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So, do you find yourself scrolling through the personals and shaking your head or nodding your head going, "Nope, Nope, yep, nope, nope, maybe, nope."?
i'm a straight guy so mostly I look through the personals saying "dude, dude, dude, dude, maybe, dude, dude, dude, god I hope she answers my pm, dude, dude, dude"
Or, on the flip side, have you ever received a message and been like, "WTF! Yeah, like I would ever believe that."?
I often wonder how many people join the site, stay a few days and never return.
Sure, it is exciting to look through some of the forums. Flicking through page after page of what people have posted. But, has anyone had a conversation that lasted more than a month? How about 2 months? Imagine a year of swapping messages with someone you will never meet.
That would be pretty sweet.
(Ok I took the bait )
I’ve had conversations that have gone on for over an year, and still do..
But I take your point, many (most?) fizzle out when you realise there isn’t much in common once you have got over the initial thought, picture, video, personal that brought you together... it’s (Lit) life
The personals are an amazing hit and miss melange..
That is awesome, to have a conversation here for over a year.
There is no question conversations fizzle out because you have shared all that you can think of or wanted to share with another person here.
The personals is a very interesting place to see people. Sometimes the posts make you shake you head and laugh and sometimes they get you very curious.
Now, as for long conversations, do you feel a sense of loss when you no longer se a message from them?
Sometimes, yes. It is like relationships imho, they are rarely ‘equal’ and I sometimes feel a pang of regret when she moves on yet I still want more. That is life. Made sweeter by the occasional message that makes my heart leap
A lot of guys on this site only want photos or experiences to go into their wank banks (IME).
Once they have them, the messages decline and they move on to the next target.
Good chat partners are hard to find but don't stop trying- they are out there - sifting through the duds to find the good ones takes time
I have had some lovely conversations with women that continued for couple of weeks. Thinking back, they may have gotten too sexual too quickly and the shine does wear off. There’s also a time zone factor and real life. So both parties must be willing and understanding to make it work. What does one talk about? Work? Family? Feelings? Have to figure out common ground. It would be a lovely to have a continuing pm partner. I am willing to try, how about you?