality, you're labeled as "deep". People who are deep are not *obligated* to date anyone. However, if they begin to judge based on a lot of criteria, or on those certain key criteria, they can no longer be labeled "deep".
Now we get to the second criteria, the unperceivable. This meaning aspects of a person you *can't* tell just from looking at them/talking to them/being around them for awhile. Things you wouldn't know about them unless someone either TOLD you, or SHOWED you (such as you accidentally walking in on the guy participating in an orgy that only involved other men). Now, you could be turned off by what I like to call a gay accent (which a number of gay men and some bi men have, and you know what I'm talking about), or by a very femme personality, or femme actions, or by crossdressing, and all of those would go into the first criteria category, as those are perceivable, and so would have nothing to do with open-minded/close-mindedness. But we're not talking about that here, because none of those define bisexuality, and someone who has any or all of those traits will not necessarily be bisexual. No, here we're talking about any and all people possessing the "bisexual" sexual orientation, many of whom you would never know it unless they told/showed you, and that is an unperceivable criteria.
Now again, *everyone* will have some unperceivable criteria they judge on. Me for example, if I start dating someone and find out that they serve a pagan god whose worship rituals require the severing of penises, I'm out the door, no questions asked, no phone calls returned. Or if I find out that someone has a huge collection of shrunken heads and/or human skulls, yeah, that one's a deal breaker for me too. But if a person has *too* many criteria, or again certain *key* criteria, they earn the label of "close-minded" (at least dating-wise). Those who don't have a bunch of unperceivable criteria get the "open-minded" label. Guess what, sexual orientation (so long as your own gender falls within the attracted realm, no one blames someone for breaking up if it turns out their SO's sexual orientation doesn't even include the gender that someone happens to be in), happens to be pretty big in that key criteria area. Open-minded people aren't *required* to do anything they don't want. However, if from all perceivable criteria, you're into a guy, you really like him, you go out on a few dates with him, he tells you he's bisexual, and suddenly you call things off because of that and that alone? Then you're *not* open-minded to begin with. You're very much close-minded.
Some people would respond that they see bisexuality as making their SO less of a man, and anyone who doesn't know that that's just a bullshit stereotype stuffed down people's throats by society is an idiot. There are very manly/masucline gays and bisexuals. Being bi or gay doesn't make a man an ounce less of a man, nor does being straight make a guy any more of a man. Saying something like "Oh, I support bisexuality and bisexual guys in general, I just wouldn't want to *date* one", is just flat out bullshit. What would you say if a girl started dating a guy, really really likes him, but after a few dates she finds out he's 1/4 African-American (you can't even tell he's mixed-race by looking at him), and suddenly breaks up with him? Would you buy the line "Oh, I completely support black people, I just wouldn't want to *date* one", or would you call bullshit? What about if a girl starts dating a guy, really likes him, and finds out a few dates in that he has clinical depression, or a minor syndrome that you can't even perceive from being around him, unless he actually tells you, and the girl immediately breaks up with him? Should the "Oh, I absolutely support people with mental problems/illness/handicaps, but you know I'd never actually *date* someone like that" line fly for that too? No. Guess what, if someone does that, they get labeled "close-minded", no ifs ands or buts about it. Doesn't mean that people can't have those criteria. Doesn't mean that they can't refuse to date whoever they want, for whatever reasons they want. But it doesn't change the fact that they are still *close-minded* for doing it.
This is a thread about women who *like* bi-sexual men and their right to do so. I for one am one the *likes*
This is a thread about women who *like* bi-sexual men and their right to do so. I for one am one the *likes*
As am I!! Wish my fiancé would share my fantasy!!! We pretend by sucking a dildo together during role play but never in reality....
oh, I'd love to play with you
What??? All of what you said sounded like bullshit to me,buddy. And ain't a contradiction for you not to date someone who practice the arts? You just passed judgement right there,buddy. Being open minded, and fucking anything and anybody are two different things. If a woman say she's open minded but does not want to date a bisexual guy, then that is her preference. Just because someone say they are open minded does mean they should do this or that. Just because a straight man says he have no problem with gay men, and accepts them, so does that mean that said straight man have to get fucked by another man? NO. This closed minded debate is utter bullshit. A woman who claims they are open-minded have every right to date a man who truly loves women, a man that actually enjoys having sex with them and think about it all the time, and not have to think about some dude to get off. A real man that truly desires women to the fullest, and not be used as a cover up.
Now me personally yes I do sometimes enjoy mmf porn,mmf stories, and I even wrote one my self,but I also know there's difference between those, and reality. Maybe those women that armyguy mention are afraid to be used as cover-up's.What woman in her right wants to be used as a cover-up unless she can benefit from it (Hint Hint John Travolta and his wife)?
Uhm... Way to not read my message. I have no problem dating people who are into witchcraft, or pagans in general. What I said is that I wouldn't date someone who served a pagan god *whose worship rituals required the severing of penises*. Try and actually read next time, Mrs. Close-Minded.
And you're emphasizing points which fall under the "all bisexual men must secretly be gay" theory, which happens to be another bullshit societal stereotype. Here's an amazing fact for you, truly bisexual men don't use women as "cover ups". They actually enjoy being with women, and don't *need* to think of guys in order to get off. What you're saying sounds as ridiculous as a guy saying he refuses to date bisexual women because he "Wants to be with a girl who really loves men. A girl who actually enjoys sex with them and doesn't need to think about another girl to get off". It's just bullshit. A bisexual man can love women and enjoy sex with them just as much as a straight guy. He just also happens to enjoy sex with men as well. Doesn't mean he enjoys sex with women any less for it. I mean, if you're a bisexual woman, does that preclude you from loving sex with men? Of course not.
To me, it just sounds like you're too damn insecure. You subscribe to the bullshit "all bi men must secretly be gay" theory, which is really made up of just ignorance and fear. You're fine competing with other women, but you don't have the confidence in yourself to compete with men as well. You feel they would inevitably beat you out for the guy, that you somehow don't have what it takes to hold him. And that's your problem. Grow some confidence, and realize a bisexual man can love and commit to a woman just as easily as a straight guy. Just as a bisexual woman can love and commit to a guy just as easily as a straight girl. Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean she's going to be overpowered by the need for pussy. Same with a bi guy and cock. So deal with your own insecurities and stop pretending your views are anything but fear and prejudice. Because they are, and you *are* close-minded.
Oh, and the whole straight guy accepting gay guys but not wanting to have sex with them comparison is so ridiculously ignorant it's funny. The straight guy is refusing the gay guys because they're not a gender he's attracted to, not *because they're gay*. Whereas a girl whose into guys but refuses to date bisexuals *is attracted to that gender*, and is refusing for no other reason than *because he's bi*.