Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls

I am so soooooooooo happy the kids are back in school and I can have my "pussy" time again ;) I miss chatting with my girls!
 
I had my first experience this weekend and now I have so many questions and things to work through. We're both married and somehow the situation is not simpler. I wish it was. I wouldn't trade the experience for anything though.

I envy what you had this past weekend. I love my husband, but I am desperate for the softness/gentleness/tenderness that only a woman can offer. I want to talk, to feel without that need for "commitment"

There' s a longing that is so deep and yet I don't have what it takes to go out and "hunt" I'm too old for that and have all the negative feelings that a slightly overweight, haircolor from a box, desperate for affection/attention/love woman has. For you women who have fulfilled the fantasy, I hope your reality was amazing as my fantasy is.

:heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:
 
so turned on tonight. ugh no one online wants to talk. im seriously wanting to talk to a woman tonight...
 
Just ever so slightly jealous of the ladies that have an understanding spouse. While he knows (some) of my past he tends to be a bit more conservative about the idea than I.
*sigh

Ditto. Mine does NOT support the idea. It doesn't change my needs, though.
 
I met my husband when we were both 19 and he knew from the start that I was bi....when he got to join me, my roommate, and her BF any objections he might have had faded away real fast....
 
mine has no idea about that side of me and Mr. Vanilla would not approve at all, so he shall never know

Exactly. Its been hinted at and met with disapproval. So, sadly, that side of me stays buried. Sometimes the urge is so strong, though. Almost unbearable.
 
Exactly. Its been hinted at and met with disapproval. So, sadly, that side of me stays buried. Sometimes the urge is so strong, though. Almost unbearable.

I so can relate to the urge, and there are days I can't wait to have the house alone for 7-8 hours, to help relieve the urge. ;)
 
I so can relate to the urge, and there are days I can't wait to have the house alone for 7-8 hours, to help relieve the urge. ;)

Yes! Exactly!
I surf crappy porn a lot and make do with it. I think more and more about taking it farther, though.
 
Yes! Exactly!
I surf crappy porn a lot and make do with it. I think more and more about taking it farther, though.

That is about the same here, I wish there was a site that had some good stuff, or at least some hotter stuff once in a while. Oh yes I understand that myself. :devil:
 
That is about the same here, I wish there was a site that had some good stuff, or at least some hotter stuff once in a while. Oh yes I understand that myself. :devil:

Ive tempted myself with personals ads, considered meeting for just flings. Women tend to be more complicated than men, though. I've not had an easy time meeting women who want flings. Or even women who want to be turned on. They enjoy flirting a little and thats it.
 
Ive tempted myself with personals ads, considered meeting for just flings. Women tend to be more complicated than men, though. I've not had an easy time meeting women who want flings. Or even women who want to be turned on. They enjoy flirting a little and thats it.

I agree, on the most part, however last year I was surprised and shocked, (in a good way) by a old friend, she is actually pretty sexual and kinky to ;)
 
I agree, on the most part, however last year I was surprised and shocked, (in a good way) by a old friend, she is actually pretty sexual and kinky to ;)

I'd say that you are very lucky. I've yet to find a friend like myself. To me a bestie that liked girlie sex would be the perfect situation.
 
May I join this club? I'm 32 and have been married for four years. I love my husband to death, but I am bisexual and have always known it. When I have private time to myself, I masturbate to lesbian porn. I told him about my bisexuality two years ago, which both shocked him and turned him on. He said he would do a threesome with me, but the problem is that I don't want a threesome with him. I want to have sex with a woman one-on-one or group sex with several women. I have no desire to have my husband involved with it.

I was always attracted to women in photos and film when I was a child. In fact, I can remember being physically aroused as a small child looking at women's underwear ads and the like. I never felt that way looking at the men's ads. When I was fourteen or fifteen, I completely fell for one of my friends. We had some moments together. She kissed me, she sucked my fingers, we used to massage and touch each other at sleepovers, and I ALWAYS wanted to take it further. She would get me so worked up, but I was afraid to do anything too aggressive with her for fear of being rejected or labeled "gay." (I mean, people weren't open about it back then like they are now.) But it fizzled out as we got older, and that was the only lesbian contact I've ever had.

I just really don't want to die before having the experience of a full-blown, hot, sexual encounter with a woman I'm attracted to. I hope I'm able to do that...sooner than later.
 
May I join this club? I'm 32 and have been married for four years. I love my husband to death, but I am bisexual and have always known it. When I have private time to myself, I masturbate to lesbian porn. I told him about my bisexuality two years ago, which both shocked him and turned him on. He said he would do a threesome with me, but the problem is that I don't want a threesome with him. I want to have sex with a woman one-on-one or group sex with several women. I have no desire to have my husband involved with it.

I was always attracted to women in photos and film when I was a child. In fact, I can remember being physically aroused as a small child looking at women's underwear ads and the like. I never felt that way looking at the men's ads. When I was fourteen or fifteen, I completely fell for one of my friends. We had some moments together. She kissed me, she sucked my fingers, we used to massage and touch each other at sleepovers, and I ALWAYS wanted to take it further. She would get me so worked up, but I was afraid to do anything too aggressive with her for fear of being rejected or labeled "gay." (I mean, people weren't open about it back then like they are now.) But it fizzled out as we got older, and that was the only lesbian contact I've ever had.

I just really don't want to die before having the experience of a full-blown, hot, sexual encounter with a woman I'm attracted to. I hope I'm able to do that...sooner than later.

I can relate. I want that too, for me, and it's challenging to deal with the feelings of being married (and feeling guilty that I have these feelings despite having a great marriage)...and wondering at what point he's going to want his patience repaid with a threesome...
 
I understand the guilt you feel. I feel that, too, at times. My husband is very sexual, and so am I, but the problem is that I get bored at times being with the same person. I don't only fantasize about women. Sometimes it's other men, but I would never, ever pursue another man as long as we are married. I deal with my attraction toward other men through erotic writing and fantasy. A woman, however, feels different to me. And he knows that.

He was enthusiastic about the threesome idea for a long time, until I told him I just wanted to put away the idea for now. I don't think he understands my feelings about this and why I don't want him involved. Sex with a woman would only be good for me if it's just the woman and me, and that's all there is to it.

Looking forward to talking to other women here.
 
I understand the guilt you feel. I feel that, too, at times. My husband is very sexual, and so am I, but the problem is that I get bored at times being with the same person. I don't only fantasize about women. Sometimes it's other men, but I would never, ever pursue another man as long as we are married. I deal with my attraction toward other men through erotic writing and fantasy. A woman, however, feels different to me. And he knows that.

He was enthusiastic about the threesome idea for a long time, until I told him I just wanted to put away the idea for now. I don't think he understands my feelings about this and why I don't want him involved. Sex with a woman would only be good for me if it's just the woman and me, and that's all there is to it.

Looking forward to talking to other women here.

Have you tried talking to him about it? Have you discussed your desire for it to be a one-on-one affair, not the two of you together?

Would you be ok with him doing the same?

You have to be honest with yourself, and honest with your significant other. It is ok to be selfish to a point, but if that point crosses a line your SI isn't happy with, then it is not alright.

You have to ask yourself, if the situation were reversed, and you were in his place, excited about the idea, wanting to share it with him, and he said "no, I want this for me, not for us", would YOU be ok with it?
 
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