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How to you like your blowjobs?......men and women

Funnbrandy said:
So maybe this isn't a new subject but I wanted some feed back on it and didn't find a thread specifically asking the question.

Blowjobs! What you wanna see....

As a blowjob connoisseur I'm going to tell you how I do it and what I think guys like to see out of a good blowjob, now every guy is different, but in general I think these are pretty safe bets. So guys, and ladies, please provide feed back on what you like, this is not a thread for if you like it or not, this is for the 10% or so of ladies who actually enjoy doing it ( sorry guys, I don't understand how some women refuse to do it....unbelievable! )

1. Enthusiasm- now I don't like watching porn where women slowly bob up and down with an expressionless face, so I can't imagine guys do either, don't just slouch over and put it in your mouth! Get between his legs and position yourself like a cat ready to pounce on a mouse, hum and moan, change your body position so you're sucking it from different angles. Act like it's the best thing you've ever tasted and you can't get enough!

2. Technique- similar to enthusiasm but worth mentioning on its own, I like to mix it up a little, go from deepthroating to putting it in your cheek, lick it like an ice cream cone, use hands to stroke it at the same time, use no hands, swirl your tongue around the head, take control or hang your head off the bed and let him take control.....there's no wrong way to suck a cock.....just better ways!

3. Saliva- I like the way a sloppy blowjob looks on screen so I like to make it a little on the wet side. Again I'm sure ever guy is different but I'm yet to have a guy say, "please don't do that", when I spit on his cock or let saliva string from his member to my mouth, lol.

4. Deepthroat- I know it's a technique but it deserves it's own mention, practice makes perfect, unless you one of the naturally talented few who don't have a gag reflex. And I think I speak for all guys when I say they like to see their cock completely disappear.....I mean that's the whole point of a blowjob isn't it? You don't just wash the front of your car do you, lol. By the way, guys correct me if I'm wrong, but they rather enjoy seeing a girl gag anyway, plus it shows enthusiasm too!

5. Eye contact- I think guys like to look deep into my eyes while their cock is deep in my throat, but more than that I like to see the reaction on a guys face when I do a good job sucking his cock ;)

6. Playfulness- don't take cock sucking so serious, lol, give him a smile once in a while, I like to let a guy know I'm having fun, slap it off your tongue and give him a wink. If you gag don't look down in embarrassment, laugh it off and get right back on that horse!

7. Balls- don't forget about the balls, I'm yet to start sucking a guys balls and not hear, "oh yes". Plus if he's close to cumming it a good way to keep going while he calms down.

8. Rimming- I know it's not a blowjob issue really, but hey while your down there and if you don't mind I'm sure it's appreciated. Guys if you want you ass rimmed please prepare it the same way you want your woman's prepared, I prefer clean shaven and obviously freshly showered, should go without saying, but that goes for cock too!

9. Dirty talk- it's not just for sex you know, I like to do a little dirty talk during blowjobs you, " god I love sucking your big, fat cock!"
That usually gets a moan or two ;)

10. The Finish- the last thing a guy remembers is typically the last thing he sees, lol. Probably the most contested of the 10 points but the most important, I would say whatever you do don't recoil in disgust when he starts cumming, at the very least continue stroking him and let it squirt all over his stomach. Now for the more adventurous, and for myself I like to impress with the finish! Do I absolutely love getting a facial.....not necessarily, I don't mind it.....but do I like the look on a guys face when I tell him to "cum all over my slutty little face"...you bet. Now would I sit on the couch and enjoy a nice glass of cum......no......but I do love listening to a guy moan and see his knees almost buckle as I hold my mouth open and tongue out for him to fill up, then swallow it all down with a smile. Remember.....good girls swallow......great girls gargle ;)

Anything I missed
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Funnbrandy said:
So maybe this isn't a new subject but I wanted some feed back on it and didn't find a thread specifically asking the question.

Blowjobs! What you wanna see....

As a blowjob connoisseur I'm going to tell you how I do it and what I think guys like to see out of a good blowjob, now every guy is different, but in general I think these are pretty safe bets. So guys, and ladies, please provide feed back on what you like, this is not a thread for if you like it or not, this is for the 10% or so of ladies who actually enjoy doing it ( sorry guys, I don't understand how some women refuse to do it....unbelievable! )

1. Enthusiasm- now I don't like watching porn where women slowly bob up and down with an expressionless face, so I can't imagine guys do either, don't just slouch over and put it in your mouth! Get between his legs and position yourself like a cat ready to pounce on a mouse, hum and moan, change your body position so you're sucking it from different angles. Act like it's the best thing you've ever tasted and you can't get enough!

2. Technique- similar to enthusiasm but worth mentioning on its own, I like to mix it up a little, go from deepthroating to putting it in your cheek, lick it like an ice cream cone, use hands to stroke it at the same time, use no hands, swirl your tongue around the head, take control or hang your head off the bed and let him take control.....there's no wrong way to suck a cock.....just better ways!

3. Saliva- I like the way a sloppy blowjob looks on screen so I like to make it a little on the wet side. Again I'm sure ever guy is different but I'm yet to have a guy say, "please don't do that", when I spit on his cock or let saliva string from his member to my mouth, lol.

4. Deepthroat- I know it's a technique but it deserves it's own mention, practice makes perfect, unless you one of the naturally talented few who don't have a gag reflex. And I think I speak for all guys when I say they like to see their cock completely disappear.....I mean that's the whole point of a blowjob isn't it? You don't just wash the front of your car do you, lol. By the way, guys correct me if I'm wrong, but they rather enjoy seeing a girl gag anyway, plus it shows enthusiasm too!

5. Eye contact- I think guys like to look deep into my eyes while their cock is deep in my throat, but more than that I like to see the reaction on a guys face when I do a good job sucking his cock ;)

6. Playfulness- don't take cock sucking so serious, lol, give him a smile once in a while, I like to let a guy know I'm having fun, slap it off your tongue and give him a wink. If you gag don't look down in embarrassment, laugh it off and get right back on that horse!

7. Balls- don't forget about the balls, I'm yet to start sucking a guys balls and not hear, "oh yes". Plus if he's close to cumming it a good way to keep going while he calms down.

8. Rimming- I know it's not a blowjob issue really, but hey while your down there and if you don't mind I'm sure it's appreciated. Guys if you want you ass rimmed please prepare it the same way you want your woman's prepared, I prefer clean shaven and obviously freshly showered, should go without saying, but that goes for cock too!

9. Dirty talk- it's not just for sex you know, I like to do a little dirty talk during blowjobs you, " god I love sucking your big, fat cock!"
That usually gets a moan or two ;)

10. The Finish- the last thing a guy remembers is typically the last thing he sees, lol. Probably the most contested of the 10 points but the most important, I would say whatever you do don't recoil in disgust when he starts cumming, at the very least continue stroking him and let it squirt all over his stomach. Now for the more adventurous, and for myself I like to impress with the finish! Do I absolutely love getting a facial.....not necessarily, I don't mind it.....but do I like the look on a guys face when I tell him to "cum all over my slutty little face"...you bet. Now would I sit on the couch and enjoy a nice glass of cum......no......but I do love listening to a guy moan and see his knees almost buckle as I hold my mouth open and tongue out for him to fill up, then swallow it all down with a smile. Remember.....good girls swallow......great girls gargle ;)

Anything I missed
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while I strongly agree with nearly everything you say, I would disagree with such a thoughtful blowjob connoisseur in one regard: point 4, deep throat. As a recipient to many wonderful blowjobs, I don't think deep throat is an essential part of the blow. I'd much rather have my cockhead suckled enthusiastically until I can take no more. any way, that's IMHO. :cool:
 
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You basically nailed it!...and got me rock hard in the process but not the point!

Ive had great blowjobs where Ive lasted a few minutes. Ive had terrible blowjobs where Ive stopped a girl mid way. Personally, just avoid the teeth. I enjoy kink QUITE a bit, but teeth are just a no-no in my lower region.

However, Ive had plenty of blowjobs that feel phenomenal the entire time, but they just can't seem to end. I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts on this? After a while, it just gets boring where it just plateaus and stays there.

EDIT: Kinda agree above me. Deepthroat is a bonus, not an essential.
 
Ima_Reader said:
I like to lick his cock as though I was exploring uncharted territory, trying to memorize it for later. I find that he enjoys it more when I use his cock to stimulate my tongue, rather than the other way around.
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Exploration IS wonderful! ;)
 
I agree with everything Brandy said although I'd add more emphasis to his bottom. I've had few opportunities to give a blow job, but touch his bottom and slipping inside has always been appreciated. I know when receiving I love to be penetrated, fingers or bigger if she doesn't mind sharing her favorite dildo. ;)
 
Funnbrandy makes great points.

I want to see them sucking. Show me that you like it. Not to fast, not fo slow, show me you enjoy it. Lick my balls, rim me, play with my asshole, smile a lot , and make it sloppy. Deep throat is a must.
 
I can't deepthroat and don't have much inclination to learn. I'm enthusiastic, creative and totally into it when I do give a blow job. Along with licking, sucking, dipping my tongue in the slit at the top of his penis, I do give little (very gentle) nibbles, or gently grab his cock lengthwise in my teeth and growl. I know guys generally say, no teeth, no way, but this always manages to drive hubby wild. Of course he knows I'm gentle with his anatomy and won't hurt him.
 
simplegirl said:
I can't deepthroat and don't have much inclination to learn. I'm enthusiastic, creative and totally into it when I do give a blow job. Along with licking, sucking, dipping my tongue in the slit at the top of his penis, I do give little (very gentle) nibbles, or gently grab his cock lengthwise in my teeth and growl. I know guys generally say, no teeth, no way, but this always manages to drive hubby wild. Of course he knows I'm gentle with his anatomy and won't hurt him.
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I am not opposed to playful biting.
 
Follow up

So!...read some comments and love the feedback and would like to comment back plus add a few that I missed. Seems to be a few who like a little finger in the hole play during a blowjob, I'm not opposed but I figured I was trying to keep this a purely blowjob thread and wasn't even gonna mention rimjobs, but we went there and so I'll do you one better and put my pussy in your face to lick (69) and use a small vibrator to stimulate your prostate....deal? Good, lol.

Now to those who had an issue with deepthroating.......are you fucking high! Lol, sure everyone likes their blowjobs differently but to argue against it being on the list is ludicrous. I appreciate the feedback but it stays in the list ;)

To the guy who mentioned the blowjob doesnt end with cumming, good catch, I've often continued sucking until they go limp or were ready to go again....or my jaw seizes up, lol, whichever comes first :)

Now I would like to add the following....

Fore-play? Whoever said blowjobs are foreplay was dead wrong, good for mid play and post play too! I love to hop off a guys cock and see his reaction as begin sucking him again....and again.....and again, you get the idea. Blowjobs shouldn't be just an intro to sex....yes it's been inside you but you expect your man to lick it you shouldn't have any problems licking it yourself, I know there's the double standard of him not kissing you after you swallow but it's not about points so don't use that argument, lol

Location, location, location! A blowjob in the comfort of your own bed at night is not the same as a blowjob in the middle of a crowded parking lot, so don't forget to mix it up and do the unexpected, my personal favourite was I would give my boyfriend a blowjob every time his mom would call, he hated it and loved it at the same time, it was an ongoing joke, lol. Others that are fun, road head, at a friends party, the great outdoors, something about sex outside that's a turn on? And I've always wanted to do it under a table clothe at a fancy restaurant....some day, lol.
 
Great post Brandy. You nailed it. For me, I'm into her eyes. I like her staring, with that look of "I want nothing more than to please you" as she slowly licks me. When I get that look from my wife, I know it's going to be a fun night.
 
I like to ram myself deep into her. A lot of gagging, gasping for breath and saliva follow. I've got my hands on the back of her head so i can push my cock deeper down her throat whenever. She looks up to me the whole time. Favourite location would be somewhere half public, like a balcony or a restaurant toilet.
 
Ima_Reader said:
I like to lick his cock as though I was exploring uncharted territory, trying to memorize it for later. I find that he enjoys it more when I use his cock to stimulate my tongue, rather than the other way around.
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Incidentally, I'd like the opportunity to explore a pussy the same way, using it for my pleasure more than the other way around. I think we'd both like the results of that little journey. ;)
 
Ima_Reader said:
Incidentally, I'd like the opportunity to explore a pussy the same way, using it for my pleasure more than the other way around. I think we'd both like the results of that little journey. ;)
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I may have mentioned this before, but it's on my mind this morning.
 
Ima_Reader said:
Incidentally, I'd like the opportunity to explore a pussy the same way, using it for my pleasure more than the other way around. I think we'd both like the results of that little journey. ;)
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Maybe I should set you up with my wife, she wants to be explored by a women's tongue and touch.
 
Fore-play? Whoever said blowjobs are foreplay was dead wrong said:
Yes, yes and yes. If your guy doesn't want to kiss you after he's cum in your mouth, then how can he expect you to suck his cock after it's been in your cunt. Turn about is fair play. I personally love to kiss a woman with her mouth full of my cum before she looks at me and lets me see her swallow. I also have no problem with creampie as long as it's my cream.

Outdoor, parking lots of shopping malls, back row of movie theaters, driving down a country road or expressway, out on hotel balcony.....been there done that. It's especially great if SHE says she wants to do those things.
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Funnbrandy said:
Location, location, location! A blowjob in the comfort of your own bed at night is not the same as a blowjob in the middle of a crowded parking lot, so don't forget to mix it up and do the unexpected, my personal favourite was I would give my boyfriend a blowjob every time his mom would call, he hated it and loved it at the same time, it was an ongoing joke, lol.
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Damn I'd love to have that ongoing joke. I'd set it up for my Mom to call every day!
 
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