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stupid

Listen, stupid, of course you are hung on labels, you ass.
Or, listen, my beloved friend, of course you are hung up on labels, as a beautiful, sexy chic like you must know...
I mean, you label yourself a femme dom, or something of the sort. Why?
It's silly to think that labels, or words, don't matter. Words are all we have.
Being gay is who you fuck. You might love your father, but that doesn't mean you are incestuous. If you are a man and you fuck a man who resembles your dad, well, that's interesting.
Own the label (and that is how it's spelled--not lable). Claim it, and claim the cock in your ass or mouth or fist or whatever.
 
homunculus said:
Listen, stupid, of course you are hung on labels, you ass.
Or, listen, my beloved friend, of course you are hung up on labels, as a beautiful, sexy chic like you must know...
I mean, you label yourself a femme dom, or something of the sort. Why?
It's silly to think that labels, or words, don't matter. Words are all we have.
Being gay is who you fuck. You might love your father, but that doesn't mean you are incestuous. If you are a man and you fuck a man who resembles your dad, well, that's interesting.
Own the label (and that is how it's spelled--not lable). Claim it, and claim the cock in your ass or mouth or fist or whatever.
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Wow, I have to say I'm highly offended! Hope that makes you feel better!
 
A_Kefka said:
They make dildoes in many shapes and sizes, many don't resemble a cock much at all other than being somewhat cylindrical. Just take a look at any online toy store.
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Case and point your dildo could look like a nun! I'm sorry if any Christians are hurt by the linking of this page but frankly it was the first thing that came to mind.
 
homunculus said:
So, what turns you on--a real looking strapon cock or a cylinder? I think most guys who are into being penetrated from behind want the strapon to look real. They probably also like getting on their knees and sucking the strapon. The turn on isn't from sucking plastic; it's from sucking a cock worn by a woman. The woman wearing it gives the man permission to enjoy the experience. That's cool, and cool if it stays at that level. But it is what it is.
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That's my opinion pretty square on...
 
I have always considered myself straight and I have never been near another man but I always wondered what it would be like to have a woman use a strap-on on me and I even bought my ex-wife one but she would never do it. Then after we split I found a great woman who was more than willing and I can recommend it .
 
homunculus said:
So, what turns you on--a real looking strapon cock or a cylinder? I think most guys who are into being penetrated from behind want the strapon to look real. They probably also like getting on their knees and sucking the strapon. The turn on isn't from sucking plastic; it's from sucking a cock worn by a woman. The woman wearing it gives the man permission to enjoy the experience. That's cool, and cool if it stays at that level. But it is what it is.
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Hmmm-to a certain extent I agree but that is not my experience with my current partner. And while I accept that labels can be useful in order to make sense of things they can also lead to the kind of generalisations that are unhelpful in people being able to make sense of their own experiences and feelings.

When I met him, he identified as a bisexual man but didn't really enjoy sucking cock. What we have discovered is that he is a man who likes getting fucked whether by me with the strap on or by a cock.

Label that whatever you like but we both know exactly where we stand with that and each other and that is what matters to us
 
I gotta say...I am completely uninterested in men sexually...but I think that watching a guy get fucked by a girl with a strap-on for the first time would be HAWT
 
I bought my girlfriend a strap-on so she could fuck me in the ass. We had talked about it for a long time, swapping fantasies and enjoying how much the thought of it turned us both on. We are both very sexually ambiguous and indifferent to the labels and stigmas attached to sexual identity, so it wasn't a huge thing. The important part is that she was 100% on board, and downright flattered, with the fact that I wanted her to fuck me. When the moment of truth came, it was one of the hottest experiences either one of us had. I could not believe how hard it made me cum... or how desperate she was to be fucked raw afterward.

It is definitely something any sexually open couple should consider.
 
Fear

I've never worried about any labels. but I have concerns about being physically damaged by an over zealous strap-on "driver." I'd like to start off small but have seen very few that look safe.
 
i'll through in my two cents here. i know i posted a thread here a long time ago but i got surprised one afternoon when my gf told me she had brought a strap on out of the blue knowing i liked anal stimulation then continued to fuck me that night. should men be afraid? i'm not exactly sure what there is to be afraid of, i'm completely in the dark here whats been said before so just giving my opinion on the matter. as far as i'm aware its just a form of sexual stimulation, doesn't infer anything espeically about orientation or preference. i like her from time to time fucking me with her strap on, its not a constant thing just as the mood takes us there. stimulates a part of me that for the most part is left ignored when we have sex. i can never understand why some guys or gals for that matter seem to infer that guys liking anal sex suggests some form of bi sexuality or homo sexual tendancies. if he wanted to be fucked up the ass by a guy then yes, with a toy by a woman....can't connect the dots here:rolleyes:
 
Sterling said:
Yeah, I think the gay/bi tag attached to it is what makes it a bad subject for most men.

For me, I don't think its gay/bi at all. It's just a different way to cum, because its a woman and a man, which is heterosexual territory.

If a woman sticks her finger up your ass, it wouldn't be gay/bi, so why is a strap on?
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Well a finger does not represent a penis. A guy who wants a finger probably just wants more sexual pleasure. A guy who wants a strap on is probably gay.
 
Those pics turn me on. I have never had sex with another man or experienced a strap on due to fear, but it does turn me on.
 
How do I go about finding a woman to fuck me with a strap on. i would also like to suck one.
 
I could certainly be underestimating the amount of curiosity among men, but I really don't think femdom videos are a huge factor in the majority of the male population's opinion on strap-ons. Perhaps those interested enough to actively seek out this kind of porn are turned off by the violence, but for the most part, I think it's either the gay label or a simple case of not thinking to try it. I mean, we get basic ideas of what sex is supposed to be when we're young, and generally a guy's ass is totally left out of this model, so it's understandable that many don't even think it would be enjoyable. Additionally, most women I've come in contact with don't find themselves drawn to anal play, and are quite surprised that otherwise straight men would be. If both parties had a better grasp on why prostate stimulation can be pleasurable, then I think people would be more open to the idea. Of course, I don't think it can overcome the gay label, even if we were to show PSAs about the joys of strapons.
 
Maybe, but perceived gayness is a problem

I'm too old to care what anybody thinks now; I simply don't care.

However, as much as I hate to admit it, when I was younger I did care what people thought. Although I knew at an early age I liked anal stimulation, I did not want to be perceived as gay. In fact, I wasn't gay then and I'm not gay now and I still like anal. The advantage of age is, even if I was gay, I don't care what anybody thinks.

I don't know what's in "femdom" videos so I don't know if a 'change' would help or not. However, if strap-on sex was more acceptable to more females I don't see how it could hurt (except in a good way).

PredatorSmile said:
Do you think more guys would open up about their strap-on dildo fetish if the femdom videos were more loving/couple-friendly and less about female domination and male suffering ?
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grdas said:
I could certainly be underestimating the amount of curiosity among men, but I really don't think femdom videos are a huge factor in the majority of the male population's opinion on strap-ons. Perhaps those interested enough to actively seek out this kind of porn are turned off by the violence, but for the most part, I think it's either the gay label or a simple case of not thinking to try it. I mean, we get basic ideas of what sex is supposed to be when we're young, and generally a guy's ass is totally left out of this model, so it's understandable that many don't even think it would be enjoyable. Additionally, most women I've come in contact with don't find themselves drawn to anal play, and are quite surprised that otherwise straight men would be. If both parties had a better grasp on why prostate stimulation can be pleasurable, then I think people would be more open to the idea. Of course, I don't think it can overcome the gay label, even if we were to show PSAs about the joys of strapons.
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The whole "dominant female with strapon destroys male" thing is a turn off. trust me.
 
grdas said:
Of course, I don't think it can overcome the gay label, even if we were to show PSAs about the joys of strapons.
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LOL!!! I love it. See some B-list actor taking a thick strapon as he tries to make his way through the cue cards....

"Anal play is... oh fuck... a natural alterna--- oh jesus... alternative to vaginal inter... harder! oh please harder!!!"

:)
 
Samuelx said:
The whole "dominant female with strapon destroys male" thing is a turn off. trust me.
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Some of the videos I've seen are much too harsh and mean-spirited, but there is a strong need in some men for a woman to "force" them to experience what they secretly crave. They don't have to worry about their own manhood if a woman "forces" them to accept a strapon cock.

Of course, my experience is with sissies (men who love to be feminized) so it is a subset of men who would enjoy a woman using a strapon with them...
 
Samuelx said:
The whole "dominant female with strapon destroys male" thing is a turn off. trust me.
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A turn off for you and others, certainly, though I hardly think it's universally found to be unappealing. However, that's not what I'm trying to say, and if that wasn't clearly expressed I apologize. What I meant was that most men form their opinions of strapons (If they have opinions at all) totally independent of the sort of femdom porn being discussed here.
 
silly

"Wow, I have to say I'm highly offended! Hope that makes you feel better!"

You silly, I gave two completely contradictory examples of labels--actually, of descriptions. Of course they don't apply to you--I don't know you. But they illustrate that we naturally respond to labels--we rely on them, and yes, they can hurt. They can flatter, as the second did. But they mean something. No, we shouldn't just generalize lazily, but we should give some thought to what a certain behavior says and to our discomfort with the given label it might bring up. Main thing is, enjoy. Feels sexy and bad and out there.
 
I enjoy strap-on sex with a girlfriend. Very erotic.
 
Personally I'd love my wife to take my ass with a strap-on, but I think she's the one hung up on male ass play being gay.
 
spawnofdavey said:
Personally I'd love my wife to take my ass with a strap-on, but I think she's the one hung up on male ass play being gay.
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It's not. It's being open minded and uninhibited. i have a few girlfriends that enjoy strap on play. The control, the dominance behind it. It's all fun and enjoyable. No reason to have hang ups at all.

Maybe if she watches a couple of bisexual videos, she view it as something very hot.
 
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