Hi Ivy--I'm, umm, 60-something, and have been married and in love with guys, but I've maintained a sexual relationship with a woman since we were 18. It's a long story (I actually wrote a series for Lit that's pretty much autobiographical) but it has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I can't imagine not being lovers with her. All the guys I have been with, married or otherwise, have known and been supportive. (Great that your husband is too!)
To actually get started? Maybe watch some lesbian or bi- porn with your hubs to warm up to the idea more. The jewelry is a great suggestion. Swinger websites are another alternative, and you'll find many couples or single women that would party with both you and your husband. Clubs that are GLBT friendly are another path.
But take it at a comfortable pace. Don't force yourself into something that feels artificial or wierd. Sooner or later, the right path will become apparent.
Kisses and nibbles,
Val
To actually get started? Maybe watch some lesbian or bi- porn with your hubs to warm up to the idea more. The jewelry is a great suggestion. Swinger websites are another alternative, and you'll find many couples or single women that would party with both you and your husband. Clubs that are GLBT friendly are another path.
But take it at a comfortable pace. Don't force yourself into something that feels artificial or wierd. Sooner or later, the right path will become apparent.
Kisses and nibbles,
Val