Women who like to be taken forcefully

biseattlegirl said:

I just saw a study that says 61% of women like rough sex (and I think about 20% more lie). Truth is most women want a "take charge" man that is so turned on by the sexual creature that they cannot help but be turned on to the point of "taking what is theirs." Women want to act like they are all about being treated with respect but the reality is most women want to be lusted after and wanted...which they equate to being "taken".

That is just my two cents on it, not saying I have any answers....just my experience from friends I've spoken with about it.

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eroticspank said:

She would put on her lingerie and it got me very turned on. I would chase after her all over the house until I finally caught her. By then I was so turned on, I would fuck her right on the room floor. We would wrestle, play fight, and fuck a lot.

She really enjoyed my uncontrollable desire for her. It was not a self esteem thing, it was just a major turn on for her. And even though I would take control and "take" her she seemed to enjoy control over me. It was like she was the bull fighter and I was the bull. I would just see "red" and go after her, after her long teasing and playing with me at dinner or during the day.

At the same time I was turned on by her physical desire of my body. I think we all like to be desired physically to a certain degree. There were times when we had sex and she was not wearing lingerie. That was just a major part of our play.
ES

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srgreene said:

Darkness, be careful what you ask for in this world- you might get it.

As Laura and I have described here, being the shared object of a group of men can present a downside. I have been reliving an rather unpleasant part of my life this afternoon, while realizing it was part of who I was at that time and that intense group sexual experiences were not something I would have wanted not to have done in life (wouldn't do it again, either, lol). While I would not encourage any woman to do that, I also think a lot of women would enjoy it- or would have enjoyed it- at some point in their lives. You can develop a weird pride in your "accomplishment", which I did after the rather gross night I outlined above. Just keep in mind, you have to live with it later- it is part of who you are and where you have been, may even be part of your future, and there may- likely will- be social consequences.

The most important thing is not to lose control, as Laura and I each did on at least one occasion. But under the best of circumstances, when you are naked, flat on your back, surrounded by guys who are, shall we say, "pumped up", it is difficult to maintain control- you are very much dependent on at least a lack of malice on their part. You need someone you can trust, and who can stand up to men who may not get what they want. For example, I have never been a great fan of anal sex- some men are into that, particularly when the sex becomes an act of "humiliating the 'ho", which it can be in group situations. Laura described it wonderfully when she said she "hurt all over more than anyplace else".

In my case, I can still remember a sore pussy and a sore ass for days (and I know I would never have agreed to let strangers in my back door), and I had psychological issues getting over it. Indeed, the pride I eventually took in that event didn't develop until I had gotten some distance from the actual event. As it was, given that I was more or less out of it, I was fortunate I was with men who were not sadistic. Students probably will not be sadistic, but you never know.

Your body runs quite a gamut of sensations. Assuming the circumstances are favorable, you will enjoy it initially, although there may be some nervousness on your and their parts. Nevertheless, you should be in your element, both receiving and giving pleasure (or else you shouldn't be there). But you will need breaks- and men need to be willing to accommodate your needs- both to come down from an orgasm and to clean up (having several loads of cum inside you can get quite uncomfortable). Moreover, you will probably need just to relax a bit from an intense experience (my rule was keep my body fully exposed at all times- men quite enjoy a "creampie"- but keep the touching to a minimum until you are ready to get back too business). As time goes on, your body responds less and less intensely, and you will probably have some second thoughts about what you have gotten into. But it remains a pleasurable plateau for you, and you can enjoy the pleasure you are providing. You may need some artificial lubricant, so make sure you have an ample supply on hand. But eventually it comes time for you to stop- your body will tell you when that is, as further activity simply becomes unwelcome and even painful. That is where issues can arise, and woe to the woman who failed to take that into consideration.

I know I am wandering here, but some things to keep in mind. I strongly recommend you be acquainted with the men who will participate and that you can have confidence in at least one who can orchestrate the situation. The number needs to be limited- bear in mind that you are not in a strong negotiating position once the event has started, and having someone you can depend on can be essential in that regard. The men should know one another too, and be able to work together- you do not want to be caught up in the middle of some macho contest. I cannot say an experience I had in which several men competed with one another to see who could slam my vagina the hardest and elicit the biggest reaction from me was notably enjoyable (I also didn't try to stop them).

A distinction worth keeping in mind: gangbangs vs. pulling train. Some of my most sexually pleasurable times have been with small groups guys- frankly, it wouldn't qualify as a gangbang in my book unless it involved at least a half dozen partners. At least for me, attending to one guy at a time is better than getting dp'd or- arrgh- airtight. Ok, some light "split roasting" while a guy is between your legs can be a turn on for all concerned, but it becomes fatiguing and it can easily spiral out of control. So pulling train- yes; gangbangs, well, be cautious. Finally- and this is a personal thing with me- while I didn't care what men saw me do, I did not want any women around, particularly if they are not participating in some way. Well there was one woman friend who attended a few of my events, but she was not there as a mere spectator, and in fact acted in a protective way for me and even participated herself to some extent.

Well this "reformed slut" has rattled on enough about her long past escapades. I would be too old to enjoy that kind of thing today, but I admit I had the occasional yen to pull train again with young men until I was 50. Be prepared for some second thoughts the next day- one way I dealt with that was to go back the next day or so to one or two of them and make sure they wanted me again (they didn't always, and that hurt). And remember, the world has changed, men's attitudes have changed (but women's bodies have not) and the world is an altogether more dangerous place than it was during my promiscuous years, so YMMV.

Your take, Laura?

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LauraWilling said:

WOW! Beautifully said SRGreene!. There is very little I can add. You said most all of the important parts. I loved the explanation and difference between a gangbang and pulling a train. I would much prefer the train after being in the middle of a few gangbangs. A gangbang sounds exciting and our imaginations run wild thinking about it, but when you are in the middle and the focus of a group of men it gets very different from the fantasy to the reality. There are cocks coming at you from all directions it seems and hands on you everywhere in some of these things. That is why it is so very important to have someone, preferably a male you trust completely to monitor things. A couple of times I felt like a mob mentality took over the men like women rushing in as soon as they open the door for a big shoe sale at a department store. Trying to make light of it, now.

I am a small woman. well, mostly. 4'11" about 95lbs most men are close to twice my weight and a good foot taller than me. Get this all over you ad grabbing breasts legs arms, head it can get a little intimidating. The other thing and SRG said it well, after a while sensations are not as intense and you get to where you wish it would stop. I got to where I used a safe word like BDSM and everyone was told that it meant stop immediately. I only used it one time, but my hips were killing me, I could not hardly feel my vagina and I felt if another guy pulled my nipples they would come off. I had to stop it.

All this said and the funny thing is what SRG also talked about the pride of doing it after the fact. Somehow, I think the fantasy comes back and you don't think about any pain or the bad parts of the event. I am also to old for this anymore and probably consented to do it to many times. Some paid to do it, but a few because a friend asked (weird request to most, I know) but I think I was crazy back then at times. Id did a number of things I shouldn't have back then just because someone asked me to do it. The word "no" did not seem to be part of my vocabulary, back then. Now a threesome is fun and enjoyable with two male friends, I trust and know me well. I truly enjoy that once in
awhile.

Lastly really think this through. It is something with as many negatives you don't realize, especially today, than most realize. Be careful what you wish for is very applicable.

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Thicklick69 said:

... He rips my panties down and grabs my triathlon and presses me hard up against the wall. ...

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Thicklick69 said:

I love to be forced that's what I want . I want to be sitting in my apartment alone waiting for the new guy I met to comeover. I'm nervous and I'm all dolled up and ready. I hear the door bell ring and my pussy pulses a bit. I rub my clit quick to calm it down as I walk to the door. I open the door and he's standing there tattooed up sweating from the heat. He pushes the door open and grabs me and slams me against the wall with my ass in the air. He rips my panties down and grabs my triathlon and presses me hard up against the wall. He moves my panties to the side and spits on his hard cock and rams it in me . I feel my body tense up as he's ripping thru me . I want it more and I want it deeper . He has me in the air in his hands with his cock deep in me and walks me over to the kitchen counter. He flips me over slams me down so my ass is propped up with my back arched bent over the counter . He says loud as he pulls my hair "now who's pussy is this" and he slaps my ass hard. "I say it's ur pussy daddy" and he grabs me up and slams me hard down on his big cock. I scream out it's so deep I can't breathe and he just keeps slamming me up and down up and down with his fingers in my mouth and my spit dripping all over as I'm trying to let out a moan.

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Thicklick69 said:

I love to be forced that's what I want . I want to be sitting in my apartment alone waiting for the new guy I met to comeover. I'm nervous and I'm all dolled up and ready. I hear the door bell ring and my pussy pulses a bit. I rub my clit quick to calm it down as I walk to the door. I open the door and he's standing there tattooed up sweating from the heat. He pushes the door open and grabs me and slams me against the wall with my ass in the air. He rips my panties down and grabs my pussy and presses me hard up against the wall. He moves my panties to the side and spits on his hard cock and rams it in me . I feel my body tense up as he's ripping thru me . I want it more and I want it deeper . He has me in the air in his hands with his cock deep in me and walks me over to the kitchen counter. He flips me over slams me down so my ass is propped up with my back arched bent over the counter . He says loud as he pulls my hair "now who's pussy is this" and he slaps my ass hard. "I say it's ur pussy daddy" and he grabs me up and slams me hard down on his big cock. I scream out it's so deep I can't breathe and he just keeps slamming me up and down up and down with his fingers in my mouth and my spit dripping all over as I'm trying to let out a moan.

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Mustang Sally said:

I've never heard it called triathlon before.

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tiny_wet_panties said:

I love to be forced. When he comes home and has had a stressful day, being 'forced' to suck him off.

Through out the day he will send me texts: you're mine. You belong to me. I own all of you. All of your holes are for my pleasure. You're my property. That goes straight to my clit and pussy. When I get home I'm dripping and ready.

Hes daddy and my alpha and I will always obey him.

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LauraWilling said:

I love a strong forceful man, but the scenario Thicklick69 described was different in that she met the guy online or "just met" and this would be his first visit and date. If someone like that came in it would be very scary not really knowing the man. Being forced by someone you know well or even fairly well is different and safer, to me now days.

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eroticspank said:

I agree. With all the stuff out there regarding violence against women, especially lately with the NFL, I would find it very hard to do it with someone I just met.

In a consensual relationship where boundaries are already set and talked about it can be very hot and intense.

ES

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LauraWilling said:

Oh thank you. I love rough sex, but I don't want to put myself in a position where I am at the mercy of a man three times my size in weight and twice my size in height without knowing and trusting him. And to think of him bursting through my door as I opened it scares the hell out of me.

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RKK said:

Kylie you just might get your wish but yo need to turn your PM ability ti start.

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