MeekMe
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Made me think of honeymoon urinary tract infections, that burn from love.
Reported it as spam earlier.
I reported it this morning before replying.
Ick... UTIs are the worst. >.<
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Made me think of honeymoon urinary tract infections, that burn from love.
Reported it as spam earlier.
The conversation doesn't much matter, but it did make me think about the dynamic we have as friends. I think that we get along well because she has no problem making plans, and I have no problem going along with them. There's more to it than that, but I won't go into it here. At the risk of sounding weird, I suppose I noticed the power exchange we have going on naturally and mostly unsaid.
...and he's aware of his superpowers.
I can relate so well.
I have a friend who's clearly the dominant in our relationship and in hindsight it has been so always. The whole dynamic is very difficult to describe, but I guess "he makes the plans and I'm happy to go along with them" is a good way to put a tiny part of it for me, too.
It took me a long time to notice what's going on, and at that point things had already sort of escalated into a weird D/s deal without anything sexual. We had never talked about it, he had never been interested in dominating anybody in any way and had never thought of our dynamic in those terms, the whole D/s thing was new to him. He knew about my BDSM leanings, but was never interested in any of it himself. He is now - but purely as a rigger and an occasional bottom.
It's odd, because I've been and am friends with many people who ID as dominants, but I've never had any trouble keeping the boundaries with them. It's never even been a question of particularly having to keep the boundaries, they're there naturally. With this one person it's all so fluid and organic.
There's still that vibe there in our friendship, but now I know I have to keep my boundaries in check and he's aware of his superpowers.
yes! superpower dominance. i think we as subs have our own superpowers too: the ability to handle that dominance, as well as the ability to appreciate it. i'm not sure about other subs, but i think something particularly powerful in me is my ability to love and need so openly and fully. so maybe that's my sub superpower: a wide open heart.
I don't think that is a particularly sub thing. I don't have a wide open heart. I can think of one close friendship where i just go along a lot of the time, because it's easier and I don't mind. I like this person, and would rather spend time with them enjoying their company, than constantly negoting how we'll spend that time. Then i managed to marry someone who tends to follow my lead without any d/s and always has. Yet I've always followed his lead where sex was involved. It worked out perfectly (with a lot of talking and negotiating along the way).
I bet this happens more than we realize. Thanks for bringing up this aspect to it MeekMe.