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So I thought I'd try something new here...I'll throw a thought out and would like to hear your comments on it.
Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
Hi, I'm new to lit, so I'm still learning my way around, but I've seen some interesting content. I'm looking to chat and start getting to know people. Anyone want to break me in? lol
I always try and reply it depends on how busy i am, after all they have taken the trouble to write to me
I think this is a positive attitude, provided the PM does prove some effort was put in writing it
If its just a random Pm out of the blue - no reply isn't a problem. However if she asks a question on a thread or asks for responses - i think a reply is in order...just saying...
Btw, just an update that there are quite a few guys who would actually appreciate a reply. I generally would send replies, its just more difficult to send a "thank you but no thanks" kind of reply.
In an earlier post, I asked whether any of you has met a lit-ster.
If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you?
This time, I'm looking for someone who has the time to have a proper continuous chat. (Please dont take 30 minutes in between messages).
So I thought I'd try something new here...I'll throw a thought out and would like to hear your comments on it.
Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
Btw, just an update that there are quite a few guys who would actually appreciate a reply. I generally would send replies, its just more difficult to send a "thank you but no thanks" kind of reply.
This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
Let's discuss this here.
Hi
just saw this thread. Welcome to lit.
I would love to talk more with you if you'd like., If not thats cool.
either way enjoy lit
I have. We had an amazing online rapport. We loved writing long emails to each other. She decided to move nearer to me, and my wife. I found her a place to rent. She turned out to have lied about pretty much everything we'd ever talked about. She bragged about the lies she told to other "friends". Within six months she had moved on to someone else three thousand miles away. But, I'm an optimist, so I would do it again.
I HOPE for a reply. But I've learned NOT to expect one. I come here for connection, so I'm pretty selective about who I contact. Unless we start to talk and develop rapport I keep my expectations set to nothing. The ones that puzzle me are the ones that reply, sound so promising, and then just evaporate. "Biggies" are rare online.
A "thank you but no thanks" is an act of kindness. The world needs more acts of random kindness.
I think most people online feel much freer to lie than they do when they're staring someone in the eyes. It's the sad reality of having this amazing tool at out fingertips. In MY time on Earth I've learned that there are very very few situations in which a lie is the best choice you can make.
Well, here's another twist. since there are a few who seem sane and interested to chat/discuss here, do any of you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
how is your experience with lit going.
since you are talking about lying it makes me wonder if it started with the wrong foot.
Love to chat with a Bi guy. I have some very kinky ideas, some of which would be illegal as hell if I acted on them.