Men who love to share - real or fantasy

Which describes you.. select all that applies..sharing turns me on and..

  • I have fantasies only (so far)

    Votes: 325 34.5%
  • I masturbate fantasizing about my wife/gf being fucked by another man/woman.

    Votes: 603 63.9%
  • my wife/gf has had sex with another man.

    Votes: 261 27.7%
  • my wife/gf has had sex with another woman.

    Votes: 194 20.6%
  • I have watched her having sex with others.

    Votes: 205 21.7%
  • I have fucked her after she returned home after having sex with others.

    Votes: 142 15.1%
  • I have participated while my wife/gf was having sex with others.

    Votes: 233 24.7%

  • Total voters
    943

myasianwife69

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Hello everyone,

It seems that from reading many threads that many husbands and boyfriends find the idea of sharing their spouse/partner a real turn on. And it seems that there are varying stages of sharing from fantasy on part of the husband to both hubby/wife enjoying the thoughts to the wife actually having sex with someone else or two or more...

So I thought I'd start a new thread for all the men (and women) to exchange their fantasies and real adventures where the wife/gf has been shared or fantasized about. Be open and share all your thoughts and why the idea of seeing or letting your wife/gf be enjoyed by others is a source of a turn on. Or maybe the idea is the opposite and does not turn you on.

But thats the beauty of this forum... anything and everything can be expressed without fear of persecution.

I'll start off with a pic of my own... some of you may have noticed her under our other thread, Asian wife Exploring... http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=637123

This picture was sent to us by someone who enjoyed masturbating to my wife's pic. The end result was a huge turnon for Mrs. A and was the start of our adventure to the alternative lifestyle.
 
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STill no reponse posted but votes made...lets hear from you guys and gals

Don't be shy folks.... based on many threads in this forum, the notion of men sharing their wives/gf seems to be a common turn on for both partners...

So lets hear from you folks out there. Share your fantasies, share your real adventures... tell us how you managed to get your wife/gf to open up so that others can learn...

Here is another one from the collection of men who enjoyed Mrs. A's assets enough to deposit their own assets.

oneluckyhubconfidenttoshare
 
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My wife and I have fantasized about this but it hasn't happened. She opened had a thing going by email with a couple from Wash DC where sex was discussed and a few pictures went back and forth. It really turned her on which of course benefitted me. She isn't ready yet to take it to the next level yet.
 
My wife and I have fantasized about this but it hasn't happened. She opened had a thing going by email with a couple from Wash DC where sex was discussed and a few pictures went back and forth. It really turned her on which of course benefitted me. She isn't ready yet to take it to the next level yet.

Hi Mitch, thanks for sharing... thats how we started out as well... first we video taped ourselves for our own viewing... found that to be a real turn on.. then pictures.. then webcam.. and then she talked with someone on mic and saw him cum on her pics and that did it for her.
 
I don't think my wife would ever be open to swinging in any form. She's not a big thrill seeker, and seems generally satisfied with the scope and range of our love making. I sometimes fantasize, however, about being joined by another women, and the various permutations possible in such a scenario. I've never had a threesome, but came close just once. (I think we all just chickened out.) I have seen my wife get turned on by other guys, friends of mine, and that's always fun. I don't think she's ever wanted to act on those feelings, though.

Anyway, thanks for sharing, and for asking.

Peace,

f(s)
 
hmmm

we have discussed bringing another to our bed. She has mentioned that she would like a woman to go don on her, but is nervous about what I will be doing and whether she will need to reciprocate.
So far, that is our extent of it. I have no illusions that anything will happen in my lifetime.. ;)
 
we have discussed bringing another to our bed. She has mentioned that she would like a woman to go don on her, but is nervous about what I will be doing and whether she will need to reciprocate.
So far, that is our extent of it. I have no illusions that anything will happen in my lifetime.. ;)

Thnaks for sharing goldbug... Mrs A and I were at that same stage many years ago. It started with talks of having another but with her it was with men only. She was not curious about women at that time. Slowly but surely, the talks became vivid and creative. Along the way many experiments were done with videotaping, watching porn (amateur was the best), goiing to strip clubs, and exhibitionism...
 
I don't think my wife would ever be open to swinging in any form. She's not a big thrill seeker, and seems generally satisfied with the scope and range of our love making. I sometimes fantasize, however, about being joined by another women, and the various permutations possible in such a scenario. I've never had a threesome, but came close just once. (I think we all just chickened out.) I have seen my wife get turned on by other guys, friends of mine, and that's always fun. I don't think she's ever wanted to act on those feelings, though.

Anyway, thanks for sharing, and for asking.

Peace,

f(s)

Thanks for sharing Fflow.. gotta run but will respond more later.
 
Hi Fflow

Hello F, this is Sue.

I thought I'd see what type of response my husband was getting in this new thread he started. So far yours and the others story seems to sound very similar to ours. Believe or not I was against anything to do with others including posting pictures! My god to have me in all degrees of undress was horrifying for many reasons - others finding out about me, what people would think - was I too fat, too short, not sexy enough. And quite frankly I was only interested and still am interested in my husband alone. Today I love him more than ever and its not just because of his willingness to share - I still find that odd at times but not as much as before.

What moved me forward was the constant images he described to me and the constant showering of love and telling me how sexy I was - yes compliments do have effects. Just like all those commenting about me/us in our other thread.

Just wanted to share from a woman's point of view. Let me/us know if we can share more comments that will help.

Have a great weekend!
Mrs A/Sue

Oh and since I had the courage to post a picture of me on the other thread I thought I'd help my husband out since I'm up early and post one here - someone that really surprised me with his reaction to my picture.
 
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just once

Me and the wife married very young, she was 17 i was 18.We fantasized for a couple years and talked during sex of sharing her. Her biggest fantasy was to be with 2 men. After a couple years we of just talking we had a threesome with a friend of mine where i shared her with him. She loved it and i did too. I never seen her as turned on as she was that night. For some reason even though we both enjoyed it she refuses to ever do it again. We still talk about the same things often during sex but she just wont do it again. it didnt have any bad effects on our relationship. We are 30 now and this happened about 8 years ago. I'd love to watch her again
 
Dear Sue,

Thanks so much for sharing. I'm so glad that your relatioship has grown and matured as a result of your sexual explorations.

For me, sexual fantasies are something I enjoy, but I don't necessarily want or need to make them real. If my wife were willing, I'd certainly embrace any and all activities she'd consider. Knowing her as I do, though, I'd never push her to do something beyond her comfort level.

BTW, she's allowed me to take a few erotic photos of her, but with the promise that I'd not share them on-line.

Anyway, I just want to express how valuable your story is, and I hope you continue sharing it as it unfolds, and encouraging others to share as well.

Thank you!

xoxo

f(s)
 
I do have quite a few girlfriends who have told me that their SO's or spouse's have shared this kind of fantasy which has always struck me as odd but i guess that's more so because of my strict catholic upbringing where this of course would be considered "cheating" however the more my girlfriends would explain how these fantasies would often get not only the spouses excited but themselves as well i soon realized that as long as no one is getting hurt and it does spice things up in bed then why not ?? as for my own husband i don't think he'd get too into this since he's always been the jealous type but in recent years he has been enjoying it more and more when i dress in sexy outfits not only for him but for the attention of other guys too soo hhhmmmmmmm :rolleyes: ??
 
Dear Sue,

Thanks so much for sharing. I'm so glad that your relatioship has grown and matured as a result of your sexual explorations.

For me, sexual fantasies are something I enjoy, but I don't necessarily want or need to make them real. If my wife were willing, I'd certainly embrace any and all activities she'd consider. Knowing her as I do, though, I'd never push her to do something beyond her comfort level.

BTW, she's allowed me to take a few erotic photos of her, but with the promise that I'd not share them on-line.

Anyway, I just want to express how valuable your story is, and I hope you continue sharing it as it unfolds, and encouraging others to share as well.

Thank you!

xoxo

f(s)

Hi Fflow,

I admire your healthy attitude and acceptance of your situation. I always say never say never, but based on your mature confidence in yourself and your marriage I know that whether its just fantasy or it becomes more you and your loved one will continue to enjoy your relationship more and more.

And look at what you just described. Your misses has allowed you to take some erotic photos of her and you have promised not to share online. That is exactly how I felt when Mr. A started with photos. I made him swear on his grandmother's grave that the pictures were for his eyes only! Well he kept his promise. The next step for us was videotaping ourselves in countless hours of fornication... mind you we were much younger then and would spend literally days in bed soaking the sheets.

All our best to you and yours! Have a wonderful weekend and may our posts and pictures help with your fantasies.

Sue
 
I do have quite a few girlfriends who have told me that their SO's or spouse's have shared this kind of fantasy which has always struck me as odd but i guess that's more so because of my strict catholic upbringing where this of course would be considered "cheating" however the more my girlfriends would explain how these fantasies would often get not only the spouses excited but themselves as well i soon realized that as long as no one is getting hurt and it does spice things up in bed then why not ?? as for my own husband i don't think he'd get too into this since he's always been the jealous type but in recent years he has been enjoying it more and more when i dress in sexy outfits not only for him but for the attention of other guys too soo hhhmmmmmmm :rolleyes: ??

Elaine, ours was a little opposite of yours. It was Rob's confidence in himself and in our marriage that he steadily talked to me during sex and in the glowing aftermath about me with others where after several years I started to feel confident in myself sexually. Now I go out in public with usually pantiless under a skirt and enjoy dressing up or down and enjoying the looks and smiles from men and women... Mr. A always calls during the day to ask me if i'm making him proud! hahahaha...

PS. I wrote something in your thread.
Have a wonderful weekend! Sue
 
Hi Fflow,

I admire your healthy attitude and acceptance of your situation. I always say never say never, but based on your mature confidence in yourself and your marriage I know that whether its just fantasy or it becomes more you and your loved one will continue to enjoy your relationship more and more.

And look at what you just described. Your misses has allowed you to take some erotic photos of her and you have promised not to share online. That is exactly how I felt when Mr. A started with photos. I made him swear on his grandmother's grave that the pictures were for his eyes only! Well he kept his promise. The next step for us was videotaping ourselves in countless hours of fornication... mind you we were much younger then and would spend literally days in bed soaking the sheets.

All our best to you and yours! Have a wonderful weekend and may our posts and pictures help with your fantasies.

Sue

Dear Sue,

Your grace, intelligence, and beauty are indeed an inspiration for me. I must confess that I'd LOVE to see those tapes. I have often thought of placing my video camera near our bed so I can watch us after the fact. I'm sure there are so many things I miss as a participant. (does that make sense?)

Anyway, you can rest assured that, as long as you post here, I'll be enjoying your contributions.

Have a great weekend!

f(s)
 
soo hhhmmmmmmm :rolleyes: ??

That pretty much sums it up. The biggest challenge, I think, is admitting to one's self first what turns you on. Once you've faced that hurdle, sharing it with a spouse or sig other is the next big hurdle. The thing is that our partners are with us because they want to be, and because they value us in their lives. I think we leave so much unspoken because we're afraid, but I feel in my heart that the fear is often unfounded. I'm not talking about walking up to my wife and telling her, "I want to fuck other women" or "I want to see you fuck other guys" but rather, "I sometimes have fantasies and, although I don't necessarily want to make them a reality, it would be really exciting if we could talk about them."

Anyway, I'm so thankful for this thread.

*hugs*
 
I assume you don't want to hear from Not Applicables?

Hello Nidan, not at all. This forum like all forums in lit is set to encourage all to express their views in a respectful manner.

Just as bondage, S&M, anal are forms of sexual activities that some do not care for, sharing one's significant other or fantasizing about it is also another form of sexual activity that does not cater to all. It is not acceptable when people respond with unwarranted negative comments and down right rude and crude expressions. We are all adults here capable of expressing our thoughts and desires in a mature manner.

As I wrote earlier, our relationship did not start off with "honey the idea of you fucking another guy/girl turns me on." Like all relationships the beginning is focused on each other and nothing else seems to matter. I'm sure all of us can fondly remember those silly things we did when we were badly falling in love - like driving 12 hours non-stop just to see the partner for less than an hour! :)

Thankyou Nidan for politely asking about the type of responses that are preferred. The only rule I suppose is that everyone must be respectful of each others' desires and must write in a adult mature manner.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Sue/Rob
 
That pretty much sums it up. The biggest challenge, I think, is admitting to one's self first what turns you on. Once you've faced that hurdle, sharing it with a spouse or sig other is the next big hurdle. The thing is that our partners are with us because they want to be, and because they value us in their lives. I think we leave so much unspoken because we're afraid, but I feel in my heart that the fear is often unfounded. I'm not talking about walking up to my wife and telling her, "I want to fuck other women" or "I want to see you fuck other guys" but rather, "I sometimes have fantasies and, although I don't necessarily want to make them a reality, it would be really exciting if we could talk about them."

Anyway, I'm so thankful for this thread.

*hugs*

Hugs back to you Fflow. We are so impressed with your healthy and mature attitude toward the subject of sharing/open relationship/alternative lifestyle. Yes you are absolutely correct when you say that its all about being able to communicate openly and honestly and your description of those hurdles are dead on.

As we moved to videotaping and watching porn (amateur is our preference along with oral - women being licked; sorry for being selfish), Rob began to describe in very vivid detail variety of situations where I am exposed elegantly to the point where sluty is viewed as erotic (make sense?). His constant descriptions never ceased to trigger my wetness. Regarding those videotapes, they have long been erased - sorry. Sometimes I do wish that I did not have Mr. A get rid of them; maybe we'll just have to make some more.

I promised Rob that he could take more pictures and tonight after I return from a ladies night out I just might do that! Enjoy the rest of the weekend.

Sue
 
a fun night with the girls...

Hello everyone, I posted a description of my night out, a rare event...

Mr. A. wanted me to share it in this room so that the readers can get a woman's view on this subject matter. During the evening what I found the most exciting was knowing that my hubby had prepared me for the night giving his full blessing telling me to make him proud! hahaha. At times I thought of how excited he will be when I returned home telling him about all the exciting events. During the night I did think of Mr. A but there were times when I was completely focused on what was happening at the club to me, my friends, etc... more on this later if you wish to hear/discuss more....

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Well after a full day of recovering and going out to friends for bbq, good wine and conversation, I have a few moments to put my thoughts on paper (well cyber paper that is).

The evening started with my hubby shaving my pussy lips and leaving a thin patch on top. During my shower he picked out my outfit which was a simple black spaghetti strap dress and a white jacket. I notice there was no bra or panty...just the way he likes me.

I opted for a light weight thin cotton sweater that ties up at the waist instead.

With a light touch of make up and a dash of his favorite perfume placed in all the strategic areas, my girls and I went to town. Started out with drinks at a lounge bar enjoying all the stares from men who were clearly there on business. Then we sauntered to a nearby club where the music was loud, people were hotly dressed and down right sexy and lots of sexual tension in the air.

I won't go into great details, other than to say that the 4 of us danced the night away with men (and women) joining our little circle and at times breaking us out individually to bump and grind in a fun sexual way. During the night all of us were at one point or another touched, grabbed, groped. A few times we could not mistake the feel of a roaming hand on skin nor the hardness against my ass. It was good "naughty" adult fun.

From our stories you probably can tell that I am easily stimlated, extremely wet, loud and vocal expressing exactly what I want and how I want it, and multi-orgasmic to the point where I shake violently with squirting orgasms.

The fun didn't end when we said our goodbyes as each of us went to our respective significant others...Mr. A certainly enjoyed my wetness and heightened sexual desire from an evening of just being free to enjoy my girls and relishing in how others found my body.

...more details to follow...

...and yes, Mr. A had the camera ready ... I hope these stimulate your senses and your mind and you run with the image with your own fantasy.... I would love to hear what you would have done to and with me that night...

...more pics in this series to cum... I wanted to post all of them, but Mr. A, suggested I slowly reveal myself just as I did that night...

Have a great week everyone... I/we will try to post regularly and answer your questions/comments...

Hugs,
Mrs A / Sue ... oh girls just wanna have fun!

PS.. I hope this works...
http://forum.literotica.com/attachme...2&d=1243309814
http://forum.literotica.com/attachme...3&d=1243309885
 
I would love to see my Wife ( Who is Totally Straight )
being seduced by another Woman.
 
wife seduced by another woman

Hello Eddie,

I saw your post and thought I'd share a woman's perspective - hope you don't mind.

I suppose I would now consider myself bi-curious. I was and am "straight" but over the years of being loved by a wonderful caring husband and having encountered gorgeous caring women in Lit like JuLee and now Elaine, I am open to experiencing the touch, feel, scent of another woman. However, I know I will be nervous. At times my mind says not to, but at other times I get extremely wet and my clit tingles when I watch amateur women bi porn or when hubby describes vivid scenes of me with another, especially with Julee.

I guess I never thought I'd ever entertain the notion of wanting another woman between my legs, but now I do. And I never in a million years thought I'd desire to touch a woman... but now at times the desire is strong and getting stronger. Of course, when the time does arrive, will I actually go through with it.... it will all depend on the woman and the situation. Mr. A knows that once someone licks between my legs, I loose all control and want it all... :) so we'll just have to see.

Eddie, its been years - decades for me to even think like this let alone write openingly about it. Persistance and patience has paid off for Mr. A. Maybe it will be the same for you. Whatever small steps your wife takes, enjoy it to the fullest. Don't rush. Let her want it.

Hope this helps.
Take care,
Sue (aka Mrs. A/Straight)
 
some more to share of that night

Hello everyone,

Hubby wanted me to post these pics of me here as well as in our other thread.

I must admit coming home to hubby all worked up and tinglingly had my sex in over drive. And he certainly enjoyed every part of me that night.

I hope these pictures help stimulate vivid images in yoru minds of your wives going out and returning like I did.

Hugs to all,
Sue


http://forum.literotica.com/attachme...5&d=1243384858

http://forum.literotica.com/attachme...6&d=1243384863
 
I would have loved to be in a marriage with someone who was interested in these sorts of activities, but my marriage wasn't like that. Our relationship was always based on intellectual companionship, not on sex, and for him, the idea that his friend and partner could ever stoop so low was really abhorrent. We hardly ever even talked about sex, much less shared it with others.

And yes, I have been a Lit regular on and off for some years now. Mismatched much? Yes. *sigh*

Interesting thread. I appreciate the dialogue.
 
some of what others thought of my pics

Goodmorning everyone.

Have a wonderful day. And yes, these pics though a bit dated still do get me going and I am still amazed that men find me desirable enough (well at least based on my pictures) to want to release. Oh how I would love to know what went through their active minds when they enjoyed themselves!

Mrs. A

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