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I hope this doesn't sound sexist, but I wonder if it's "easier" for women to have a rape fantasy than for a (dominant but 21st century enlightened) man?
Anyway, I find many of the posts in this thread deeply arousing. WTF??!! I think maybe I should hang out in this forum more often.
It's not sexist, it's just probably new for you, as a guy, to experience a lot of guilt and shame surrounding a sexual interest. Women aren't just accustomed to layers of shame and guilt around rape fantasies but around any fantasies.
It's "easier" for women to have rape fantasies now that we talk more about sex as a culture and women have started looking around and going "oh, wow, I thought it was just me."
I really think that fantasies about being sexually overpowered jump gender boundaries more than this thread would indicate. Probably equal numbers of men and nonbinaries have them - I do think that it's a kind of backlash against the pressues that are put on people and the kinds of stress we deal with.
To the point where it's assumed that you have one and you want your hair pulled and your wrists held and cum on your face and all that stuff that a few of us find tedious if you are female and that you do NOT want that if you are male.