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CuriouslyHard

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The thought of touching another man sounds terrible to me: rough skin, facial hair, hair. Ugh! HOWEVER, my ex, once we broke up started fucking a guy and she mentioned having a Mmf threesome. Once I saw a pic of him and saw that he was kind of soft looking and he had huge dick ... Ill be honest I haven't stopped watching Mmf porn. We never did it and we no longer speak but idk what to do with this fantasy now! Will a fantasy like this pass? And I'd love to find a couple to try it with but I have anew gf who's not even close to being into something like that... Thoughts?
 
CuriouslyHard said:
The thought of touching another man sounds terrible to me: rough skin, facial hair, hair. Ugh! HOWEVER, my ex, once we broke up started fucking a guy and she mentioned having a Mmf threesome. Once I saw a pic of him and saw that he was kind of soft looking and he had huge dick ... Ill be honest I haven't stopped watching Mmf porn. We never did it and we no longer speak but idk what to do with this fantasy now! Will a fantasy like this pass? And I'd love to find a couple to try it with but I have anew gf who's not even close to being into something like that... Thoughts?
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Welcome. :)

Have you talked to your new girlfriend about this? You never know what she might say.
 
It's newish so I don't want to scare her off... I may if the urge stays this strong. But she's not the adventurous nor the sharing type it seems, so far.
 
She might be shy. Or if it is just a new relationship she may not want to have you screaming for the hills with her kinks. :)
 
CuriouslyHard said:
The thought of touching another man sounds terrible to me: rough skin, facial hair, hair. Ugh!
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There are lots of women with rough skin and facial hair and hair, too.

Not every woman is the perfectly smooth, unblemished, airbrushed n' P-shopped glow fairy you see in advertising and the movies, if they even naturally exist to begin with.
 
I prefer FFFFFFFFFFFM. That way a few of the "F" can take turns cooking and cleaning too....
 
CuriouslyHard said:
It's newish so I don't want to scare her off... I may if the urge stays this strong. But she's not the adventurous nor the sharing type it seems, so far.
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See, I find this strange that a guy would wait until a relationship is established before he brings out the whole deck of cards she will be playing with.

I've learned the hard way that not showing or being shown up front what we're each bringing to the table as far as baggage, expectations and dirty little fantasies just ends up creating confusion and mistrust down the road. Why? Because you snowed your partner into thinking you were abc when you are actually more axcbq.
 
Riles said:
See, I find this strange that a guy would wait until a relationship is established before he brings out the whole deck of cards she will be playing with.

I've learned the hard way that not showing or being shown up front what we're each bringing to the table as far as baggage, expectations and dirty little fantasies just ends up creating confusion and mistrust down the road. Why? Because you snowed your partner into thinking you were abc when you are actually more axcbq.
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First you get 'em hooked. And then.... :rolleyes:
 
Riles said:
Yeah? And how often does that work out in the end? And not in situations that start with "Dear Penthouse..."
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I have no experience with - nor any interest in - the mmf thing, but my present partner did "forget" to inform me about a few key issues until I had gotten so used to having her around that it was too late to back out.

Sometimes subterfuge works...
 
I wouldn't presume to answer what a man might think of an mfm, but for the ones I've been involved in - both in my marriage and as a single woman, I put it in the "done it, moving on" box. Yeah they were fun, better actually as a single woman because then I wasn't worried about whether I was paying too much attention to the man who wasn't my husband. But I also found them overwhelming - DP in that regard can be....well...overwhelming.

plus it's a lot of fucking WORK.

I like my sex one on one and enjoy as much techno colour creativity as we can come up with.
 
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I was going to post a link to my favorite MMF amateur video I recently found, but the bookmark isn't there. I don't even know how to retrace my steps. I am so disappointed with myself. (And for the record, MMF, not MFM which are totally different.)
 
CuriouslyHard said:
No. Any suggestions as to getting her watch it, easing her into watching something like that?
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Hi CH

just to clarify MMF doesn't necessitate that you that you touch the other guy (as per your original comment) - you may of course if that is something that you've both agreed upon.

I speak from experience in that before the Mrs. I indulged in the swinging lifestyle (2 couples) as well as so called swap or gang-bang parties I was invited to. Obviously the latter, constituted being around lots of guys (thankfully the ration was never more than 3:1 but still) and even then I never had any m/m contact (a few close calls) - its an totally surreal experience to be with woman while she's doing something to someone else or having something done to her :)

as for your porn question ~ try the momxxx or danejones series (google or go to pornhub etc) - they are very very tastefully made and although most of the time they include the m/f scenarios (very hot) they sometimes have scenes with mmf. Their quality and non-agressive nature really appeals to women, and this may be the perfect way to introduce her or ease her into watching this type of theme.

here's a link

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=2121066137

good luck with it!

R
 
CuriouslyHard said:
No. Any suggestions as to getting her watch it, easing her into watching something like that?
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Are you even watching any porn? Have you asked if she likes that or...? You put on some basic porn during sexy times and make comments about what you like about it. If she finds it a turn off, I'm not sure where to go from there. :confused:

If you find she is aroused, get a little kinkier with the porn, leading to some man on man. How it becomes obvious that when you watch it, that it's a turn on for you.
 
Idk, a lot of people have suggested porn but there's a BIG difference in a yaoi fangirl and a chick who actually wants a threesome. There's no advice we could give you that would make up for a lack of communication with your partner. I've had a few mfm experiences and I'm not gonna lie- they weren't all perfect. The ones that were good were great, but the one that wasn't good was a waste of fucking time. So don't go into it thinking it's like porn, all choreographed and perfect and whatnot. Sex is supposed to be FUN, so if EVERYONE isn't having fun it's going to be horrible.

So yeah. Communication. With both your partners. Know what you're getting into before you get into it, and if you don't like hairy guys or whatever, get a guy that you're attracted to. That'll probably be the hardest part. You have to approach as a team and find someone who wants to be with both of you.

Good luck!
 
marshalt said:
You're gay.
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I think the thing about being gay... Is you have to be attracted to the same sex. I am not. I've looked at plenty of guys naked, watched gay porn, you name it... I'm not attracted to men. It's the woman in the mix that does it for me. Sorry to burst your bubble of judgment!
 
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