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Jock_N_Briefs

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I have I guess a fetish that I've not seen discussed before. I am bi and have lots f sex with guys. In fact its been great sex. I am married and my wife doesn't know that I am bi and like guys. I am very faithful to her and will not cheat on her, but I have this 'itch' that needs to be scratched -- I really get off on sex with other guys.

So, I have been trying to make sex with my wife into something that resembles sex between two hot guys rather that regular hetero sex.

I have had her start to wear men's briefs and jockstraps during our foreplay. I am usually wearing the same. Last time I had her bind down her tits with an ace bandage and wear a wife beater. The effect was incredible.

But I need to kick it up a notch. I have trying to talk her into getting her hair cut short and more masculine. I also want her to start wearing a strap-on of some sort so that I blow her while she blows me.

I'm looking for other ideas.

Jock N Briefs
 
Try watching bi porn together & telling her that you like it. Work your way up to telling her the truth.
 
Jock_N_Briefs said:
...I am bi and have lots f sex with guys. In fact its been great sex. I am married and my wife doesn't know that I am bi and like guys. I am very faithful to her and will not cheat on her...
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How is it cheating if he does it only with her? He's just working up the nerve to ask her to share his fantasy.
 
Carnevil9 said:
How is it cheating if he does it only with her? He's just working up the nerve to ask her to share his fantasy.
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I believe the cheating is with the lots of guys he has sex with....and good sex at that.
 
Carnevil9 said:
I gathered that was in his past. We all have pasts, and they don't count as "cheating."
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So if I fuck a guy I'm not married to today, then how long before it's "the past" and no longer count's as cheating? I bet my DH would say indefinitely. Most people don't have a statute of limitations on infidelity.

Besides the OP stated his sex with guys is an ongoing thing not something in the past...

Jock_N_Briefs said:
I am bi and have lots f sex with guys. In fact its been great sex.
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Notice the present tense not past tense is used indicating currently happening, not something from years ago.
 
Ldy_Sea said:
So if I fuck a guy I'm not married to today, then how long before it's "the past" and no longer count's as cheating? I bet my DH would say indefinitely. Most people don't have a statute of limitations on infidelity.

Besides the OP stated his sex with guys is an ongoing thing not something in the past...



Notice the present tense not past tense is used indicating currently happening, not something from years ago.
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That's what I took from it as well.
 
Carnevil9 said:
How is it cheating if he does it only with her? He's just working up the nerve to ask her to share his fantasy.
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You've got the idea. I DON'T want to cheat on her with another guy. I want her to be/ role play the part of a gay guy in our sexual encounters. I'm trying to get it to where she becomes another guy and that sex is no longer penis/ vaginal in nature -- but man-to-man like in function -- anal and oral only -- so that she too is a man in our sex play.

This is why I've been slowly pushing her to dressing the part -- wearing jockstraps and wife beaters with her tits flattened down so that she has what looks like a flat masculine chest-- so that she looks like a man to me. I am trying to work out some way that she will apear with a cock bulge in jocks - because that is the only part that is detracting from the fantasy.

I like the idea of watching bi porn with her and working some of those scenes into things

Jock N Briefs
 
Ldy_Sea said:
So if I fuck a guy I'm not married to today, then how long before it's "the past" and no longer count's as cheating? I bet my DH would say indefinitely. Most people don't have a statute of limitations on infidelity.

Besides the OP stated his sex with guys is an ongoing thing not something in the past...



Notice the present tense not past tense is used indicating currently happening, not something from years ago.
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Yep -- I totally eff'd up that sentence -- new keyboard!

I didn't proof read it. I meant to say:

I am bi and have HAD lots of sex with guys.

That said -- do I see a hot guy and think about doing it with him -- yeah. But I want to remain true to my wife -- I'm trying to find some way to maintain a balance here

Jock N Briefs
 
In my opinion, it sounds that you lean way more to gay than bi. Keep in mind sexuality is not black white and gray...it's every shade in between.

It's more like a line where those who have 0 interest in sex with the same sex fall at one end and gays who have 0 interest in straight sex at the other. The rest of us fall somewhere along the line.

www.biphoria.org.uk/GettingBiWeb.pdf
 
Jock_N_Briefs said:
I have I guess a fetish that I've not seen discussed before. I am bi and have lots f sex with guys. In fact its been great sex. I am married and my wife doesn't know that I am bi and like guys. I am very faithful to her and will not cheat on her, but I have this 'itch' that needs to be scratched -- I really get off on sex with other guys.

So, I have been trying to make sex with my wife into something that resembles sex between two hot guys rather that regular hetero sex.

I have had her start to wear men's briefs and jockstraps during our foreplay. I am usually wearing the same. Last time I had her bind down her tits with an ace bandage and wear a wife beater. The effect was incredible.

But I need to kick it up a notch. I have trying to talk her into getting her hair cut short and more masculine. I also want her to start wearing a strap-on of some sort so that I blow her while she blows me.

I'm looking for other ideas.

Jock N Briefs
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You should have an honest talk with her. Sounds like you're trying to make your wife into something she's not. She definitely knows something is up, and by trying to dress her up like that, you're likely making her feel like crap. Man up and have a grown-up discussion with her, instead of treating her poorly, which is what it sounds like you're doing now.
 
GreenEyedMinx said:
She definitely knows something is up, and by trying to dress her up like that, you're likely making her feel like crap. Man up and have a grown-up discussion with her, instead of treating her poorly, which is what it sounds like you're doing now.
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Actually -- she seems to be getting off on the power trip and has been quite willingly wearing jocks and briefs for me. She had no issue when I came up with the idea of binding down her tits.

I just want to move it evn more into the man-sex realm than it already is, to the psycho-sexual point where she is no longer female, but all man

Jock N Briefs
 
One thing I did not mention is that my wife tends toward being a sub and I'm very much a dom .. which is how we met. So, she says that my sexual pleasure is what is important to her and love loves getting me off. That's why it was easy to introduce her to my jockstrap and briefs fetish. She knows how hard I get when we both wear jockstraps or when I see her in men's briefs, and knows that she'll get a right good fuck out of it

Jock N Brief
 
Well, I have no idea if your wife might be interested, but you could suggest her roleplaying a gay guy outright, at least sometimes.
 
Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.
 
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Quite frankly I think you are deluding yourself over your sexual orientation.
It seems to me you are not Bi, you're Gay.
A bisexual gets sexual gratification from women through them being feminine and from males through them being masculine.
Seems to me you're trying to turn your wife into a male.
You need to think about if you want women as part of your sexlife.
 
Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.
 
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When you try to turn someone into something they're not surreptitiously you're doing the wrong thing

If you talk to her and she's happy to go with it then great for you both

If she's going with it because of her submissive tendencies and not getting what she needs from it then she'll wise up and be unhappy

You do sound like a gay man trapped to me from that one post and not a bi man experimenting ..but it's one post so benefit of the doubt I suppose
 
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