I need advice. This is an actual problem I have and I don't know how to deal with it at the moment
So, my long distance boyfriend visited me a while ago, and he was really pushy about wanting to have sex.. Before meeting him I used to be turned on all the time and I really thought I wanted to do it with him, but when we met those feelings just stopped.. and I just wasn't turned on at all. So I started thinking I was asexual, but that didn't feel quite right, I mean I could go months without feeling any sexual pleasure, but occasionally it did happen..
However, I started to feel that I really needed to explore my sexuality, so I started chatting with people who were dom, and how they talked about it just really turned me on. I wanna be dominated.
The only problem I have is.. I wanna be submissive, but not all the time, and I'm afraid if I tell my boyfriend, it's all or nothing.. Or maybe he won't like it..
I just hate it when my man does submissive things that aren't manly, I'm kind of into patriarchal men..
Also, how do I tell my boyfriend that I wanna explore this?
So, my long distance boyfriend visited me a while ago, and he was really pushy about wanting to have sex.. Before meeting him I used to be turned on all the time and I really thought I wanted to do it with him, but when we met those feelings just stopped.. and I just wasn't turned on at all. So I started thinking I was asexual, but that didn't feel quite right, I mean I could go months without feeling any sexual pleasure, but occasionally it did happen..
However, I started to feel that I really needed to explore my sexuality, so I started chatting with people who were dom, and how they talked about it just really turned me on. I wanna be dominated.
The only problem I have is.. I wanna be submissive, but not all the time, and I'm afraid if I tell my boyfriend, it's all or nothing.. Or maybe he won't like it..
I just hate it when my man does submissive things that aren't manly, I'm kind of into patriarchal men..
Also, how do I tell my boyfriend that I wanna explore this?