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Why do older men become bi-curious?

hikingman37 said:
Then there is the theatre, cooking classes. Just to improve the odds of finding some new friends who may be sympathetic.
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I'm thinking a more direct approach might be preferred, I just haven't solved the riddle...yet.

I don't want to hijack this thread...the original topic is a good one.
 
I have fantasized about a good looking, fit man many times
 
I read through this thread with great interest. Like many of you I am in the same situation…good marriage, lovely lady but straight as an arrow. Like many of you I started exploring online, mostly out of boredom, some as a desire to see naked women.. First it was straight porn, then lovely lesbian porn. I then thought to myself why not, and looked at gay porn. Most of the stuff turned me off but then there are times when I saw pics and vids of two dudes who really seemed to be enjoying each other.

So I tried to make it happen. One LIT thread recommended a dating site called Squirt. I went online, posted some info, got some responses but none seemed to be real or ligit. Usual problems with online dating sites. Then I got one response that was open, honest and fun. We exchanged emails and started an online relationship, got to know each other, sent a few pics (no faces). Total turn on. We proposed a meeting, agreed to it. I showed up but he didn't. Later he said he got cold feet, something I truly understand. Since then nothing else.

At one time, Squirt offered a couple of days complementary use, but then there is a fee. It also took visa gift cards to pay for their website use. You may want to try that.

There was also a thread in the LIT GLBT forum for bi-curious where you post a reply with your state and zip code. I haven't looked but I think it died or was taken down.
 
Who knows if everyone doesn't wonder to a greater or lesser extent sometimes. The idea may not get a lot of traction with most men and women, but the idea has been on the mind.
 
hikingman37 said:
I wonder how many guys here who want to suck a cock have felt like a woman or feminine in their submissive desires.
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Wanting to suck a cock is not necessarily submissive. Not at all. I have a very dominant personality. I woukd be fine with having a submissive man to tease and edge into oblivion and I have no desire to be "taken" or penetrated. My desires are masculine, passionate, bisexual, but not at all submissive.
 
tmmmbrrr said:
Who knows if everyone doesn't wonder to a greater or lesser extent sometimes. The idea may not get a lot of traction with most men and women, but the idea has been on the mind.
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I see your a writer. That insight you have would add richness to your works on the subject if you were to write on it.
 
thanks for the comment, hikingman. i appreciate it.

i've toyed with the idea of a guy/guy sexual encounter as a roll play, but would want to have a female(s) involved and contributing too. THAT would be the icing on the cake for me.

how's it going for you?
 
tmmmbrrr said:
thanks for the comment, hikingman. i appreciate it.

i've toyed with the idea of a guy/guy sexual encounter as a roll play, but would want to have a female(s) involved and contributing too. THAT would be the icing on the cake for me.

how's it going for you?
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I have met lots of nice folks on Lit. Its certainly allowed for a fuller expression of desires that I had ever imagined I would express.
 
I don't see the act of going down on another man itself as masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive. It's totally appropriate for it to be any or all of those things. It's more about the people involved than it is about the act.
 
To add to that, receiving anal is not necessarily masculine, or feminine, nor dominant or submissive. Think of all the dominant women who have submissive men. It's not submissive of a woman to get fucked. It's about her personality, her attitude, her needs, her desires. It's no different for two men and the acts they choose to enjoy. It's about the person, not the act.

IMHO
 
TangleLeg said:
I don't see the act of going down on another man itself as masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive. It's totally appropriate for it to be any or all of those things. It's more about the people involved than it is about the act.
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For me the act of going down can be so many things combined into one. It's both submissive as you are giving into his desires, but also dominant as your mouth is in control of everything he feels.

I do tend to feel more femme when going down on someone but that's just me. Of course the more sexy I'm dressed the more I feel the desire to go down on someone :)
 
turnofthepaige said:
For me the act of going down can be so many things combined into one. It's both submissive as you are giving into his desires, but also dominant as your mouth is in control of everything he feels.

I do tend to feel more femme when going down on someone but that's just me. Of course the more sexy I'm dressed the more I feel the desire to go down on someone :)
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That makes total sense to me. There are so many sensations that inter-relate with so many sex acts. I prefer the freedom of being able to make it your own, explore yourself through the pleasuring and being pleasured by another human being.
 
TangleLeg said:
That makes total sense to me. There are so many sensations that inter-relate with so many sex acts. I prefer the freedom of being able to make it your own, explore yourself through the pleasuring and being pleasured by another human being.
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I think that is the key is that every type of experience is unique for everyone. I've had partners explain how things are supposed to feel but they feel so different to me. And even one's own tastes can change over time as mine certainly have.
 
tmmmbrrr said:
thanks for the comment, hikingman. i appreciate it.

i've toyed with the idea of a guy/guy sexual encounter as a roll play, but would want to have a female(s) involved and contributing too. THAT would be the icing on the cake for me.

how's it going for you?
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Still tring for a safe meeting with someone
 
Doogiedoogie said:
Still tring for a safe meeting with someone
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Yeah, the thread keeps rolling back around to that. What solid resources are there, less ridiculous than Craigslist, communicative like Lit, safe for gentlemen in established relationships who would like to find other local men of similar interests. It looks like personals so far have the most potential for success. The hassle factor though...ugh.
 
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