A few months back after a long time my wife told me she likes the idea of being submissive. So we bought some items ( handcuffs ropes nipple toys flogger and a paddle.). The problem is is that im not a super dominant person. Ive been able to do what she wanted a few times but not very often. Also i thonk about it a lot but when it comes time i have a hard time doing it. Weve watched bondage porn and i get ideas but usually cant go through witb them. I wanted to check out a club but she wasnt to hip on the idea. I guess one question i have is are there online classes to watch or join. Also im looking for ideas here. Anything constructive would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for reading