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i don't know about it being necessarily hot in real life, like actually being bullied and belittled. but as fantasy it's a real turn on to get used as someone else's bitch. i think there's so many stories like that on sites like this because that's what many of us like to fantasize about, not because that's what so many of us actually do!
 
ErickTheRed said:
Hi everyone i have a question for you.

Im into a lot of stuff... Including sissy boy. I dont understand why like 99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect... That turn me off i loke kinky sex but always have respect for my partner. I wish i could here from you ... Tell me why you cannot just act line a normal girl who like sex but who dont want to be just abuse and use,,,

Thank you for your answer
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for various reasons some of us need the humiliation ,it adds to the experience a certain frisson , that extra thrill , for some it is the feeling of submission which is enhanced by abuse ,for others it is an escape from the pressures of every day life and not having to make difficult decisions ,the choice is made for one and for others is is a dislike of women and the subconcious desire to humiliate them ,it is very complicated and there is no one answer ,we are all different and all have our own reasons but if both parties enjoy it what harm is there ?
 
having had an experience in life with a crossdresser, i can say that not all of them want to be abused. many of them do like sex to be intimate as well. but then the ones who love to be abused do it absolutely for the humiliation aspect of it all. sort of like a submissive trying to please a dominant
 
hfernandez1983 said:
having had an experience in life with a crossdresser, i can say that not all of them want to be abused. many of them do like sex to be intimate as well. but then the ones who love to be abused do it absolutely for the humiliation aspect of it all. sort of like a submissive trying to please a dominant[/QUOTE

I'd prefer not to be abused....but being used is a diff story for me
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I'd prefer not to be abused....but being used is a diff story for me
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i guess that is a factor with many....i have seen the amateur vids of sissy men with both men and women and a lot of them like to be used like a slut.....and that turns me on a lot B-)
 
Bravo

Marci52 said:
Well, fellow sissy bois, I beg to differ. Nothing gets me hotter than being humiliated or exposed or treated like the slut I believe I really am. It just makes me squirm with anticipation, and in my mind I love every moment that someone (or more than someone) tells me what a weak, trembling little sissy whore I am. I don't want respect when it comes to my sucking cock or taking it up the ass, I want to be treated like a sexual object--like the abject faggy little pig that I am.
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Well put bitch
 
lululuvsblack said:
i don't know about it being necessarily hot in real life, like actually being bullied and belittled. but as fantasy it's a real turn on to get used as someone else's bitch. i think there's so many stories like that on sites like this because that's what many of us like to fantasize about, not because that's what so many of us actually do!
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A story quite like that (2 parts so far) is underway, can be read from my profile link in signature here...
 
Jenna2641 said:
As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
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I agree with Jenna. I love to dress because it makes me feel pretty and sexy. I enjoy being treated and made love to as if I were a woman. Many of the stories here on lit focus on the humiliation aspect or being a total submissive in all ways. My dressing started with my ex suggesting it. She treated me like a woman and we both enjoyed it. Many of us love being feminine not humiliated.
 
vizio said:
I agree with Jenna. I love to dress because it makes me feel pretty and sexy. I enjoy being treated and made love to as if I were a woman. Many of the stories here on lit focus on the humiliation aspect or being a total submissive in all ways. My dressing started with my ex suggesting it. She treated me like a woman and we both enjoyed it. Many of us love being feminine not humiliated.
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I tend to agree with all of this...pretty clothes make me feel fem and sexy...my wife got me started and keeps me supplied...also taught me to do my nails and a little makeup. I don't get the totally degrading kind of humiliation, but I do love to be humiliated with respect to my "failed manhood". My wife has fucked other men, and is free to do so again if she chooses...she also has pegged me and is free to do that whenever she feels the urge. These things humiliate me, but in a way that turns me on for some reason. I guess it's the things she or another man does that reinforces the fact that I'm not really what the world considers a "real man" that are the humiliation triggers I crave. But total crass degradation, never! I love the kiss of a man on my lips!

Yeah! my first post!
 
difference

There is a big difference between domination, role play, sissifying, submissive ...
and downright physical abuse. There are way too many innocent people in this
world, many of them children, who have been abused, and the very idea of
abuse is horrifying to me. Each person knows where is own limit is, and that
may include such light physical activities as spanking or bondage. But if you
actually want to be hurt -- or even worse, you want to hurt someone else --
then you are crossing a line that, for me, is unacceptable. That's just me,
so feel free to reply and let me know what you think (Sam)
 
ErickTheRed said:
Hi everyone i have a question for you.

Im into a lot of stuff... Including sissy boy. I dont understand why like 99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect... That turn me off i loke kinky sex but always have respect for my partner. I wish i could here from you ... Tell me why you cannot just act line a normal girl who like sex but who dont want to be just abuse and use,,,

Thank you for your answer
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This sissy has been around for a long time and seen the meaning of "sissy" change over the years.
Each "sissy" is different, like normal humans, a "sissy" has likes and dislikes each being unique to the individual "sissy".
As a sissy the general statement "99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect..." confuses a lowly sissy, that is like saying 99% of men want to fuck a woman and 99% of women want to be fucked by a real man. Think all know this is not a truth.

Best question is: In this world of today what is normal?

Please understand that this is only the thought of a lowly sissy.
 
cyberking001 said:
There is a big difference between domination, role play, sissifying, submissive ...
and downright physical abuse. There are way too many innocent people in this
world, many of them children, who have been abused, and the very idea of
abuse is horrifying to me. Each person knows where is own limit is, and that
may include such light physical activities as spanking or bondage. But if you
actually want to be hurt -- or even worse, you want to hurt someone else --
then you are crossing a line that, for me, is unacceptable. That's just me,
so feel free to reply and let me know what you think (Sam)
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I agree with you totally. Personally I've never understood the humiliation degradation thing.
 
You’ll find that your 99% percentage is wrong. I was in some abusive relationships with guys and didn’t like it at all nor asked for it. I’m not into humiliation either. Guys misundestood/ confused my willingness to submit along with my desire to be controlled and dominated with abuse. That’s not sexy or erotic to me. 🌹Kant. 👠👠👠
 
Since we're talking about the porn representation of sissies that is so often about degradation, because I guess that's what sells. It gives the impression that's all sissy sex is supposed to be that way. Domination is about power, just as rape is, and it's popular with the kind of men who are insecure, probably suppressed at work and who worry about the size of their cock and whether it is going to get hard next time.

I'm not surprised when I hear about a sissy being beaten up after sex, because the top gets a wave of guilt and regret right after he's come and then blames his sissy. That regret anger isn't limited to sissy sex either. It's a fucked up world and very telling that the worst kind of porn is what turns a profit. :(
 
stickygirl said:
Since we're talking about the porn representation of sissies that is so often about degradation, because I guess that's what sells. It gives the impression that's all sissy sex is supposed to be that way. Domination is about power, just as rape is, and it's popular with the kind of men who are insecure, probably suppressed at work and who worry about the size of their cock and whether it is going to get hard next time.

I'm not surprised when I hear about a sissy being beaten up after sex, because the top gets a wave of guilt and regret right after he's come and then blames his sissy. That regret anger isn't limited to sissy sex either. It's a fucked up world and very telling that the worst kind of porn is what turns a profit. :(
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A lot of what you touched on is the exact reason I will not respond to guys calling me a tranny, a shemale, or a chick with a dick. It’s a huge reason I care so little for porn anyway except for Lesbian porn on occasion. I look at it like this, what they’re selling is something I’m not interested in buying much less watching. I’ve had guys that talked dirty to me and let me submit without all the needless, abusive or humiliation bullshit they educated themselves with using porn. In the real world, I have feelings and desires, too. Just because I dress like a woman doesn’t mean I want to be stepped on and treated like shit even though I’m putting myself in that social role dressing like a woman. 🌹Kant
 
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Kantarii said:
A lot of what you touched on is the exact reason I will not respond to guys calling me a tranny, a shemale, or a chick with a dick. It’s a huge reason I care so little for porn anyway except for Lesbian porn on occasion. I look at it like this, what they’re selling is something I’m not interested in buying much less watching. I’ve had guys that talked dirty to me and let me submit without all the needless, abusive or humiliation bullshit they educated themselves with using porn. In the real world, I have feelings and desires, too. Just because I dress like a woman doesn’t mean I want to be stepped on and treated like shit even though I’m putting myself in that social role dressing like a woman. 🌹Kant
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Yea... there's that whole degrading attitude towards women ... Unfortunately it's the ones with the loudest voices and most toxic opinions that get heard :(
 
Kantarii said:
A lot of what you touched on is the exact reason I will not respond to guys calling me a tranny, a shemale, or a chick with a dick. It’s a huge reason I care so little for porn anyway except for Leabian porn on occasion. I look at it like this, what they’re selling is something I’m not interested in buying much less watching. I’ve had guys that talked dirty to me and let me submit without all the needless, abusive or humiliation bullshit they educated themselves with using porn. In the real world, I have feelings and desires, too. Just because I dress like a woman doesn’t mean I want to be stepped on and treated like shit even though I’m putting myself in that social role dressing like a woman. 🌹Kant
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Keywords......"I have feelings and desires, too."........nuff said.
 
Jenna2641 said:
As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
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I'm with Jenna here. Great thread, too.
 
Kantarii said:
A lot of what you touched on is the exact reason I will not respond to guys calling me a tranny, a shemale, or a chick with a dick. It’s a huge reason I care so little for porn anyway except for Lesbian porn on occasion. I look at it like this, what they’re selling is something I’m not interested in buying much less watching. I’ve had guys that talked dirty to me and let me submit without all the needless, abusive or humiliation bullshit they educated themselves with using porn. In the real world, I have feelings and desires, too. Just because I dress like a woman doesn’t mean I want to be stepped on and treated like shit even though I’m putting myself in that social role dressing like a woman. 🌹Kant
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I’m with you Kant. I love to treat a sexy girl like you like a lady. With all the respect that you deserve. I am all for role play by not to ever treat someone in a way that is disrespectful to them.:rose:
 
Kantarii said:
A lot of what you touched on is the exact reason I will not respond to guys calling me a tranny, a shemale, or a chick with a dick. It’s a huge reason I care so little for porn anyway except for Lesbian porn on occasion. I look at it like this, what they’re selling is something I’m not interested in buying much less watching. I’ve had guys that talked dirty to me and let me submit without all the needless, abusive or humiliation bullshit they educated themselves with using porn. In the real world, I have feelings and desires, too. Just because I dress like a woman doesn’t mean I want to be stepped on and treated like shit even though I’m putting myself in that social role dressing like a woman. 🌹Kant
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Part of me wants to hug you.....another part wants to sit and listen to you talk, your words..........another part desires a soft kiss and a look that says.......more.......:kiss:
 
Jenna2641 said:
As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
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I love this
 
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