1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
Nope. I might consider it under the right circumstances, but I'm not sure what those would be.
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply
or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
Depends. Sometimes I feel like there's a really good connection between her post and what I'm responding, so there's more of an expectation. At the same time, I realize that everybody is here for something a little different, so I don't let it get to me too much.
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
Again, I think it depends on what people are looking for. If a guy is just looking to jerk as quickly as possible, he may be more willing to lie to get done faster.
I, personally, am more of the "make friends, then intimacy" type. Typically I don't lie about anything except my name.
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular
experience you'd like to share, please do so.
It's been ok. Sometimes it feels like digging through the proverbial haystack looking for the right needle. (So, ladies who might be looking for partners, hit me up so I can stop looking
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region?
Not yet, but hoping to at some point.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination?
I like to experience new things. I'd be interested to go all over; to be honest, haven't done enough research on the area to have a specific location in mind.
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
It's been fun getting to know people, especially those where the relationship lasts over a period of time. It's a little difficult for me to get there because of my situation (I'm not on super frequently), but it's always been a ride.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I'm a 39 year old male currently studying for a PhD in a business-related field. I'm open to just about anything, from making friends to getting somewhat kinky. I've done text chat, phone (although rarely), and cam, though I typically avoiding communicating over email or Lit because of the delay. I much prefer chatting in real time.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
Nope, to be honest didn't even know they existed.