midwestyankee
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I love that. I would have loved to hear her scream!!!
As I recall, I rather enjoyed that part, too.
As I recall, I rather enjoyed that part, too.
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#22 (suggested)
Mindfucking
Do you like it? Like to do it? What are some ways you have or like to experience a good mind fuck?
If you like, share some good and/or bad experiences.
I'm super curious to hear from everyone here!
It the positive sense I am a huge fan of a good mind fuck. I love it when a lover is able to get into your brain and push good buttons, twist and turn inside of you mind.
I'm not sure I can give a good example because most of them tend to be highly subjective. What works for one couple won't work for another since they're different people. You kind of have to find your way into that passionate portion of the brain and I'm fairly sure it's rarely the same path.
As for the bad mindfuck, not a fan and have no tolerance for the game playing or lying that it often entails.
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That's crazy. I spent a few years not speaking when I was younger. I used a similar form of communication.
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I've been involved in these kind of "one size fits all" shenanigans. They're fun. I won't do these at work anymore though, because... work. I don't think I've ever smelled like sex from sexting alone???
These days, I'm more interested in a more tailored mind fuck. Don't get me wrong, FunFilled - I'm sure you make it more specific to each woman you're with. And yet, it's kind of the same basic activity. Nothing wrong with it - it's fun, for sure.
I've done a couple goofy, fun, super hot mind fuck things - but maybe it was more predicament bondage or a predicament situation? Like not getting caught at work. Is a predicament situation a mindfuck?? Yes!
It's been mentioned here before - having a partner crawl up inside your head, spend some time, then crack ya like a coconut! And then ever so sweet and gently, help put back together those puzzle pieces. Sometimes transformative, sometimes not but always cathartic.
That's what I want. Maybe it's that old cliche of wanting someone to push my boundaries.
In the past, I was definitely interested in physical hurt. The harder the better. Now, as I'm older, emotional masochism is becoming more appealing. I'm not sure why? Maybe I'm more open to exploring it??
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I mind-fucked my dog last night! Well... sort of! I thought she peed on the floor so I did the whole "what did you do?" in my best Domme dog-mom voice. Oh, she looked so sad and forlorn! The "pee" was a shadow on the floor. The rest of the night she followed me around trying to get back in my good graces. I felt awful!
Needless to say, I gave her lots of aftercare.
Needless to say, I gave her lots of aftercare.
PrettyLilPussy19
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Before I post a new question, I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who participates. Hearing everyone's experiences, thoughts and advice has been really interesting and eye opening for me personally.
I just want to make sure yall want to keep going? I never want this to become an echo chamber or an uninviting place to anyone (not that is has!). I guess all feedback is appreciated.
I just want to make sure yall want to keep going? I never want this to become an echo chamber or an uninviting place to anyone (not that is has!). I guess all feedback is appreciated.
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#23
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The Partner Influence
Are there any kinks or specific acts that you only tried because your partner wanted to try? Did they appeal afterwards? How much of what you like now has been influenced by partners of the past?
#23
The Partner Influence
Are there any kinks or specific acts that you only tried because your partner wanted to try? Did they appeal afterwards? How much of what you like now has been influenced by partners of the past?
KamaKamaSutra
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It's great PLP
It's good to hear so many peoples thoughts on things. I'm down for the next round.
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#22 (suggested)
Mindfucking
Do you like it? Like to do it? What are some ways you have or like to experience a good mind fuck?
If you like, share some good and/or bad experiences.
I'm super curious to hear from everyone here!
Do i like it? Yaassss.
Example: The Motherfucking Countdown. Fuck that shit, and give me more. I loathe being teased, but i do like my soft limits pushed. Finding the sweet spot between too much and not enough makes me phone-chucking crazy, but when he hits it just right, the release is sublime.
Do i like to do(give) it? Yes, but...
Example: The first thing that comes to mind is the time i was asking someone what his preferences were and then i gave him something completely different. His surprise and his laughter made it a fun memory. 'No one would ever expect it from you,' he said. The evil genius, i suppose.
And here comes the 'but': Aftercare. Is. Key.
I need it as much as a PYL as i do as a pyl, . I have lots of thoughts on that subject, but I'll save them for another time.
Wild_Honey_66
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My idiot second husband kept tryna shove his dry dick in my ass without warning, and he wasn't very good about taking no for an answer. After we got a computer, i googled the fuck out of anal and surprise, surprise, now i like it.
Other than that, i have typically been the one to want to try new stuff.
Except of course for the Maglite Incident.
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Oh yes. I think sex is a learning experience so you have to be open to learning and trying new things.
Most of my sexuality has been profoundly influenced by partners of the past. Though I initiated and tried my share of things, there were a lot of things where my first introduction was from a partner bringing it up. I probably didn't become sexually bold until my early thirties. I was always sexually adventurous, but it tended to be down the path of new partners engaging in traditional sex acts, as opposed to new sex acts.
Just off the top of my head and in no particular order:
E. introduced me to both bondage and swapping/swinging.
T. introduced me to role-playing in the sexual context and the D/s spectrum.
R. introduced me to the pleasure of phone sex, sexting, and edging.
P. and S. introduced me to pleasures of fucking someone's wife in the classic cuckold type scenario.
L. introduced me to threesomes and then group sex.
K. introduced me to the pleasures of the random one-night stand and taught me many secrets on how to get from "Hi" to naked in the hotel room in less than five notes.
The list goes on and I am grateful for every one of them and probably missed a few along the way.
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***************
Paul,
I'd like to buy a vowel and see if we can make acronym out of your lovers initials!
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Paul,
I'd like to buy a vowel and see if we can make acronym out of your lovers initials!
Hahaha - dammit, now my brain is trying to do exactly that!
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I tend to tailor any sexual experience to my partner's desire. I have my kinks but most of them involve control in one way or another. Luckily as a man, the point of sexual release is more easily achieved through stimulation
My first partner, lets call her D. She was quite a bit older than me. She was also a larger woman, she would be considered a BBW and a PAWG. But She LOVED TO FUCK. I mean this woman had a appetite for the carnal that would put half of lit to shame and would teach the other half something. She would cum 4 and 5 times before sex then at least as many during and after. Give her 10 minutes and she was back on top. Work, House, Car, Truck, Dirt road, parking lot, church, desk, chair, couch, table, bed it didn't matter as long as I was inside her. She took my virginity and introduced me into the shallow end of many things that would become my kinks later. Though I don't know if even she knew what everything was at the time. I think I would be a very different person if she hand't dug her nails into my back that first time.
After her, I had a series of casual hook ups and I can't say they influenced my appetite more than they sated it for a time. I never lied to any of them, they were aware that I was here for the sex and to have a good time. They all were in the same frame of mind so no feelings were hurt and good times had by all.
I started noticing that my appetite became more "specialized" as I got older and I think I rubbed some of that off onto others. Through conversation and explanation I introduced my co-worker into bdsm and now she has a Daddy of her own so I guess I will be on her list in the future
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I'm embarrassed that I just had to google PAWG.
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I'm embarrassed that I just had to google PAWG.
Hell, google is my constant companion when I am on Lit. I probably have "what the hell is that" moments on a daily basis.
PrettyLilPussy19
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Lol! True but that one particularly I feel like I should have known.
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I tend to tailor any sexual experience to my partner's desire. I have my kinks but most of them involve control in one way or another. Luckily as a man, the point of sexual release is more easily achieved through stimulation
My first partner, lets call her D. She was quite a bit older than me. She was also a larger woman, she would be considered a BBW and a PAWG. But She LOVED TO FUCK. I mean this woman had a appetite for the carnal that would put half of lit to shame and would teach the other half something. She would cum 4 and 5 times before sex then at least as many during and after. Give her 10 minutes and she was back on top. Work, House, Car, Truck, Dirt road, parking lot, church, desk, chair, couch, table, bed it didn't matter as long as I was inside her. She took my virginity and introduced me into the shallow end of many things that would become my kinks later. Though I don't know if even she knew what everything was at the time. I think I would be a very different person if she hand't dug her nails into my back that first time.
After her, I had a series of casual hook ups and I can't say they influenced my appetite more than they sated it for a time. I never lied to any of them, they were aware that I was here for the sex and to have a good time. They all were in the same frame of mind so no feelings were hurt and good times had by all.
I started noticing that my appetite became more "specialized" as I got older and I think I rubbed some of that off onto others. Through conversation and explanation I introduced my co-worker into bdsm and now she has a Daddy of her own so I guess I will be on her list in the future
I think that is kind of how it works - we are introduced, we explore, then it is our turn to introduce. We are taught, then we teach. If we're lucky that cycle continues through our entire sexual lives.
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Lol! True but that one particularly I feel like I should have known.
Now you do.
That one stumped me when I first came across it online.
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I'm the partner trying to influence. I'm open minded, mostly. But if something is suggested, wth, I'll probably try it.
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Hahahaha! Obviously you're far more exciting than I.
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Note to self; keep fire extinguisher on hand
I hear that.
I have yet to get a guy to talk dirty to me.
Grrr, i love it. Just tell me how good i look while I'm sucking that tootsie pop
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I'm embarrassed that I just had to google PAWG.
I'm glad I could spark some curiosity!At this point I'm afraid to google what I don't know, you have to get pretty deep at this point
