redheadedtxn
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So out of curiosity, how many dates do you go on with someone before you sleep with them? Heard someone say something last night about the "three date rule"...never heard of THAT before.
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So out of curiosity, how many dates do you go on with someone before you sleep with them? Heard someone say something last night about the "three date rule"...never heard of THAT before.
Rules when it comes to dating are fucking stupid...
They're just made up to sell more magazines.
I've fucked on the first date, and I've not fucked after 3 or 4... It all depends on the situation and the people.
And yes, I've heard about this "rule" before... always thought it was dumb.
Hell I've fucked and there's been NO date.
Have we met before?
What's your name?
Wait, that might not help.
hehehe.
The "three date rule" seems to be something that might have been printed in Cosmo in the '60's. I suppose it goes to the notion that women who have sex on the first date or "no real date" are sluts and women who won't "put out" to a guy after he's spent money and time for three dates is just a tease. I've always been a person that that has felt like most rules are meant to be bent and rules without logic are meant to be broken.
On the other hand, I personally would not be too inclined to think highly of women who had pick-up sex or first date sex. But I also know I have no right to judge. I can't believe I'm saying that, given that I've had the joy and privilege of knowing a reasonable number of women over the years. Still, for me, only one of them has been a quick hook up and bang. I've always been one to want several dates to get to know someone because (dare a guy say this?) sex was never the only thing I wanted. I've always wanted at least some level of "frienship", "compatibility", something more than just a crotch, even when I was a young buck in college. Sorry to bust the male myth.
Really? I don't mean this as sarcastic, though there are still "rules" for dating? If I would like to have sex with a man, I did. Didn't matter which date. It was what mattered to me at the time. If I wanted a one night stand, so be it. If I wanted a relationship and I had sex with him on the first date and he thought less of me... so be it. I go with what I want and not what "rules'" say.
They fuck on the first date or they are history.
I hope you tell them that on the front end so they don't waste their time.
They fuck on the first date or they are history.
I was always up for first date fucking.
I might not get a second date!
I always let them know that that second part is negotiable. I don't want them to feel obligated to enjoy it, only to do it.You will fuck and you will like it!
Oh yeah.
I always let them know that that second part is negotiable. I don't want them to feel obligated to enjoy it, only to do it.
That flexibility is very empowering.
I'm a giver.so good to see a sensitive man behind the poster
you can be a pretty funny guy some days
I always let them know that that second part is negotiable. I don't want them to feel obligated to enjoy it, only to do it.
That flexibility is very empowering.