xxxpaulzzz
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So are married folks hooking up from this thread?
well i have had no messages at all
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So are married folks hooking up from this thread?
i am uk but wife would no sooner shag you than shag me! LOL
Ugh...
It kills me reading this, because I am in the EXACT same position, only I am 25 years old and have been married less than 2 1/2 years. About a year ago, my hunny suddenly lost all interest in anything sexual. Not just me, but anything. I am right the opposite-- I want it all the time! I masturbate almost daily, and when I do, I always make myself cum multiple times. I love role play, I dress sexy for him, I always get compliments on how pretty I am, and how I smell good, etc...
I don't get it, and something tells me it's only going to get worse!
I suspect some are hooking up but when I read the posts my suspicion is that its not very many.hell I would hook up just for a rendezvous over a drink or walk along the beach.
Well said, Tio!
Well Monique it isn't always easy just to pack up and leave especially considering everything that both partners built up over the past 20 years. I'd lose my ass financially and at my age I have no desire to start over again. In my situation sex was great until about 2 years ago so I had no idea to get out while I was young and could start over. So now I am considering cheating and if the right woman comes around and wants me and makes me feel like a man I'm going to go for it. Even if it's just chatting, camming or whatever its better then what I have right now.
Hubby and I were a 3 times a day couple when we first got together. Now it's more like once a month...if I'm lucky. I hate feeling like he's taking pity on me and fucking me. I want to be wanted.
Chuck, I totally understand. My post wasn't directed to people like you and me, but to some of the people who have posted who are new in their marriages and wondering if it will get better.
I have no desire to start over again either. I think you misread my post.
Hubby and I were a 3 times a day couple when we first got together. Now it's more like once a month...if I'm lucky. I hate feeling like he's taking pity on me and fucking me. I want to be wanted.
If you are in this situation and still young, without any kids, and with relatively few financial entanglements, GET OUT.
No matter how much you love him or her.
No matter how much your families will be upset.
No matter what your friends will say.
I stayed for years hoping things would get better and they never did. It wasn't all his fault. Half of the responsibility lies with me. Eventually we separated, but I am seriously considering reconciling with him because at my age, it's too late to find someone new and life is much more easy with a partner, even a roommate/friend-type partner. We are good friends, and love each other, but there's no passion or romance or anything of that sort. How I wish I had gotten out when I was still young and might have had a chance for something different. Yes, it would have been heartbreaking, but we both would have been happier in the long run.