Hitchiker69
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You got that right! I'd love to share a cock with my wife. Or have it to myself, and let her watch how much I enjoy it.
Is hubby bi?
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You got that right! I'd love to share a cock with my wife. Or have it to myself, and let her watch how much I enjoy it.
coati said:
There are more labels for people who like to have sex with both men and women than you can shake a stick at. From my personal experience with both men and women, you could label me as all the above depending on the situation.
Some people I look at and feel sexually attracted to with no intention to ever do anything about it. (ie: "looking at the menu")
When single, I was good with either sex as long as they were willing.
And I've had romantic attachments to both men and women at various times. Sometimes the feelings were reciprocated, other times not.
I've heard all my adult life that a bi person is "oversexed" and can't help themselves but to have sex with any and everybody. Total BS, but it's out there. If I'm in a committed relationship with anyone, I'm not stepping out of it unless my lover is good with it. If they cheat, then I figure the commitment is gone and it's over.
I agree. It gets even more complicated when you consider that some people, including me, feel like they are both male and female, and enjoy that orientation.
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Is Hubby Bi?
OK how is this not a concern of getting AIDS from a Bi Husband?
OK how is this not a concern of getting AIDS from a Bi Husband?
Sounds like you're associating bisexual with promiscuous. Bisexuals are just as capable of long term monogamous relationships as anyone else.
And, bisexuals are just as capable of exercising safe sex as anyone else.
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Why get hung up on a label?
Totally agree with klip, your hubby likes it and you obviously like it. that's hot and you're both lucky to have it to share.
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I agree with most of the other comments. Don't worry about the label. If him getting a cock in his mouth turns you both on, then just enjoy that. I would love to be in his shoes....Licking your pussy and getting to suck on a cock at the same time is a huge turn on. The next step for him would be to suck a load of cum out of the guy or to lick your cum filled pussy clean
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For me, sex is in the mind and the actions are just a way to fulfill a desire--or the desire for the ones you are having sex. My guess would be that at some point there would be more action between them, but isn't that what sex is for? Exploring what life has to offer is all he's doing and hopefully turning you on as well.
I'm with many on this post, don't worry about the label and have fun. If he starts to prefer men, then you two should talk. Perhaps you should talk with him anyway as we are completely removed from what you and he are feeling. Communication can be a huge turn on if it is not judgemental...good luck!
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Don't put labels, encourage him, let him get comfortable and see how far he goes. Titles really don't matter, you're having a great time with 2 men enjoy it and stop thinking
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I would need a first-hand experience to know for certain.
I think you are just pushing our buttons. Thanks for that.
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seems that there's got to be a bit of bi in just about everyone...no?
ok ok... there are some guys who determinedly deny it, but you know...ah well
ok ok... there are some guys who determinedly deny it, but you know...ah well
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That's kind of what I thought, but if that's true then there are definitely some people who would die before they admitted it.
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So many people have it pounded into their heads that same sex fun is BAAAAAD! and well get them a ticket to hell, so the repress the urges. Eventually a lot of them end up being really fucked up, pour souls.
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I feel sorry for them.
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So do I...They are missing out on fun with half the population.
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I am very attracted to women, but realize I enjoy both. To me being bi-sexual is a form of homosexuality and many are afraid to admit it.
Reason why I told her not to use Labels is due to pride, most men might feel embarrassed or shame and it could take away from the fun.
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I'm with the rest of the folks here: don't worry about pinning a label. You're both having fun, and the other guy doesn't seem to mind the attention, so as long as everybody's cool with the proceedings, don't make too much about what it might mean.
Heck, a good percentage of us commenting on this thread wish we had a woman like you, who's okay with 1. actually bringing another person into your marriage bed, and 2. your husband going outside the usual sexual box
Keep doing what you're doing. You're enjoying yourself and your husband is enjoying himself. Don't make a big thing of it.
Heck, a good percentage of us commenting on this thread wish we had a woman like you, who's okay with 1. actually bringing another person into your marriage bed, and 2. your husband going outside the usual sexual box
Keep doing what you're doing. You're enjoying yourself and your husband is enjoying himself. Don't make a big thing of it.
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I've said for some time now, that we should have moved past the lables along time ago and just see our selvs as either a-sexuals or sexuals. I know my self good enuff, or atleast I think I do, to know that I cant ever see my self in a pure gay relationship, so atleast I know I'm not gay. But, do I get turned on by gay or bisexual sex, sure, do I sometimes fantazise about trying it out, yup. But when I think about it, I get turned on by seeing other ppl that are horny and enjoying them selvs. There's too many labels these days, and defining them often means dragging parts from different tags together and we just end up blurring the lines and causing more confusion. First it was what, LG, then LBG, then LBGT, and now theres the LBGTQ and LBGTQ+...
As for the on topic part, sure, one could say that OP's hubby is somewhat bi, but does it really matter? If you're happy, and you both get enjoyment and satisfaction out it, dont stop and question the terminology too hard. Let your hubby do what ever feels right then and there. And as for the OP herself, I wishd every woman was this openminded about it. Would make it sooooooo much easier for us guys too
As for the on topic part, sure, one could say that OP's hubby is somewhat bi, but does it really matter? If you're happy, and you both get enjoyment and satisfaction out it, dont stop and question the terminology too hard. Let your hubby do what ever feels right then and there. And as for the OP herself, I wishd every woman was this openminded about it. Would make it sooooooo much easier for us guys too
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He likes to put other men’s dicks in his mouth. Regardless of how they end up in there, I’m pretty sure that counts as being bi.
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No labels
Maybe some day there will be a time where labels don't really matter or exist anymore. I say just enjoy the pleasure.
Maybe some day there will be a time where labels don't really matter or exist anymore. I say just enjoy the pleasure.
