Older Men with Younger Men

The older the berry the sweeter the juice lol

Oh how I love me a hot daddy! Yet I still haven't found me one. Any dads out there?
 
It is almost impossible to find a younger twink guy willing to be a older curious guys 1st time. Looked and looked no luck. At this point I just want to JO watching porn and maybe get some head. Sucks getting old :rolleyes:
 
Older fit male here. Very interested in younger guys with smooth, shapely bodies. Feel free to pm me.
 
DWM 55 Total Bottom always on the hunt for Mature Total Tops ! I love sucking and getting fucked by mature men. Any interested mature men near Philly PM me !
 
It is almost impossible to find a younger twink guy willing to be a older curious guys 1st time. Looked and looked no luck. At this point I just want to JO watching porn and maybe get some head. Sucks getting old :rolleyes:

Im not a twink but i still want a older man as my first...
 
Love older men. My first and only time with one was nearing my 21st birthday and oh god was it amazing. Wish I could have another go.
 
Interesting to see so many younger guys looking for older guys. I'm 45, very muscular, and never liked the idea of older guys when I was younger, but see a lot of younger guys checking me out in the gym. Maybe it's a generational thing....
 
Like many on here the first partner I had was a much older guy. Being young and unsure of myself I loved his natural confidence and the fact he seemed so worldly and experienced. His encouragement helped me explore my feminine side and I gradually became his sissy boi. Can anyone recommend any writers on here whose work deals with relationships between older /younger guys?
 
Older men make the best bottoms. I'm an older top, so I'm not tooting my own horn. Plenty of us older tops have to deal with erection problems and the fact that it can become more difficult to reach an "edge". Where as an older bottom isn't focused on his cock, but on how well his top is doing. They have most likely dealt with aches and pains, so they are less likely to be wincing in pain if the top gets a little too ambitious. That being said, you should fuck an older man like playing a fine instrument -- make music with his ass. It is not a sprint to the finish line. They are also more likely to be verbal and complement you when you do a good job. They can give a real boost to a top who doesn't have a lot of confidence. Plus sometimes what an inexperienced top needs is a nice man to trust the top just to explore his body and let him get lost in it. Odds are the young man will take to fucking him well like a young duckling naturally figures out how to swim.

The main think you have to keep in mind is that an older top may not be as limber as he used to be, so it helps to massage his back and his legs. Don't expect to fuck him in some kind of position where he is twisted like a pretzel. Fucking a guy on his back has always been my favorite position because you can observe his face and reactions to what you are doing so that you can determine if you are giving him pleasure or pain. In that position especially for older bottoms, make sure his lower back is supported with a pillow. Also know that when you lift his legs up, that isn't a position very common so comes the importance of massaging not only his back prior to that, but also his legs. An older bottom is also more appreciative of that massage and can become like puddy in your hands where as sometimes a younger bottom just wants you to start fucking right away. Likewise, an older bottom doesn't get upset if you cum too soon, because he knows odds are that if you are a younger top, you'll get hard again, and that second time you'll be more likely to take a while before you shoot.

Sexually, I wish I had started finding older men into getting fucked much earlier than I did. However, I was terrified that if I had even approached a man about even touching his beautiful back side he would have beat the hell out of me. When I did finally find someone willing to let me in, I finally knew how wonderful m2m sex could be. My partner I have now I have had for many years. He is only a few months older than me. As my generation aged, I learned it wasn't so bad to do it with someone my own age. There tends to be less male competition with your peers as you all age. I'm kind of glad I don't have a much older partner. The reason is that even though there is no guarantee how long your life will be, the older you get the shorter life becomes. I want to grow old with a man, and not just bury one and then look again. It took some adjusting because the nature of a similar age relationship is more like brothers than father/son. Never having a brother (or for that matter any close age peer friends), it took some getting used to. Likewise, you have to give more as opposed to having an older lover where he would tend to boost your ego for you. You have to learn to have more self-confidence, and do a better job of praising your same aged partner.

I don't enjoy most older/younger stories as typically, the older one is the dominate top, and the younger is a bottom boy/sissy. I cannot related to that at all. I always saw the older guy as the nurturer who wanted his partner as close to him as possible, and what can be more close than being "inside" your daddy. As I have said countless times, a bottom man is like an angle on earth, and angels are ageless.
 
Older men make the best bottoms. I'm an older top, so I'm not tooting my own horn. Plenty of us older tops have to deal with erection problems and the fact that it can become more difficult to reach an "edge". Where as an older bottom isn't focused on his cock, but on how well his top is doing. They have most likely dealt with aches and pains, so they are less likely to be wincing in pain if the top gets a little too ambitious. That being said, you should fuck an older man like playing a fine instrument -- make music with his ass. It is not a sprint to the finish line. They are also more likely to be verbal and complement you when you do a good job. They can give a real boost to a top who doesn't have a lot of confidence. Plus sometimes what an inexperienced top needs is a nice man to trust the top just to explore his body and let him get lost in it. Odds are the young man will take to fucking him well like a young duckling naturally figures out how to swim.

The main think you have to keep in mind is that an older top may not be as limber as he used to be, so it helps to massage his back and his legs. Don't expect to fuck him in some kind of position where he is twisted like a pretzel. Fucking a guy on his back has always been my favorite position because you can observe his face and reactions to what you are doing so that you can determine if you are giving him pleasure or pain. In that position especially for older bottoms, make sure his lower back is supported with a pillow. Also know that when you lift his legs up, that isn't a position very common so comes the importance of massaging not only his back prior to that, but also his legs. An older bottom is also more appreciative of that massage and can become like puddy in your hands where as sometimes a younger bottom just wants you to start fucking right away. Likewise, an older bottom doesn't get upset if you cum too soon, because he knows odds are that if you are a younger top, you'll get hard again, and that second time you'll be more likely to take a while before you shoot.

Sexually, I wish I had started finding older men into getting fucked much earlier than I did. However, I was terrified that if I had even approached a man about even touching his beautiful back side he would have beat the hell out of me. When I did finally find someone willing to let me in, I finally knew how wonderful m2m sex could be. My partner I have now I have had for many years. He is only a few months older than me. As my generation aged, I learned it wasn't so bad to do it with someone my own age. There tends to be less male competition with your peers as you all age. I'm kind of glad I don't have a much older partner. The reason is that even though there is no guarantee how long your life will be, the older you get the shorter life becomes. I want to grow old with a man, and not just bury one and then look again. It took some adjusting because the nature of a similar age relationship is more like brothers than father/son. Never having a brother (or for that matter any close age peer friends), it took some getting used to. Likewise, you have to give more as opposed to having an older lover where he would tend to boost your ego for you. You have to learn to have more self-confidence, and do a better job of praising your same aged partner.

I don't enjoy most older/younger stories as typically, the older one is the dominate top, and the younger is a bottom boy/sissy. I cannot related to that at all. I always saw the older guy as the nurturer who wanted his partner as close to him as possible, and what can be more close than being "inside" your daddy. As I have said countless times, a bottom man is like an angle on earth, and angels are ageless.

Great post, you said it perfectly.
 
sucker for older, fit, married men

I read a story on bisexual.com about a wife who hired here 50 something husband a 28 yr old male escort for the night. She went out and left them to it. I would love to have my wife do that for me, so I could get my mouth round a nice cock.:)
 
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