gracie920101
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I feel I'm probably older than most on here and I'm late to the game, in fact, this is my first foray into the Forum so excuse any newbie faux pas committed since I didn't search the entire site first.
Having discovered Literotica a few months back, I'm now immersed in reading some of MY fantasies in print! Who knew so many others were out there? It has rekindled a lot of fun and a lot of frustrating activity in our bedroom after some years of drought. (My husband would say that it was a severe drought! Yeah, ok, I own that but get over it already!) It's also opened lines of communication/confession as never before - it wasn't bad before - just never about BDSM. (Spanking? Yes, please, Sir!)
So here's our issue:
Our bodies have aged but our minds are still stuck in our late 30's where one of us ended up in the ER for exhaustion after a weekend to remember. (And that's a whole other bedtime story for later review!) We had dabbled mildly in the lifestyle in the past but stopped due to some lifechanging vanilla-life events.
As we try to resume, there's a multitude of aging and health factors making themselves known that you just don't casually drop on your general MD's lap at the next appointment for blood pressure pills! For instance, kneeling any length of time causes a lot of arthritis pain in hips and knees that just isn't fun and vertigo makes a blindfold a real downer. There's a lot more unpleasant physical changes that I won't even attempt to scare you younger members with as there's no reason to spoil anyone's fun at this point.
Anyone have suggestions for mature play without literally killing each other? I'd be happy to hear anyone's thoughts on this.
Having discovered Literotica a few months back, I'm now immersed in reading some of MY fantasies in print! Who knew so many others were out there? It has rekindled a lot of fun and a lot of frustrating activity in our bedroom after some years of drought. (My husband would say that it was a severe drought! Yeah, ok, I own that but get over it already!) It's also opened lines of communication/confession as never before - it wasn't bad before - just never about BDSM. (Spanking? Yes, please, Sir!)
So here's our issue:
Our bodies have aged but our minds are still stuck in our late 30's where one of us ended up in the ER for exhaustion after a weekend to remember. (And that's a whole other bedtime story for later review!) We had dabbled mildly in the lifestyle in the past but stopped due to some lifechanging vanilla-life events.
As we try to resume, there's a multitude of aging and health factors making themselves known that you just don't casually drop on your general MD's lap at the next appointment for blood pressure pills! For instance, kneeling any length of time causes a lot of arthritis pain in hips and knees that just isn't fun and vertigo makes a blindfold a real downer. There's a lot more unpleasant physical changes that I won't even attempt to scare you younger members with as there's no reason to spoil anyone's fun at this point.
Anyone have suggestions for mature play without literally killing each other? I'd be happy to hear anyone's thoughts on this.