degrading sexual acts?

I'm pretty into submissive sex, and I like to be humiliated. My partner has made me have sex outside a couple of times. I like to be slapped, choked, called names and spanked. I like to have to beg to be allowed to come, and I like it when he makes me beg to stop coming. (He'll use a whip on me because I like it, but forced orgasms are his favorite form of torture. I can handle maybe four orgasms, but after the fifth or six it hurts and I'll have to use the safe word. But I like to beg and be denied before I use it.) Face-fucking. Crawling. Him coming on my face. I consider all of those things a little degrading and I love them all.

So much of this strikes a chord with me. When I was in my early-mid 20s I was a Sub for my Master. He tapped into the "normal" slutty side I knew about myself and expanded it into humiliation, which until then I had never appreciated how much I craved. The sex outside thing is very familiar; his preferred twist was to encourage me to seduce other men, while he either watched from a distance or I described to him afterwards. It was not in any way a cuckold thing; it wasn't about him getting off on it, it was about seeing how far I would go to please him. It was like a real-life video game...to earn the right to have his cock, the ultimate cock, touch me, I had to prove myself worthy by offering myself to lesser cocks along the way. Sometimes we'd go to a club or similar, him stunning in his suit, me inappropriately and revealingly sluttily dressed. If any man showed an interest in me, or commented to him that he was lucky, he'd say casually, almost bored, "you can fuck her if you want. She's not bad" or similar. Sometimes they'd decline, obviously thinking they'd stumbled into something too weird for them but occasionally they'd jump at the chance and I'd have to (and want to, for him) go outside or go to the toilets with them. He protected me though; he stuck around and he only let them use me if they wore a condom.

One of his regular ways to humiliate me was to cum on my face or over my t-shirt/blouse and send me out in public. His favourite approach was to send me to a chemist's shop to buy condoms or lube, where I had to ask an assistant to help me. He'd give me a scenario beforehand, so I'd have to tell them I needed lube because I was going to be fucked up the arse, and I had to ask questions eg "there will be several men cumming in my arse one after the other, will I need to reapply the lube or will I just need it up until the first couple have cum?" My Master would enter the shop after me and pretend to browse while listening to ensure I stuck to the script. Occasionally I was thrown out, which was a whole different level of humiliation if there were other customers around, and especially if it were women. That hot blush of shame suffusing my whole body, the knowledge all eyes were on me, that I was the subject of all the nudges and whispers...utterly degrading yet intoxicating.

He trained me to drink his piss, and I came to see that as an honour. I was also the toilet at a couple of piss parties he held for a small number of his select friends with similarly specialised interests.

In some ways, that was the best time of my life, the closest I've come to a full expression of my sexual kinks, and I will always look back and remember him with love and gratitude.
 
Mistress will make me masturbate for her own amusement. Sometimes she won't even watch just tell me to stroke myself often she won't even permit me to cum. She's done it in front of her friends to guys and girls usually then she'll make me cum in my panties and then lick the cum out of them and they'll either insult me or worse completely ignore me just talk about whatever it was while I wank my clitty right there in the room. She's also fucked other men and made me watch and other women where I could hear but not see or touch.
 
I love to have male/females spit all over my face .... I love to leave my mouth open and have people spit in it until its full of spit then swallow it... this one time me and 2 other guys were having fun, when we decided to all cum in the same glass , after that we each took turns spitting in the same glass, after that I took the glass and poured it in my mouth and swallowed it.... loved every drop of it.... its very hard for me to find people that are into spit play....
 
I would agree with the point Midwestyankee made at the top of the thread, it's all in the eye of the beholder, and context is everything. What can feel degrading one time, doesn't the next, depending on how it is done. Take anal sex, for example. Sometimes, it is the most amazingly sensual and intimate thing we can share. Other times, when he pushes me down and tells me I'm a whore, it's wonderfully degrading (in a good way, I hasten to add!).
 
I would agree with the point Midwestyankee made at the top of the thread, it's all in the eye of the beholder, and context is everything. What can feel degrading one time, doesn't the next, depending on how it is done. Take anal sex, for example. Sometimes, it is the most amazingly sensual and intimate thing we can share. Other times, when he pushes me down and tells me I'm a whore, it's wonderfully degrading (in a good way, I hasten to add!).

It also depends on your partner. For a previous partner, anal and oral sex were degrading because he attempted to force it, more than once. Sex was his way of making me feel like shit, period. This was an abusive relationship on so many levels.

Current partner: both are amazing and allow me to still feel safe.
 
It also depends on your partner. For a previous partner, anal and oral sex were degrading because he attempted to force it, more than once. Sex was his way of making me feel like shit, period. This was an abusive relationship on so many levels.

Current partner: both are amazing and allow me to still feel safe.
I definitely agree that it is different for each person. When used correctly, I find humiliation/degradation a turn on. But I'm also more of a emotional masochist than physical. I feel that it's important that your partner be in tune and can read you appropriately as to not cause a damaging effect.
 
I have some true stories about anal sex play that many would consider degrading. They started very early in my life (when I was 3 years old or so) and continue until today. When done properly they are very enjoyable. I am hesitant to write about them publicly without a detailed explanation alongside.
 
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Mistress will make me masturbate for her own amusement. Sometimes she won't even watch just tell me to stroke myself often she won't even permit me to cum. She's done it in front of her friends to guys and girls usually then she'll make me cum in my panties and then lick the cum out of them and they'll either insult me or worse completely ignore me just talk about whatever it was while I wank my clitty right there in the room. She's also fucked other men and made me watch and other women where I could hear but not see or touch.

very hot anecdote-I’ve only masturbated in front of one woman at a time-though the first time did it I sat on a butt plug wearing white fishnets. My Mistress enjoyed it. Recently I stood in front of a woman bent over, spreading my ass cheeks. it made me so hot cos i felt so vulnerable.
 
I'm pretty into submissive sex, and I like to be humiliated. My partner has made me have sex outside a couple of times. I like to be slapped, choked, called names and spanked. I like to have to beg to be allowed to come, and I like it when he makes me beg to stop coming. (He'll use a whip on me because I like it, but forced orgasms are his favorite form of torture. I can handle maybe four orgasms, but after the fifth or six it hurts and I'll have to use the safe word. But I like to beg and be denied before I use it.) Face-fucking. Crawling. Him coming on my face. I consider all of those things a little degrading and I love them all.

i love all those things and while they can be deemed degrading these are the things i enjoy as part of my sex life and i enjoy them greatly so are they degrading ,maybe but pleasurable ,certainly .
 
the idea that 4 women have seen me in drag is degrading enough. that I kissed two of their assholes is degrading too. however it was a turn on.
 
i would sneak out at night and strip naked on the side of the garage then, leaving all my clothing behind, go to my Master's house which was three doors down and across the street. i had to go through the gate to a side door and enter the laundry room where i would put on my cock strap and leashed collar then go into the house and present myself to Master in His living room. He was always waiting in His chair and i would kneel at his feet, wrists crossed right over left at the small of my back, knees parted so the inside of them aligned with the outside of my shoulders, head down. He would leave me like that for an indeterminate amount of time then allow me to kiss His bulge.
At some point He would usually have me lay across His legs and spank me until my butt was red and hot, sometimes He would have me get on all four and He would whip me with a flogger. Then He would examine me from head to foot to make sure i was completely smooth shaved, spank or whip me more if He didn't like what He saw, then led me by the leash into the back room, sometimes making me crawl on hand and knees, where He would make me suck His cock and lick His balls until He was ready to spank me some more before giving me a good ass pounding. Whether by sucking or fucking He always ended by filling my mouth with His hot creamy jizz... and i had to swallow every drop or get punished.
About four months into this i snuck over, put on my collar and strap, presented myself and received a thorough spanking. He put nipple clamps on me and led me into the bedroom as usual. i was eager to get to suck His cock and have my ass plowed and my cock was rock hard. i hadn't cum in weeks... i could only cum with His permission and He had refused to allow me to jack-off... i was really horny. i followed Him into the bedroom and got a shock... kicking back on His bed was one of my classmates!
It wasn't just anyone.. it was Val C., the guy who picking on me for the past year, and he was naked. He grinned evilly when he saw me and got up off the bed, walking right up to me. Master put me on my knees and demanded i suck Val's cock. i had no choice but to obey. i sucked Val's cock. He made me look up at him while i gobbled his big dick and balls until Master fed me His cock with Val watching. After a what seemed an eternity i was put on my hands and knees and they took turns fucking my ass while i sucked the other. They both knelt over me and shoot their loads into my open mouth and on my face... Before Val left Master commanded me to suck his cock whenever he told me to and Val made me blow him every day until he got arrested for drugs six months later... It was extremely degrading to have to see him every day.
 
i would sneak out at night and strip naked on the side of the garage then, leaving all my clothing behind, go to my Master's house which was three doors down and across the street. i had to go through the gate to a side door and enter the laundry room where i would put on my cock strap and leashed collar then go into the house and present myself to Master in His living room. He was always waiting in His chair and i would kneel at his feet, wrists crossed right over left at the small of my back, knees parted so the inside of them aligned with the outside of my shoulders, head down. He would leave me like that for an indeterminate amount of time then allow me to kiss His bulge.
At some point He would usually have me lay across His legs and spank me until my butt was red and hot, sometimes He would have me get on all four and He would whip me with a flogger. Then He would examine me from head to foot to make sure i was completely smooth shaved, spank or whip me more if He didn't like what He saw, then led me by the leash into the back room, sometimes making me crawl on hand and knees, where He would make me suck His cock and lick His balls until He was ready to spank me some more before giving me a good ass pounding. Whether by sucking or fucking He always ended by filling my mouth with His hot creamy jizz... and i had to swallow every drop or get punished.
About four months into this i snuck over, put on my collar and strap, presented myself and received a thorough spanking. He put nipple clamps on me and led me into the bedroom as usual. i was eager to get to suck His cock and have my ass plowed and my cock was rock hard. i hadn't cum in weeks... i could only cum with His permission and He had refused to allow me to jack-off... i was really horny. i followed Him into the bedroom and got a shock... kicking back on His bed was one of my classmates!
It wasn't just anyone.. it was Val C., the guy who picking on me for the past year, and he was naked. He grinned evilly when he saw me and got up off the bed, walking right up to me. Master put me on my knees and demanded i suck Val's cock. i had no choice but to obey. i sucked Val's cock. He made me look up at him while i gobbled his big dick and balls until Master fed me His cock with Val watching. After a what seemed an eternity i was put on my hands and knees and they took turns fucking my ass while i sucked the other. They both knelt over me and shoot their loads into my open mouth and on my face... Before Val left Master commanded me to suck his cock whenever he told me to and Val made me blow him every day until he got arrested for drugs six months later... It was extremely degrading to have to see him every day.

This is a delightful story, leashedbottom, I love every dirty little detail. I envy your absolute devotion to your Master. I'd like to think that I'd be as obedient and submissive in the same situation, if I was tested by my dominant Boyfriend…?
 
Degrading to some but fun for me

While on vacation I got a call on my cocksucker line . My young man said he decided to get a blow job for himself and a friend so I was to leave the people I am with who have no Idea I like to serve this younger man I was to go to a small motel up the road and go into room 10 get on my knees and wait While waiting the cocksucker phone rang twice and both times it was pauls friend asking how much I want to suck there cocks
I told him in very graphic detail what I wanted to do for them finely they showed up and They spent the after noon and evening useing me in every way they wanted
And I let them and loved it
 
I'm in an adult bookstore. I'm naked on my knees sucking several different guys while a roomful of men are watching and jacking off. One after another, a stranger steps up and sprays my face with his sweet cum. Some guys can't get to my face so they shoot on the back of my head or on my back. One of the guys is black and has a 10 inch cock. He works it until he gets the whole thing in my mouth. When it is finally over I walk out covered in cum.
 
Cum Cocktail

Are we allowed to stray a little on this theme, into a realm of fantasy…? What really gets me hard is just thinking of me lying naked on my back, naturally with a raging aching hard-on, as two very well-hung guys crouch either side of my head alternately feeding me their big beautiful erections, thrusting one after the other deep into my throat - slurp, slurp, with no thought or consideration for my comfort, then squeezing the two bulbous cock-heads tight together so my tongue can figure-of-eight in a continuous loop around them both, then strain as they attempt to force both into my mouth at the same time as they laugh and jeer at my slobbering striving choking to take them. And finally getting two big juicy mouthfuls of their cum all over my face, lips, tongue and open mouth, licking and sucking them both clean afterwards in a leisurely self-indulgent way… I've got a fierce erection just thinking about it...
 
I'm pretty into submissive sex, and I like to be humiliated. My partner has made me have sex outside a couple of times. I like to be slapped, choked, called names and spanked. I like to have to beg to be allowed to come, and I like it when he makes me beg to stop coming. (He'll use a whip on me because I like it, but forced orgasms are his favorite form of torture. I can handle maybe four orgasms, but after the fifth or six it hurts and I'll have to use the safe word. But I like to beg and be denied before I use it.) Face-fucking. Crawling. Him coming on my face. I consider all of those things a little degrading and I love them all.
So sexy. Your post made me so wet.
 
Him keeping me naked for a prolonged time has a huge effect on me. He is dressed, casually spending time, but I am completely naked, being made to do household chores.
 
there are some very lucky people on here ,i envy you all .x

Oh Lucy, you sweet sweet thing, I've been following your erotic exploits for so very long, open-mouthed with awe and respect, pumping the stiff cock in my fist that your luscious adventures have conjured in my dirty lurid mind. I don't really feel you need to envy anyone, indeed - there are moments when I've most certainly envied you. I love your posts, and look forward to more...
 
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