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...Having read the posts, I think the women tend to be more submissive than men
It's like floating on my back in a pool with my arms outstretched and my eyes closed, and he is the water beneath me.
I am untethered, I am entirely vulnerable. And yet, he holds me.
Based on the reading I've done I haven't found any reason to assume that either gender is more prone than the other to it. Of course there will be differences just due to biology and you might be right, but there's been no large-scale detailed study into it yet and from the ones there have been there's no clear impression that being a dom' or sub' is particularly gendered.Having read the posts, I think the women tend to be more submissive than men
It's like floating on my back in a pool with my arms outstretched and my eyes closed, and he is the water beneath me.
I am untethered, I am entirely vulnerable. And yet, he holds me.
To me this reads a lot more like a lure cast by a 'HNG' looking for material than somebody actually looking for familiarity or acceptance...
We? I don't know why others like it and can only answer for myself.
I'm not into humiliation.
I get off on being told what to do. There's no magical connection.
Fuck if I know.
No.
What do you feel when you are being /humiliated/dominated?
What is the feeling and the aim of being submissive to another person? How does it feel good?
Let's all share our feelings.
What do you feel when you are being /humiliated/dominated?
What is the feeling and the aim of being submissive to another person? How does it feel good?
Let's all share our feelings.
Why do I "like" being submissive?
That is akin to asking why do I "like" being a woman... (not equating being female with being submissive, but instead positing that my submissive nature is as ingrained and imutable for me as being female.)
It IS who I am. I am at my best when I do not fight it. When I embrace it and am with someone who revels in it and loves me for that part of who I am and prods and pokes at all of the elements of my unique submissiveness.
When I am with someone in that particular head space, I feel clearer and have more peace and have a deeper sense of myself and a "rightness" ~ a clarity... than at any other time. Tapping into that essence of myself and embracing it, learning to find all of the edges of it and what elements work for me and my partner is like an infinite complex dance that is unique and fascinating and compelling on a physical, mental, psychological and spiritual level.
If the question is why do I "like" being submissive... I must answer that I like it because it is the truest expression of myself.
And when I am honestly exploring and living that... I am at my happiest.