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The violent non-consensual touching of a person's genitals for the sake of incapacitation is about as black and white sexual assault as it gets.
Not the same league? sure. fine. because women don't commonly curl up in a ball on the ground in agony after having their breasts touched. And in the modern age, a woman has legal recourse to said touching, while a little boy in the current year is still told to walk it off.
women are dehumanized through sexualizaion, men are dehumanized by being told their sexuality doesn't matter, which is exactly what you've just done here.
No, it’s regular assault.
The difference between the two is intent and context.
A fight on the playground between to boys which results in someone getting kicked in the junk as an act of aggression or self defense, is vastly different than a female being molested by someone bigger or in a position of power. That is all I said. How it is handled or mishandled beyond is not something I’m disputing here. By your rationale, someone defending themselves by kicking their attacker in the balls, could be brought up on sexual assault charges. Which would be ridiculous.
And no, I’ve not dehumanized anyone nor am I dismissing your point, simply pointing out the disparity between two situations that are unrelated to one another, except that you seem to want them to be.
well now that would be a comparison, wouldn't it.
No, it’s not, because there isn’t.
Equal pay and being passed over for promotions because of gender is not an issue amongst men with men. Men are not considered unstable and their opinions are not openly and jokingly dismissed in the workplace/social gatherings/home because of their hormones or menstrual cycle. Men were not brought to orgasm by their doctors to cure “ hysteria “ partially brought on by the emphetamines they were prescribed by the same doctor. It’s socially acceptable for men to be openly promiscuous, while women are demeaned and shamed for it. Low sex drives in men are met with concern, sympathy, and have millions of dollars dumped into research and curing them, meanwhile women are still being butchered by careless doctors during mastectomies. And the list goes on. Do you really need me to continue to drive home the fact that there’s an OBVIOUS difference between how things are approached based on gender?
And EVERYONE has the right to defend themselves, I don’t give a shit who or what is attacking whom.
But yeah, keep telling yourself that men aren't oppressed. I hope for your sake that pretty little bubble you live in never bursts, because I understand it to be particularly ugly for BDSM enthusiasts.
Friend, I’m not saying that men don’t have their share of social issues and hardships, they certainly do. But claiming that they are oppressed in even half as many ways or as often, is bullshit. Not to mention, has absolutely NOTHING to do with the metoo movement and only serves to highlight the issue. Also, just because I don’t advertise my issues or what I’ve been through, doesn’t mean I live in some reality proof bubble full of sunshine and puppies and shit. I don’t feel the need to dump my luggage out and invite people into my problems, nor are they anyone’s fucking business unless I make it such, so you can check that bit of attitude at the door if you want to have any kind of real dialogue with me.
yeah. you just fucking did. Fuck You.
Silencing victims IS THE PROBLEM. You just made yourself part of that problem. Congrats, you're a rape culture denier.
*Sigh
See, this is why I put that aside in there, so you wouldn’t take that as an attack on you. My words are directed at both the OP for calling this thread what he did, when it should have been called “ I’m too shit scared to be the Domliest Dom that ever Dom’d, because no means no and I can’t handle that.” as well as any other guy that is taking personal offense to the metoo movement having nothing to do with men, so they have to make it about them in some way.
Now, how does this make me a rape culture denier? I didn’t belittle your pain or dismiss your situation, I even went out of my way to make sure you knew that those words weren’t aimed at you ( which I don’t usually do ). I didn’t tell you to not speak, nor did I say victims of sexual abuse not speak up. Quite the opposite. I called out those who stand by and don’t get involved, and claim that they aren’t doing anything wrong, as well as those who cant stand the fact that this has nothing to do with them, so they try to twist it in some way so they also get to be part of it.
Think about it, go back and read through. This thread is titled #metoo. What part of anything this thread has devolved into, is about that hashtag and what it represents? The answer is nothing, beyond the few that continue to point out that very fact. That’s my point. Fuck me indeed.
I DO NOT. Not even from you.
excuse me, i've been crafting this post in spite of a lot of pain. I'll be off to pain vomit in the shower now. I mention this because this headache is the only reason i'm delaying judgement on ignoring you.
I think the only traitor that ever cut me deeper on this board (excluding myself) was Stella, who frankly, happens to be one of my personal heros. You're in fine company.
Clearly I’ve either not articulated myself properly or you’ve misinterpreted what I’ve said, since I’m not possessed of the lack of character to perpetrate the kind of thing you seem to think I am. I’m a lot of things, some pretty bad, but not anywhere near the kind of thing you just accused me of. Hopefully, this clears that up. If you want to take it to pm, I just turned mine back on.
But, if you are still so twisted up by what you’ve experienced, that you can’t see the forest for the trees in terms of my meaning, and still fully believe that ( not only are women no more oppressed, demeaned, and abused than men, but that ) I’m the kind of person you seem to think I am given your response to my previous post. Then I’m no longer interested in interacting with you, so feel free to block me or whatever. Do what you gotta do man. Your choice.